4 Things Every Woman Wants In A Man
While every woman is different, there are certain things about a man that will make any woman take notice, and make her decide she wants to get to know you on a deeper level (and probably sleep with you).
If you want to win the right woman’s heart and fill her love bucket, you need to know what it is that makes a woman go from just feeling casual about dating you to wanting and needing you on a deeper level. I’m going to take you inside a woman’s mind you so you understand what it takes to trigger this kind of connection.
And I’m talking about a woman of substance – one who is mature and grounded on a physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual level. They are on a great path and open to growing on a deeply personal level. I’m betting that’s exactly why you’re on this site: to find a quality kind of guy – a real woman looking for a real relationship.
So what does a woman want in a man?
(1) A Woman of Substance Wants A Man Who Is Playful
There’s something that drives women wild and invites them into a deeper level of “connection” – that is play.
To keep live interesting you need to be active and to play. What activities can you enjoy together that may be fun and possibly a little competitive? Play that brings out the tantalizing tease and touch of playful sarcasm here and there – and you’ll really ramp up the attraction and interest. Get her love bucket all stirred up!
(2) A Woman of Substance Wants A Man Who Is Independent
Lots of men believe that women are looking for a “strong” man, and it’s true. A man who can inspire a woman to make you feel like you are smarter and more powerful man.
She has great things going on her own life. You need a definite purpose in your own life and one that she can respect and support.
It is up to you as man to balance her independence and success. The best way to communicate this to a woman is to stay busy in your own life and not suddenly make her your world. Don’t drop your own interests, responsibilities, and friends just to be with her. Then, when you are with her, really BE with her – have fun and give your attention to her and what you’re doing together. What matters to a woman is that, you, as a man still have space in your life for a great relationship and you’re grounded and present when you’re with her.
(3) A Woman of Substance Wants A Man Who Is Emotionally Mature
If a woman feels attracted to a man, eventually there’s going to be a situation that comes up where you and a woman will see something differently and misunderstandings occur.
How will you respond to this and share your feelings?
A man who has the maturity to not blame or criticize a woman for what she’s feeling, but to share his feelings in an honest and authentic way that helps a woman better understand him will be attractive to a woman of substance. How a man handles her emotions is one of the most important things women look for when deciding whether or not to get serious with a man. Note, as a man, if she lets her emotions get out of control, this is a big red flag to you.
On the other hand, if you can present your feelings to her in a calm, non-dramatic, non-blaming manner, she will win your respect and you’ll make her feel like you’re the kind of man who will be a real partner to her. She’ll see that you can handle things with a cool head rather than having to retreat from your tantrum.
(4) A Woman of Substance Wants A Man She’s Intensely Attracted To (Physical Passion)
Fact: No one wants to be in a relationship where there is no passion or physical attraction.
Relax and let things happen naturally. Make sure you do and say things that interject fun and humor into your relationship from the very start. There’s nothing more appealing to a woman than a great man who knows how to relax and have fun and make her laugh!
You can do this through playful teasing, flirting, humor, and being with good surprises. Ask her questions about what makes her tick and what are her dreams? Once you’re in a relationship, don’t be afraid to mix things up. Get out of the routine and suggest something completely different like a hike to a new area or a picnic on the beach. Changing things up keeps the relationship fun for both of you, and being a man who is open to new experiences is very attractive to her.