Love, Babies, and Pimping Out Your Life #fillthelovebucket

June 7th, 2017 Posted in The Love Bucket® | No Comments »

There are a lot of ways to fill The Love Bucket®

One way is to share your love, everywhere in everyway.  And by everywhere, we mean social media.

Whether you use Periscope or Facebook Live, you instantly have an audience to broadcast your love and your life.  Our friends at Periscope tell us you can instantly become a talk tour guide, talk show host, or commentator for your Twitter audience. Just remember to start with a full battery in an area with little or no background noise.

Apparently, Facebook is prioritizing and promoting live video right now. Facebook is promoting FB Live videos right now into news feeds. When you go live that chances are that anyone on Facebook at that moment will see it at the top of their newsfeed.

Facebook has made live video even more findable with their new Live Maps that promotes Live videos happening around the world. This makes our live videos even more findable by people beyond those who like our Facebook pages which is one of the advantages that Periscope used to hold over Facebook.

Back to filling The Love Bucket®  If the Contact Ring of Desire has a public consideration, then FB live is the way to go. 

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Look at this announcement from expectant parents, Nick and Megan Unsworth.  The have a baby boy, Aiden, at the end of last year, and now Megan is 20 weeks pregnant with their second child. 

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Here’s the email copy from Nick with subject line: Wanna join the surprise with Megan and I?

Hey hey!

  Holy moly I’m like a little kid the night before Christmas waiting for presents lol.  Remember what that felt like?  So fun.

So my amazing wife Megan is 20 weeks pregnant and we are going to find out whether we’re having a boy or girl tonight :)))

We decided to turn it into a fun little event and Facebook live.
I’m going to blind fold Megan and she’s gonna wack a piñata that’s filled with either blue or pink candy (Starbursts I hope lol).

So if you’d like to join us in the festivities just head to our Life on Fire Facebook page at 7:30pm June 7th for the Facebook live

https://www.facebook.com/nickunsworthlifeonfire/

***Megan and I will be surprised as well…the nurse put the results in a sealed envelope and the good folks at Party City filled the piñata for us.

Now in full transparency…I did try to find the envelope twice at home!  lol

Good thing Megan hid it from me hahaa.  She’s the one with all the discipline.

I love surprises and if you want to join us and share in this fun moment come on by the Facebook live and say hi.

Hope you’re having an amazing day!!

Nick "Curious George" Unsworth

P.S.  What’s your guess, boy or girl!?? 

Filling The Love Bucket® with deep intimacy

April 22nd, 2017 Posted in 7 Rings of Desire, Drive Her Desire, Seduction, SEX | No Comments »

Is deep intimacy is lacking in your relationship?

It is understandable why so few couples reach the level of deep, deep intimacy.

Vulnerability can be downright scary.

Filling The Love Bucket® is an easy concept but their may be obstacles in your way.

Perhaps you’ve been hurt once or many times when you exposed your deepest longings and passions. But chances are you haven’t even come close to experiencing mutual vulnerability in your relationships.

Here are some steps you can take to deepen the intimacy and the Sex Ring of Desire with your partner.

1.  Take baby steps. Don’t share your entire life story when you are new in a relationship. If you’ve been in a relationship for a long time, don’t suddenly *spill your guts* about everything you’ve ever thought of, dreamed of, fantasized about. Build your castle one brick at a time.

Whenever you have the opportunity (date night for instance) share maybe one new thing that you’ve never talked about before. Taking your time will not only build trust, it will build a stronger foundation for your relationship to rest upon.

2.  Make time and space for deep sharing. It is hard to share personal thoughts and ideas if you have kids running around or while sitting in the spectator stands at a sports match.

Seek out private places like parks, nature walks, candlelit dining tables or even backyards watching fireflies.  Sometimes having a beverage and/or a snack can help slow you down and give you enough time to begin some important conversations.

3.  Talk about intimate issues. You can’t grow deeply if all you ever talk about is the kids and work. Your sexual life is (or will be if you are working towards that goal) an incredibly important part of cementing you two together. The bonds you build are directly related to how open and honest each of you can be about your intimate desires.

Bringing up "sex talk" can be uncomfortable, can’t it? And depending on how you approach it, the questions and answers might be so vague that you really don’t accomplish much.

One of the best ways I discovered to make these discussions fun and non-threatening is to make our way through a list of questions that someone else wrote so there isn’t that feeling of "I wonder why he/she is asking that question".

Michael has used the experience of helping couples over the last 20 years to create a resource that will help create the deep intimacy you crave.

==> 500 Questions to activate the SEX Ring of Desire

An effective way to go through questions like this is to have them on your night stand or even cut up and put in a jar or box where you pull out one or more to answer.

Deep intimacy takes time and effort to achieve but like building a castle a brick at a time you eventually have a fortress that can weather almost any attack.

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Shine up the Sex Ring of Desire and Fill The Love Bucket®!

Love and the Lasting Relationship #Valentines

February 14th, 2017 Posted in Dating, Mating, Relating, The Love Bucket® | No Comments »

This Valentine’s Day give love to another unconditionally – The simplest way to fill The Love Bucket.

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We all want love and spend time searching for a lasting relationship. But, soon after we find it, many start running in the opposite direction. It always seems as if relationships are difficult; difficult to find, difficult to keep and enjoy.

The fundamental truth is, there is no inherent problem with relationships.  “Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.” ~Rumi

There is never a scarcity of relationships or love. Love is our natural condition, why aren’t we in it all the time? What keeps us from this love we are so hungry for?

In dating, the usual answer is that there are no good men or women around, or that there is something essentially wrong with me.

The truth is that we don’t know what love really is. We fall in love with a fantasy and when it starts to wear off and the real person peeks through, we recoil. Where has the love gone? We complain. That person hasn’t fulfilled our longings or dreams. We become so disappointed.

The answer is that the love hasn’t gone anywhere, because it wasn’t love from the start. We haven’t been in love with that person, we haven’t known them. We’ve fallen in love with a fantasy, dreaming of what that fantasy will do for us.
When the person before you appears and you know everything about them, and still love them, that is love.

A great teacher Virginia Lloyd, once put it beautifully, she said, "Love is wanting for the other what they want for themselves, even if you aren’t the one who is able to give it to them."

Love isn’t about getting your own needs and dreams met, it’s about opening your hand and giving. And as Rumi the poet said, ‘Open your hands if you want to be held.’ ~Rumi

Love is based in action. Pure-hearted giving, with no thought of what is coming in return is not only a wonderful gift to the other, it is the ultimate gift to yourself as well. Try and see.

“Lovers don’t finally meet somewhere. They’re in each other all along.” ~Rumi

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By Dr Brenda Shoshana shared by Dr Harlan Kilstein

Sex Ring of Desire of The Love Bucket®

February 9th, 2017 Posted in 7 Rings of Desire, SEX, The Love Bucket® | No Comments »

This weekend lovers will be celebrating Valentine’s early and as many couples do, they will be having celebration sex.   Will you fill The Love Bucket® in 2017?

But will your sex be sub-par or mind-bending?  Time to shine up the Sex Ring of Desire…

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Here are 3 important factors towards a better sex life.

DEBUNKING SEX MYTHS FOR YOUR PLEASURE

Answer: Yes or no
1) People are "doing what comes naturally" in sex and that’s good.
2) You never got any sex education from your parents, but other people did.
3) Menopause reduces her hormones and lowers her libido.

If you answered Yes to any of these, you have been misguided.
Yes, sex is a natural human ability but only the part about procreation. All the rest… the pleasuring and the recreation (rather than sex for procreation) is all LEARNED.
And if you are not actively learning new pleasuring methods, you are not as good a lover as you can be.|

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KNOWLEDGE IS PLEASURE

Probably: You never got any sex education from your parents, but other people did.
Wrong again. Almost everyone I speak to says that their parents never told them anything about sex. They feel like they have been left behind. Like other people know things they don’t know.
Nope.
Your parents might have even tried to talk to you about sex. But think back to when you were a nerdy little teen. Did you even WANT your parents to talk about sex? Doubtful! I’m sure if they tried, you didn’t make it easy.
The reality is that there are a very few places where you can learn the correct information about making love. Porn is NOT the place to learn. That is a $97 billion dollar industry that has one goal – to get men to bust a nut as fast as possible. More than 90% of porn exhibits the degradation of women – women like your sisters, your mother, and your daughters.

See Steamy Sex Ed® Video Collection – the best place I know (besides books, which are dry but informative) to actually SEE how to have hot sex. Check out the video samplers.
So don’t feel alone or different if nobody taught you about sex. Join the club of people DOING something about learning! Get your copy now before they are all snatched up by couples and singles who are going to have the best sex of their lives.

DON’T BE LEFT OUT

False: Menopause reduces her hormones and lowers her libido.
Though it is true that when a woman’s estrogen drops during menopause she can suffer from vaginal tissue dryness and a slackening of her breast tissue. Her skin can also become leathery (all reversible with HRT)… it’s not a death blow to her libido. It doesn’t SNUFF out her libido; it just lowers it a bit. So she has to keep herself sexually active and engorged to counteract the dip in hormones.
There are women all over the globe in their 50s, 60s, 70s, 80s and yes, 90s who are having great sex. They just keep their equipment engorged and have a mindset that loves sex.
To give up one’s sexuality under the limiting belief that menopause kills your sex drive is utter bullshit.
I’ve written reams on hormones, on using lubrication, and on pussy massage to keep her vulva robust and turned on.
Bottom line: Use it or lose it.
Pussy massages are the antidote for a dried up vulva.
What could you possibly have or do that would be more personally satisfying than becoming an even more masterful lover?

Go check out the video samplers now (link above), then decide that you want to get a copy before Susan runs out of DVDs (also available digitally). 

Make this Valentine’s Day Celebration Sex Spectacular!  Fill The Love Bucket®

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Approach “Trigger” Worked 49 Times In A Row On Girls

February 3rd, 2017 Posted in Dating, Mating, Relating | No Comments »

Let me lay some truth about "attracting" and "seducing" women.

All the techniques, pickup lines and tricks mean nothing if you’re incessantly unattractive.

And I’m NOT talking about looks here.

You can be an "average-looking" guy and still meet, attract, and arouse gorgeous women you meet in public places.

Heck, you can even be a little on the stocky side and still get laid… (though I still suggest you work your butt off to get in shape for the overflowing benefits you get during sex.)

However, if you’re in terrible shape, have an unpleasant personality or you still have yesterday’s Cheetos dust on your shirt, no amount of "psychological ninja dating tricks" can get a woman to consider going out with you, much less sleep with you.

"Attracting" women boils down to just being a fun and exciting guy. So when a woman sees you, she won’t think you’re creepy.

She’ll consider hanging out with you to see if you’re fun.

She’ll feel that she can surrender to your presence.

Here are some things that Sloane Fox of Personal Life Media would suggest to significantly scale up your "attractiveness level."

LIP-LICKING LUST-INDUCING ATTRACTION

#1 Get comfortable talking to women.

Think about it. You’re going to have to talk to her at some point. You might as well get used to having a woman right up in your face.

If all you have are pickup lines, you’re going to crash and burn.

Get yourself to a point where you’re so comfortable chatting and making small talk that you won’t need to think about it.

You can do this by simply approaching women over and over again with the sole purpose of FAILING.

Walk up to a woman and say something stupid on purpose and watch for her reaction. Then get up and brush her off. Rinse and repeat.

Try it. Start with lady friends so you’ll have less pressure. Then in time, work your way up to doing this with women you don’t know… then move up to the 8’s, 9’s and the 10’s.

I know it sounds weird and counter-intuitive, but it’s quite helpful in building up your confidence fast.

Fail on purpose so many times that the thought of failing doesn’t matter anymore. Whatever apprehension or fear of rejection that you might having inside will disintegrate.

This is the REAL secret dating coaches don’t want to tell you. I just saved you hundreds, maybe thousands of dollars worth of online dating courses.

You’re welcome.

#2 Look Good. Dress Well. And Have Good Hygiene.


This is pretty obvious, but I still have to say it.

Why? Because I still get emails from guys who still don’t have this down.

They email me asking for help, and when I reach out and dig deeper into their situation, I discover that some of them don’t even shower every day, and some don’t pay any attention to their personal grooming and hygiene.

Not all guys can pull off looking good with messy hair or a bushy beard.

Find a look that works for you and stick to it.

Men in general look unbelievably attractive with a clean-looking haircut and a nice shave. Don’t buy into the current trend of man-buns and beards if you come off looking like Santa Claus in the summer heat.

Big, hairy and sweaty. Uh-uh.

#3 Don’t Be Needy


This also ties in with tip # 1. The more you actually approach women, the more confident you will feel the next time you try it out.

Women notice confidence.

We can smell it in a man.

And this turns us on like crazy.

And if you have my first two tips down, you’ll have less need for approval and attention from a woman you’re trying to attract.

Being needy and always seeking a woman’s approval and attention turns us off in an instant. It annoys us. Always remember polarity.

That’s why when you do approach a woman, don’t try too hard. In fact, you can get away with more by not trying at all.

Here’s a way for guys to get women to chase them

Try this instead of the "old way" where guys like you always had to work hard and put in A LOT of effort into trying to impress us ladies.

(CLEAN VIDEO VERSION) Get Her To Make The First Move <=== Discover The Chase Triggers That Get Women Instantly Hooked On A Man

(DIRTY VIDEO VERSION) Do This And She’ll Chase After You For Sex <=== Drive Her Wild Enough To Lust After You

There are two versions of the video. Both of them talk about "Chase Triggers."

These triggers are powerful. Do not abuse them.

Get Her Chasing You!

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