Filling Your Love Bucket With A Fortune
Wednesday, June 29th, 2011 Posted in 7 Rings of Desire, Dating, Mating, Relating, Gifts, Her Love Bucket, Lifestyle, Love Dynamics, Lovematism, Romance, Sherrie Rose Recommends, The Love Bucket®, The Love Linguist®, The Man Class Series | No Comments »Can You Fill Her Love Bucket?
FORTUNE — Operating a successful business is supposed to be a ticket to the good life — but sometimes it comes at a cost. The following Fortune Magazine article is annotated by Sherrie Rose, The Love Linguist, with tips to help guys fill the love bucket and understand how to stay in the (benevolent) power position and remain the Chairman of the Relationship, not just the Chairman of the Board.
Story: Stephen Adele was too busy building his $20 million Golden, Colo., nutritional supplements company, iSatori, to spend much time with his wife and three children.
"I would try to compensate by buying her and my family things," he recalls. The cars and jewelry didn’t work, of course, and the couple just got divorced. => If the Provisions Ring of Desire is not one of her priority Rings of Desire of the Love Bucket, no fancy gifts or presents will make woman happy. <= Stephen Adele is now, finally, spending more time with his three daughters. Here’s a little advice that might help you avoid matrimonial discord.
- 1. Keep a flexible schedule
You may not be able to work less, but you probably have time to take a few items off your spouse’s to-do list. Brad Dresbach, co-founder of the Columbus branding and marketing firm 42Fish, tackles such daily errands for his family as picking up birthday cakes — relieving stress for his wife, Danielle, who has a much more inflexible corporate job. => This is the DO FOR Ring of Desire of the Love Bucket. Again, if this is not one of her priority rings of desire, hire a personal assistant for these tasks. Check out the 5 Love Dynamics: Acclimating Dynamic which all about the business of living, chores, household, etc.
2. Ration e-mail time
When you’re home, be present. Jeff Booth, CEO of BuildDirect, a 63-employee building materials retailer, has a wife, Kelly, who posts what a great dad he is on Facebook, though he spends 60 hours a week working. He attributes that to shutting off his phone as soon as he gets home so he can enjoy activities with her and their children– instead of checking e-mail poolside. => This is one of those common sense things that both men and women ignore. Giving attention especially when you are in physical proximity is a key to love success. If you are out of town, sweet-nothing voice mails, sexy texts (goes for guys and gals) may give her some attention and fun.
3. Hold family summits
D.J. Rezak, founder of KB Building Services, a commercial cleaning company in Omaha, credits weekly meetings with keeping the family organized and freeing up time for him to spend with his wife, Lisa. The family pauses during Sunday dinners to talk about the week, discuss upcoming plans, and hold an occasional talent show. "It makes it feel like our family is a priority," says Lisa. => Repeat from above - Check out the 5 Love Dynamics: Acclimating Dynamic which all about the business of living, chores, household, etc..
4. Share your interests
It’s easy to get so caught up in your own thing that you ignore your partner’s pursuits. Razor Suleman, CEO of I Love Rewards, a Boston rewards and recognition business with $50 million in sales, tries to avoid that mistake. He joined his wife, Kari, a web developer, at a summit she needed to go to for work. "It was amazing that Razor took an interest in an event that I was excited to attend," she says. "It sparked a dialogue we would not have had otherwise." => This is a great tip starting with the Recognition Ring of Desire and the Do With and Lifestyle Rings of Desire of the Love Bucket. This is a triple win for a man and she’s HAPPY!
5. Schedule regular vacations
Brad Feld, founder of VC firm Foundry Group, started scheduling regular vacations after his wife, Amy Batchelor, almost dumped him for working during an entire weekend trip. They now have one-week vacations each quarter — known as their "Qx vacation." The ground rules? He unplugs completely, giving her his smartphone. "She gives it back the following week," he says. Colleagues work around it, and Feld stays married. => The Do With and Lifestyle Rings of Desire of the Love Bucket are active here. Check out the 5 Love Dynamics on how to the Cultivating Dynamic works to build more lovematism in your relationship.
–Verne Harnish is a Fortune Magazine contributor and the CEO of Gazelles Inc., an executive education firm. Source: http://money.cnn.com/2011/06/27/smallbusiness/business_marriage_balance.fortune/index.htm
There are many ways to fill the love bucket. If you don’t know the details, you can’t drive her desire. Guys, get the man class – The Man Class Accelerator!
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The Love Linguist
Dedicated to Enhancing Your Love and S*X Life!
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Father’s Day Fills The Love Bucket
Sunday, June 19th, 2011 Posted in Gifts, Lifestyle, The Love Bucket® | No Comments »
The Love Bucket is what this blog is all about and without father’s there would be no love bucket. The concept of the love bucket is with a loving couple who fill each other’s love buckets. A father ideally fills his wife’s love bucket. When her love bucket is full the family feels it. You know the saying, “Happy Wife, Happy Life.”
Every where go there are reminders of Father’s Day. Sings on storefronts, Father’s Day Specials, Father’s Day Gifts, and of course, Google has added the standard Father’s Day Tie in there logo for Father’s Day.
Of course, all the kids are saying they have the World’s Greatest Dad. And they do! In their universe, their father IS the World’s Greatest Dad!
If you’re chosen to have children in your lifestyle, you are probably be in honored today. As a child, you can honor your father today. Here’s some background on the Father’s Day Holiday.
Check out the Father’s Day update on the Mother’s Day Post in May.
Sherrie Rose
The Love Linguist
Dedicated to Enhancing Your Love and S*X Life!
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Love Bucket Ring of Desire Now in a Sweet Talking Ken Doll
Friday, June 17th, 2011 Posted in 7 Rings of Desire, Dating, Mating, Relating, Gifts, Love Dynamics, Romance, The Love Bucket® | No Comments »{EAV_BLOG_VER:ea432cd746558ab8}
Why is a Sweet Talking Doll the rage among young girls? Why do women say they wish their boyfriend or husband would give them 5 seconds of sweet talk?
It all has to do with the Recognition Ring of Desire and the Contact Ring of Desire of the Love Bucket. More on the Rings of Desire in a moment.
Here’s what this Barbie Sweet Talkin’ Ken Doll is all about:
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The Barbie Sweet Talking Ken Doll says whatever you want him to say – press, start talking and he records up to 5 seconds of sound, and plays back in his male voice. Just press the button on Ken’s chest to record your voice – a tiny microphone is built into his chest – and then by pressing 3 different buttons on Kens lower back you can playback in a thre3 different tones: deep, actual or high voice tones. What would you like your Ken doll to say today? Sweet talk, of course! Barbie is a reflection of the times and always culturally relevant and this electronic chat is modern without being trendy. Not so sure about Ken? What would Justin Bieber say ? |
So what does this have to do with the Rings of Desire of the Love Bucket?
The Recognition Ring of Desire is when a woman wants to be recognized and that can come in the form of verbal recognition, such as a compliment or words of love such as “I love you.”
The guys who are in the dating dynamic use a lot of compliments which is when you are in physical proximity and face to face situation:
1. How she carries herself or how shy moves. Most men enjoy a woman who moves beautifully or who has great posture. Tell her: "I just wanted to tell you… I think you have perfect… posture. You just carry yourself so beautifully."
2. How she is dressed. Compliment on her style. Say: "I just wanted to tell you… I admire women with class and style and that’s definitely you…"
3. Compliment her on their "energy." I know this is a New Age, California kind of thing, but women are into "energy" and "vibes." Say: "You’ve got great energy, your eyes are radiant and there’s a nice aura about you…
The Contact Ring of Desire comes in several forms and in physical proximity and face to face it has to do with physical contact, caressing, stroking with your fingertips, and skin contact, etc. But when you are out of proximity, the Contact Ring of Desire has to do with electronic contact. That is receiving messages such as voice mail, text, email, or any form of message that connects you when you are apart.
In fact, if you splurged the $19 on this Ken doll and recorded 5 seconds of “Hey Gorgeous, you’re the hottest and I can’t wait to see you tonight!" you would definitely fill your woman’s love bucket. And, it would probably get her laughing!
Sherrie Rose
The Love Linguist
Dedicated to Enhancing Your Love and S*X Life!
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The most amazing marriage PROPOSAL fills the love bucket! Sean & Mindie’s engagement
Saturday, May 14th, 2011 Posted in Dating, Mating, Relating, Gifts, Heart, Her Love Bucket, Love Dynamics, Masterman, Mastermen, Romance, The Love Bucket®, The Love Linguist® | 2 Comments »There are a few times in your life that you know you are in the right place, with the right people, and have been granted an “exclusive” pass to witness the truest passion of the heart.
I experienced this moment on Saturday evening, May 14th, 2011. It will be indelibly etched in my happy memories and it filled my love bucket with immense peace, love, and possibility.
Just watch the video below and see for yourself as Sean fills Mindie’s Love Bucket…
A deeply heartwarming ENGAGEMENT proposal by Sean Stephenson to Mindie Kniss witnessed by many who love and support the beautiful couple!
Sean is an amazing man. You can learn more about him here: http://timetostand.com/ You can see him on his own TV show, “3 Foot Giant”, speaking in front of 1200 people and see raving reviews of his latest book, Get Off Your ‘But’ (after meeting Sean you should have no buts or excuses left!) You can learn more about his adorable financee, Mindie, here: http://mindiekniss.com/ and her Restart Your Heart interviews. People say Mindie’s genuine approach, knowledge, and upbeat attitude takes you from average to awesome!
The evening event did not mention a marriage proposal… here was the invitation:
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Music, wine, an inspirational lecture on love with Sean Stephenson and Mindie Kniss, and an array of amazing people. Great music, great people, inspiring talks and wine. Sean takes the floor at 8:30pm. Live music at 9:30. Wear your dancing shoes and slap on your best smile. The event is being held at the beautiful home of photographers Philip Dixon and Véronique Vial. Dixon is a fashion photographer and Vial is an art photographer who has published several books. Photos below by Barry Selby |
Mindie & Sean
Mindie & Sean
Onlookers to the amazing proposal
Vishen and Sean
Here are the lyrics by Auburn to the song the Perfect Two; the background music to Sean’s proposal:
Verse1
You can be the peanut butter to my jelly
You can be the butterflies I feel in my belly
You can be the captain
And I can be your first mate
You can be the chills that I feel on our first date
You can be the hero
And I can be your sidekick
You can be the tear That I cry if we ever split
You can be the rain from the cloud when it’s stormin’
Or u can be the sun when it shines in the mornin’
Chorus
Don’t know if I could ever be Without you
‘Cause boy you complete me
And in time I know that we’ll both see That we’re all we need
Cause you’re the apple to my pie
You’re the straw to my berry
You’re the smoke to my high
And you’re the one I wanna marry
Cause you’re the one for me (for me)
And I’m the one for you (for you)
You take the both of us (of us)
And we’re the perfect two
We’re the perfect two
We’re the perfect two
Baby me and you
We’re the perfect two
Verse 2
You can be the prince and I can be your princess
You can be the sweet tooth I can be the dentist
You can be the shoes and I can be the laces
You can be the heart that I spill on the pages
You can be the vodka and I can be the chaser
You can be the pencil and I can be the paper
You can be as cold as the winter weather
But I don’t care as long as were together
Chorus
Don’t know if I could ever be
Without you ’cause boy you complete me
And in time I know that we’ll both see
That we’re all we need
Cause you’re the apple to my pie
You’re the straw to my berry
You’re the smoke to my high
And you’re the one I wanna marry
Cause you’re the one for me (for me)
And I’m the one for you (for you)
You take the both of us (of us)
And we’re the perfect two
We’re the perfect two
We’re the perfect two
Baby me and you
We’re the perfect two
Verse 3
You know that I’ll never doubt ya
And you know that I think about ya
And you know I can’t live without ya
I love the way that you smile
And maybe in just a while
I can see me walk down the aisle
Cause you’re the apple to my pie
You’re the straw to my berry
You’re the smoke to my high
And you’re the one I wanna marry
Cause you’re the one for me (for me)
And I’m the one for you (for you)
You take the both of us (of us)
And we’re the perfect two
We’re the perfect two
We’re the perfect two
Baby me and you
We’re the perfect two (yeah, yeah)
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It was a gift to witness such an amazing marriage proposal. Thank you Sean and Mindie for sharing your love and may your love buckets fill with lovematism and constantly expand to receive more love! CONGRATULATIONS!!!
Sherrie Rose
The Love Linguist
Dedicated to Enhancing Your Love and S*X Life!
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P.S. If this marriage proposal doesn’t rock your socks, read about the tribute Anthony Hopkins gave to his wife earlier in the day on May 14th that fills The Love Bucket®!!!
Just Like My Child Fills The Love Bucket on Mother’s Day!
Sunday, May 8th, 2011 Posted in Gifts, Heart, The Love Bucket® | 1 Comment »
Vivian Glyck started Just Like My Child Foundation because she couldn’t believe that children in Africa, who are just like her son, were living in such extremely dangerous and vulnerable conditions.
This year, Just Like My Child Foundation is filling the love bucket of children in Uganda with school supplies.
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Micheal Koenigs and his wife Vivian.
Mike recognizes and supports the www.JustLikeMyChild.org Foundation started by Vivian Glyck |
I learned of Just Like My Child a few years ago. One of the ways a man gets to be a hero at home is to recognize the essence, the inner passion, of his special lady. Recognition is one of the 7 Rings of Desire of Her Love Bucket. Mike’s wife, Vivian, had a passion to create a charity foundation Just Like My Child, to help less-fortunate children in Uganda.
Mike Koenigs and Frank Kern made it their business to assist the Just Like My Child foundation with donations from various seminars and training. Mike and Frank took proceeds from the sales and donated 100% to the Just Like My Child foundation.
Mike Koenigs continues to support the Just Like My Child Foundation. He is a hero who recognizes his wife Vivian’s essential passion, and taking action to contribute and participate in something that truly makes a beneficial difference in so many lives.
Along this line, you know how every time you go to a conference, you’re given a mass-produced tote bag with the logo of the sponsoring organization? Well, this year, Traffic Geyser, Mike Koenigs company, did something a little different — and it created a BIG change.
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Exhibiting it’s commitment to global consciousness, Traffic Geyser purchased conference bags for its Social Media Marketing Machines event from women at the Asili Hospital in Uganda who are on AIDS treatment and ready to come back to life!
Each bag is handmade, and through this income-generating project women are sending their children to school and supporting their families. Each bag represents a woman whose heavy load has been lifted just a little bit by being given the opportunity to create her own solutions. |
TheMessenger Bag was just the beginning. Traffic Geyser’s Social Media Marketing Machines event, held March 12 and 13th, 2011, helped to raise enough money for Just Like My Child Foundation to purchase a desperately-needed new vehicle for Asili Hospital in Uganda, invest in small businesses for over 500 families recovering from AIDS, and helped to fund badly-needed medical equipment!
Entrepreneurs on this side of the world helping entrepreneurs on the other side of the world to be self-sustaining is one of the fastest ways to alleviate poverty. Thank you, Traffic Geyser and Traffic Geyser customers for your support!
Note from Vivian’s April Newsletter: Flash forward five years, Just Like My Child, has among other things, funded a new hospital, micro-enterprise programs, and the construction of six new schools. Everything we do is a HAND UP, NEVER A HAND OUT.
Just after Mother’s Day, on May 13th, for the first time, my 8-year-old boy will be coming with me to Uganda (it’s my 13th visit). He is really excited, and also pretty nervous since he’s learned a little too much about malaria. Don’t worry, we’ll keep him malaria-free 
Many children in Uganda go to school with NO school supplies, and have to sit in the dirt because there are no desks or chairs. Even though we’ve built many school buildings, the Ugandan government does not have the funding to equip the schools with the most basic necessities like books, chairs, desks, tables, pencils, markers, chalk and crayons.
Watch this touching Mother’s Day story, "How Much Do You Love Me?"
This powerful tribute only takes 3 minutes to watch but the message will last a lifetime. Turn up your speakers and enjoy!
Make a donation today to www.JustLikeMyChild.org and feel good about yourself!
Dedicated to Enhancing Your Love (and S*x!) Life
Sherrie Rose
The Love Linguist
P.S. Have a Wonderful Mother’s Day!
UPDATE JUST BEFORE FATHER’S DAY June 17, 2011
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FROM: Vivian Glyck Some people thought I was crazy. But I did it anyway because I knew we’d be fine. Despite an Ebola scare and political instability, I took my husband, Mike, and my 8-year-old son to Uganda to visit Just Like My Child’s projects. My son raised money and delivered nearly $3000 worth of school supplies to orphans and Just Like My Child’s schools. He also ate fried crickets and had his first sighting of giraffes on the beautiful Ugandan savannah. But that’s a story for another time! My husband, an entrepreneur, was so blown away by how we’re helping to create thousands of entrepreneurs on the other side of the world, that he created this video: A Hand UP, NEVER a Hand Out. And he’s helped us to raise thousands of dollars to give people the hope, dignity, and freedom of economic independence.
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We got so inspired when we were in Uganda about our sustainable programs that we’re calling our annual gala: A Hand Up, NEVER a Hand Out! |
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A Hand Up, NEVER a Hand Out! |
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Help fill a love bucket and give a hand up to this worthy cause.
