“DFS” does not Fill Her Love Bucket
July 10th, 2010 Posted in Her Love Bucket, Love Bucket, Seduction, The Love Linguist“DFS” does not Fill Her Love Bucket
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What is “DFS”? DFS: DEFINITION on Urban Dictionary DFS = Dating For Sport Example:
DFS = Dating for Sex DFS = Desperate for Sex |
Recently I read an email targeting guys who want to pick-up women.
Here’s what they say the 3 HOTTEST TOPICS are for guys who date:
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The focus of this seminar will be on the three hottest topics in Dating Science today as well as special added bonuses reserved only for seminar attendees: SAME NIGHT LAYS: Have you ever met a women at a club, and wanted to sleep with her that night! Well it’s a lot easier then you think. Learn the 3 basic rules to help master Same Night Lays! PHONE & TEXT GAME: Get the number and a fool proof plan to prevent flaking, get her dying to see you again, and learn the magic ways to get the number every time. DAY GAME: This is the most popular trend in dating science today. Learning this skill-set will allow you to meet women at any time. And I’ll let you in on a little secret…usually you come across the highest quality women during the daytime. Excerpt from Love Systems |
Dating Science. It is basic and simple psychology. It is basic and simple physical attraction. We are marvelous creatures, the human. Simple, yet so terribly complicated.
For topic one, it relates to context and the environment. I love to dance and you may often find me dancing on top of the speakers tho’ not a club.
What age are the guys who go to clubs and what’s their mentality? Not so much chronological age but mental age. The same night lays occur if you go to clubs and probably want to tell all the guys about your conquests.
Clubs, they are flashing neon for “pick up.” Easy pickin’s in the clubs because of the context and environment.
(Booty call: If she only wants her “honey love pot” filled then you may get lucky.)
But the gals who want their love bucket filled aren’t looking for a one night stand.
Topic two: Seductive and erotic text messages can ramp up the desire and passion. But if too quickly consummated the value diminishes. Men who pay for sex are willing to pay top dollar while aroused and before the act, and after being serviced, the value of the call girl is gone. So is respect.
Love is not a game. Getting a phone number, albeit important, is only the first step. Guys that want a real woman in their life do not want to play games. Yes, they tease and banter, but love is not a game. Lovematism is a BOND between lovers. Love is fun and flirtatious but it is not a game.
Topic three: Back to the clubs. It is a pick-up scene. So the “day game” as it is now being called apparently represents the highest quality women. Why, because high quality women don’t want to be picked up by men who want same night lays.
I get that sex is on the mind of men. In fact, the sex drive portion of the male brain is 2.5 times larger in men. They are driven by the primal urge to merge sexually. It is good and healthy. And, the young men who want many conquests will find women who just as easily want sex (that honey love pot wants action too). But one night stands leave out respect.
Because so many men of all ages confide in me, I know men want love not just sex. I also know that there is a time that THE SHIFT happens and guys go from DFS to DFL (dating for love). I also know that commitment is a big deal for guys and that they are driven for sex even when they are not at capable of commitment for a number of valid reasons. (See urban dictionary: The Shift)
What is sad is when a woman wants love and falls for the pick-up lines and allows her body to take over (the libido is a very powerful thing…) and then she feels hurt that the sex she has just had is only a one night stand. This has happened to high quality women.
At the end of the day, or the morning after, it is your personal choice. If you want and attract one night stands you may get your body satisfied. Short-term relief, barely satisfaction.
Eventually the longing for lovematism takes over. Then guys WANT to fill her love bucket with the words and actions that keep a women’s attention focused on you. Real LOVE renews and expands with each love-making session.
She’s Happy, He Wins, and Your Sex Life is Enhanced. That’s the Love Bucket® Formula!
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