“The More Love You Give, The More Love You Get” [Fill The Love Bucket]

May 13th, 2015 Posted in The Love Bucket® | No Comments »

It is about the LOVE!!

Warren Buffett, the most successful investor of the 20th century is quoted as saying:

When you get to my age, you’ll really measure your success in life by how many people you love actually do love you. I know people who have a lot of money, and they get testimonial dinners and they get hospital wings named after them. If you get to my age in life and nobody thinks well of you, I don’t care how big your bank account is, your life is a disaster. That’s the ultimate test of how you have lived your life.

The trouble with love is that you can’t buy it. You can buy sex. You can by testimonial dinners. You can print pamphlets that say how wonderful you are. But the only way to get love is to be lovable. It’s very irritating if you have a lot of money. You’d like to think you could write a check: I’ll buy a million dollars worth of love. But it doesn’t work that way. The more you give love away, the more you get.”

Warren Buffet’s late wife, Susan, was a famously kind and loving person, and Warren has often said that marrying her was the most important decision he ever made. When Susan had cancer, he visited her in a hospital in San Francisco, then flew to Georgia to speak with a class of college students. According to Alice Schroeder’s book, The Snowball, the students asked him about his greatest success and his greatest failure.  It was at this lecture that he shared the quote above.

Now, go out and fill someone’s love bucket today!

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Fill The Love Bucket of the World: Happy Global Love Day

May 1st, 2015 Posted in The Love Bucket® | No Comments »

Fill your own love bucket first, then fill the love bucket of the whole world… such is the premise of Global Love Day (sorta).

We are one humanity on this planet.
All life is interconnected and interdependent.
All share in the Universal bond of love.
Love begins with self acceptance and forgiveness.
With respect and compassion we embrace diversity.
Together we make a difference through love.

May 1st is Global Love Day.   Global Love Day is the universal recognition of our innate oneness through love. It is the vision of The Love Foundation (we) to unite one and all in a celebration of love and compassion. We honor each May 1st as a symbolic day of unconditional love and call upon all people and all nations to gather together in the wisdom of peace and love.

When we come from this limitless love we naturally and easily embrace ourselves and our fellow humanity. Opening our heart, we allow unconditional love to be our guide and compassion to be our gift to life.

We invite you to celebrate with us by consciously focusing on love and what it means to you throughout this day. We hope that by practicing love in all areas of your life, you will find it easy to love unconditionally all year long. Our main theme explains it best…"Love Begins With Me"

Be a part of it. Spread the word. Share your love.

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Provisions Ring of Desire [Things and Experiences ] #lovebucket

March 30th, 2015 Posted in 7 Rings of Desire, The Love Bucket® | No Comments »

Presents are often thought of first when it comes to the Provisions Ring of Desire to fill her  Love Bucket. 

As said before, men can become a “pro” with “vision” to see that a woman wants when it comes to the Provisions Ring of Desire of The Love Bucket.

Is there a reason why an experience may be more appropriate than a physical present?

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Here’s why psychologists say you should spend your money on experiences, not things:  You don’t have infinite money. Spend it on stuff that research says makes you happy.

The Science Of Why You Should Spend Your Money On Experiences, Not Things

"We buy things to make us happy, and we succeed. But only for a while. New things are exciting to us at first, but then we adapt to them."

How adaptation affects happiness, for instance, was measured in a study that asked people to self-report their happiness with major material and experiential purchases. Initially, their happiness with those purchases was ranked about the same. But over time, people’s satisfaction with the things they bought went down, whereas their satisfaction with experiences they spent money on went up.

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Dr. Thomas Gilovich, a psychology professor at Cornell University suggests you’ll get more happiness spending money on experiences like going to art exhibits, doing outdoor activities, learning a new skill, or traveling.

The Full Story on Fast Company Co Exist

No Sex Tonight [How to Respond] #emptylovebucket

March 28th, 2015 Posted in 7 Rings of Desire, SEX | No Comments »

No Sex Tonight

If filling her love bucket is on your “to-do” list and if you are certain that the Sex Ring of Desire is one of her top desires, then you need to keep reading.

Here’s a super controversial seduction tip if you’ve you ever been out with a girl, particularly on a first date and she says something like …

"You know we’re not having sex tonight right?"

Well, we’ve all been there my friend.  

And it’s no fun.

Josh Pellicier and Julian Foxx have THE answer for you on how to REACT to her statement and it will determine whether or not she goes to bed with you…

Now, before they tell you how to respond, it’s important that you understand how NOT to respond.

So let’s visualize a situation…

You’re on a first date with a woman and you’re having a great time at a local bar.

Then she drops the bomb.

"We’re not having sex tonight, so don’t get your hopes up!"

How do you react?

Most guys will subconsciously reveal their disappointment, either by pausing, or being
visibly affected in any way.

And some guys will consciously reveal their disappointment, by frowning, and saying something
like…

"Well, why not?" 


So here are 3 killer tricks that help you turn this pivotal moment to your advantage

TACTIC #1:   Be PREPARED For Her To Say It!

I’ve found about 30%-40% of my first dates, will tell me that we’re "not having sex tonight"…
(and 90% of them are dead wrong icon wink No Sex Tonight [How to Respond] #emptylovebucket

The point is, 30-40% is a lot, so you should always be prepared for it.

And by the way, if your dates don’t say this to you… it means you’re probably NOT pushing the
relationship forward aggressively enough.

TACTIC #2:  Flip Her On Back!

Not literally of course. But if you take my advice, you’ll get to do that too icon wink No Sex Tonight [How to Respond] #emptylovebucket

Immediately laugh and say something like… "Whoa! I can’t believe you’re thinking about sex already! You’re going have to take me for dinner before we even think about that!  Wow, what a dirty mind you have…"

This reaction is critical because it establishes YOU as the prize, AND it creates some doubt in her mind about your true intentions.  She’ll wonder…

"Wait, does he really want me?"
  (make her wonder)

TRICK #3:  Fall In Love With Her Mind…
And now we seal the deal.  

The trick here is to really connect with her…
bond with her.  Get her to reveal personal information, and give yours in return.

Let her know how much you LOVE her personality.
And her intelligence.

She must feel that you see the real her.

When you’ve accomplished this, you’re ready to use one of the smartest lines I’ve ever come up with…

So the next time sex comes up in the conversation, say something like…

"Honestly, you’re so cool and fun to be with…

sex is really the last question mark for me."

Trust me.  This line is MONEY.

And the rationale behind it is simple:  

-We already know we like each other.  
-We already know we get along.  
-But what if we wait for weeks or months to get intimate, only to find out that we’re NOT sexually compatible?

The logic behind this technique is indisputable.
And it gives her incredible justification to sleep with you immediately.

FYI – at this point in the interaction, she may or may not agree with you.  If she sticks to her
guns, and says…

"Yeah, but we should still wait",

…don’t flinch.  AGREE with her.  

And just focus on getting her back home or to wherever you have some real privacy.

Julian and Josh say, the rest should take care of itself.
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When Sex Goes Wrong

But what if you are not dating but are in a serious relationship or married?

Philip Muskin MD of Columbia University cited these statistics:

  • Married couples report having sex 68.5 times a year (1.3 times a week) according to a 2002 University of Chicago National Opinion Research Center Report.
  • According to a 2003 cover story in Newsweek, 15 to 20 percent of couples have sex less than 10 times a year, regarded as a ‘sexless marriage.’

Found out more about Female Orgasm and how to turn her on here: Female Orgasm Explained

The Sex Ring of Desire of the Love Bucket

March 6th, 2015 Posted in 7 Rings of Desire, SEX | No Comments »

Sex and The Happy Woman

Do you now how much sex happy couples are having every month? 

A study of 400 women reported on their sex lives.

One of the considerations of the Sex Ring of Desire of the Love Bucket is frequency.  Sexual frequency versus infrequency is related to happiness.

Unhappily married women have sex about 3-4 times per month according to psychotherapist and author M. Gary Neuman.

The first two years of a relationship are usually considered to be the most exciting and then frequency of how much sex happy couples have every month changes.  As the Love Dynamic changes and the “business of living” and obligation gets in the way of romance sexual frequency changes.

Happily married women have sex 11-12 times per month.  Couples have to work to maintain the higher sexual dynamics level of intimacy and excitement after the first two years.

What are you doing to keep the love bucket filled and particular keeping the Sex Ring of Desire shined up and ready for action?  How do you drive her desire?

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