Fill The Love Bucket with Laughs and Smiles!
Sunday, July 10th, 2011 Posted in Heart, Intellisense, The Love Bucket® | No Comments »How Smiles Really Work (to fill the love bucket)
Emotional Intellisense and Social Intellisense are part of the physical experience because you can sense and see what is happening in the body and FACE of another person.
A fake smile uses only the zygomatic major muscle — the one that runs from your jaw to the corner of your mouth. It’s easy to control this muscle, so it leads to fake smile. Guy Kawasaki has said this was called “Pan American smiles” (because Pan American flight attendants supposedly weren’t truly happy to see passengers). We’ll have to check the new Pan Am tv show this fall!
A “real” smile uses the orbicularis oculi muscle, too. This muscle surrounds your eyes, and it makes you squint and produces crow’s-feet (laugh lines). A great smile is so special that it has its own name: the Duchenne smile, in honor of Guillaume Duchenne, a French neurologist. I honestly thought it was after some Royal Duchess who lived in the happiest kingdom; alas, just a romantic notion!
Ladies, make laugh lines aka crow’s-feet and for the sake of your smile, skip the Botox treatments and face-lifts.
Emotional intellisense is being able to sense what is happening emotionally in another person. A great smile is a give away and you can tell if it is a real smile. Social intellisense is paying attention to what is happening in social circles (time will tell if the digital social circles in G+ Google Plus will have this ability). So when you meet people you like, think happy and pleasant thoughts, it is the orbicularis oculi muscle that gets activated.
If you have your intellisense tuned in, you can can even tell is someone is smiling when you are speaking to them on the phone and shining the ever popular Contact Ring of Desire of The Love Bucket!
A real smile comes from the heart not the head. A genuine smile fills the love bucket!
Keep laughing! Keep smiling!
Sherrie Rose
The Love Linguist
Dedicated to Enhancing Your Love and S*X Life!
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No Regrets – Go Fill A Love Bucket Now!
Monday, June 13th, 2011 Posted in Heart, Lovematism, The Love Bucket® | No Comments »Life is too short to have regrets – So Go Fill A Love Bucket Now!
Love seems to come to top of mind just like the KISSED
graphic above – You SHOULD kiss your lover more!
Top Five Regrets Before Dying
Based on 500+ interviews of people at the end of their lives going through “a variety of emotions…denial, fear, anger, remorse, more denial and eventually acceptance…When asked about any regrets they had or anything they would do differently, here are the 5 most common answers:
1. I wish I’d lived the life I wanted, not the life others expected of me.
2. I wish I didn’t work so hard.
3. I wish I’d had the courage to express my feelings.
4. I wish I had stayed in touch with my friends.
5. I wish that I had let myself be happier. (fill my own love bucket- good place to start)
6. I wish I had filled my lover’s love bucket (added to make the point!)
You can fix these NOW, not when your dying. Go fill a love bucket and maybe even kiss someone today!
So who’s love bucket you going to fill today. Yours, His, Hers? Remember the motto: ENRICH OTHERS!
Share the love, share the lovematism, and go fill a love bucket today!
Annotated Cited Perry Belcher on June 9, 2011 · via Original Source http://www.inspirationandchai.com/Regrets-of-the-Dying.html
The most amazing marriage PROPOSAL fills the love bucket! Sean & Mindie’s engagement
Saturday, May 14th, 2011 Posted in Dating, Mating, Relating, Gifts, Heart, Her Love Bucket, Love Dynamics, Masterman, Mastermen, Romance, The Love Bucket®, The Love Linguist® | 2 Comments »There are a few times in your life that you know you are in the right place, with the right people, and have been granted an “exclusive” pass to witness the truest passion of the heart.
I experienced this moment on Saturday evening, May 14th, 2011. It will be indelibly etched in my happy memories and it filled my love bucket with immense peace, love, and possibility.
Just watch the video below and see for yourself as Sean fills Mindie’s Love Bucket…
A deeply heartwarming ENGAGEMENT proposal by Sean Stephenson to Mindie Kniss witnessed by many who love and support the beautiful couple!
Sean is an amazing man. You can learn more about him here: http://timetostand.com/ You can see him on his own TV show, “3 Foot Giant”, speaking in front of 1200 people and see raving reviews of his latest book, Get Off Your ‘But’ (after meeting Sean you should have no buts or excuses left!) You can learn more about his adorable financee, Mindie, here: http://mindiekniss.com/ and her Restart Your Heart interviews. People say Mindie’s genuine approach, knowledge, and upbeat attitude takes you from average to awesome!
The evening event did not mention a marriage proposal… here was the invitation:
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Music, wine, an inspirational lecture on love with Sean Stephenson and Mindie Kniss, and an array of amazing people. Great music, great people, inspiring talks and wine. Sean takes the floor at 8:30pm. Live music at 9:30. Wear your dancing shoes and slap on your best smile. The event is being held at the beautiful home of photographers Philip Dixon and Véronique Vial. Dixon is a fashion photographer and Vial is an art photographer who has published several books. Photos below by Barry Selby |
Mindie & Sean
Mindie & Sean
Onlookers to the amazing proposal
Vishen and Sean
Here are the lyrics by Auburn to the song the Perfect Two; the background music to Sean’s proposal:
Verse1
You can be the peanut butter to my jelly
You can be the butterflies I feel in my belly
You can be the captain
And I can be your first mate
You can be the chills that I feel on our first date
You can be the hero
And I can be your sidekick
You can be the tear That I cry if we ever split
You can be the rain from the cloud when it’s stormin’
Or u can be the sun when it shines in the mornin’
Chorus
Don’t know if I could ever be Without you
‘Cause boy you complete me
And in time I know that we’ll both see That we’re all we need
Cause you’re the apple to my pie
You’re the straw to my berry
You’re the smoke to my high
And you’re the one I wanna marry
Cause you’re the one for me (for me)
And I’m the one for you (for you)
You take the both of us (of us)
And we’re the perfect two
We’re the perfect two
We’re the perfect two
Baby me and you
We’re the perfect two
Verse 2
You can be the prince and I can be your princess
You can be the sweet tooth I can be the dentist
You can be the shoes and I can be the laces
You can be the heart that I spill on the pages
You can be the vodka and I can be the chaser
You can be the pencil and I can be the paper
You can be as cold as the winter weather
But I don’t care as long as were together
Chorus
Don’t know if I could ever be
Without you ’cause boy you complete me
And in time I know that we’ll both see
That we’re all we need
Cause you’re the apple to my pie
You’re the straw to my berry
You’re the smoke to my high
And you’re the one I wanna marry
Cause you’re the one for me (for me)
And I’m the one for you (for you)
You take the both of us (of us)
And we’re the perfect two
We’re the perfect two
We’re the perfect two
Baby me and you
We’re the perfect two
Verse 3
You know that I’ll never doubt ya
And you know that I think about ya
And you know I can’t live without ya
I love the way that you smile
And maybe in just a while
I can see me walk down the aisle
Cause you’re the apple to my pie
You’re the straw to my berry
You’re the smoke to my high
And you’re the one I wanna marry
Cause you’re the one for me (for me)
And I’m the one for you (for you)
You take the both of us (of us)
And we’re the perfect two
We’re the perfect two
We’re the perfect two
Baby me and you
We’re the perfect two (yeah, yeah)
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It was a gift to witness such an amazing marriage proposal. Thank you Sean and Mindie for sharing your love and may your love buckets fill with lovematism and constantly expand to receive more love! CONGRATULATIONS!!!
Sherrie Rose
The Love Linguist
Dedicated to Enhancing Your Love and S*X Life!
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P.S. If this marriage proposal doesn’t rock your socks, read about the tribute Anthony Hopkins gave to his wife earlier in the day on May 14th that fills The Love Bucket®!!!
Just Like My Child Fills The Love Bucket on Mother’s Day!
Sunday, May 8th, 2011 Posted in Gifts, Heart, The Love Bucket® | 1 Comment »
Vivian Glyck started Just Like My Child Foundation because she couldn’t believe that children in Africa, who are just like her son, were living in such extremely dangerous and vulnerable conditions.
This year, Just Like My Child Foundation is filling the love bucket of children in Uganda with school supplies.
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Micheal Koenigs and his wife Vivian.
Mike recognizes and supports the www.JustLikeMyChild.org Foundation started by Vivian Glyck |
I learned of Just Like My Child a few years ago. One of the ways a man gets to be a hero at home is to recognize the essence, the inner passion, of his special lady. Recognition is one of the 7 Rings of Desire of Her Love Bucket. Mike’s wife, Vivian, had a passion to create a charity foundation Just Like My Child, to help less-fortunate children in Uganda.
Mike Koenigs and Frank Kern made it their business to assist the Just Like My Child foundation with donations from various seminars and training. Mike and Frank took proceeds from the sales and donated 100% to the Just Like My Child foundation.
Mike Koenigs continues to support the Just Like My Child Foundation. He is a hero who recognizes his wife Vivian’s essential passion, and taking action to contribute and participate in something that truly makes a beneficial difference in so many lives.
Along this line, you know how every time you go to a conference, you’re given a mass-produced tote bag with the logo of the sponsoring organization? Well, this year, Traffic Geyser, Mike Koenigs company, did something a little different — and it created a BIG change.
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Exhibiting it’s commitment to global consciousness, Traffic Geyser purchased conference bags for its Social Media Marketing Machines event from women at the Asili Hospital in Uganda who are on AIDS treatment and ready to come back to life!
Each bag is handmade, and through this income-generating project women are sending their children to school and supporting their families. Each bag represents a woman whose heavy load has been lifted just a little bit by being given the opportunity to create her own solutions. |
TheMessenger Bag was just the beginning. Traffic Geyser’s Social Media Marketing Machines event, held March 12 and 13th, 2011, helped to raise enough money for Just Like My Child Foundation to purchase a desperately-needed new vehicle for Asili Hospital in Uganda, invest in small businesses for over 500 families recovering from AIDS, and helped to fund badly-needed medical equipment!
Entrepreneurs on this side of the world helping entrepreneurs on the other side of the world to be self-sustaining is one of the fastest ways to alleviate poverty. Thank you, Traffic Geyser and Traffic Geyser customers for your support!
Note from Vivian’s April Newsletter: Flash forward five years, Just Like My Child, has among other things, funded a new hospital, micro-enterprise programs, and the construction of six new schools. Everything we do is a HAND UP, NEVER A HAND OUT.
Just after Mother’s Day, on May 13th, for the first time, my 8-year-old boy will be coming with me to Uganda (it’s my 13th visit). He is really excited, and also pretty nervous since he’s learned a little too much about malaria. Don’t worry, we’ll keep him malaria-free 
Many children in Uganda go to school with NO school supplies, and have to sit in the dirt because there are no desks or chairs. Even though we’ve built many school buildings, the Ugandan government does not have the funding to equip the schools with the most basic necessities like books, chairs, desks, tables, pencils, markers, chalk and crayons.
Watch this touching Mother’s Day story, "How Much Do You Love Me?"
This powerful tribute only takes 3 minutes to watch but the message will last a lifetime. Turn up your speakers and enjoy!
Make a donation today to www.JustLikeMyChild.org and feel good about yourself!
Dedicated to Enhancing Your Love (and S*x!) Life
Sherrie Rose
The Love Linguist
P.S. Have a Wonderful Mother’s Day!
UPDATE JUST BEFORE FATHER’S DAY June 17, 2011
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FROM: Vivian Glyck Some people thought I was crazy. But I did it anyway because I knew we’d be fine. Despite an Ebola scare and political instability, I took my husband, Mike, and my 8-year-old son to Uganda to visit Just Like My Child’s projects. My son raised money and delivered nearly $3000 worth of school supplies to orphans and Just Like My Child’s schools. He also ate fried crickets and had his first sighting of giraffes on the beautiful Ugandan savannah. But that’s a story for another time! My husband, an entrepreneur, was so blown away by how we’re helping to create thousands of entrepreneurs on the other side of the world, that he created this video: A Hand UP, NEVER a Hand Out. And he’s helped us to raise thousands of dollars to give people the hope, dignity, and freedom of economic independence.
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We got so inspired when we were in Uganda about our sustainable programs that we’re calling our annual gala: A Hand Up, NEVER a Hand Out! |
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Help fill a love bucket and give a hand up to this worthy cause.
Breaking Up Is Hard To Do (When The Love Bucket Is Half Full)
Monday, March 14th, 2011 Posted in 7 Rings of Desire, Dating, Mating, Relating, Heart, Her Love Bucket, Love Bucket List, Lovematism, The Love Bucket®, The Love Linguist® | No Comments »
or… "How To Leave While You’re In Love"
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“I wish one of my relationship expert friends would write a specific article on "How To Leave While You’re In Love". This has been one of the hardest things to do because, right or wrong, I still love him so much. I just had to take a stand for real partnership that I’m committed to having in my life – so choosing to leave may hurt my heart but is a gift to my soul. (someone please write that article, though, ok???)” => So to the lovely lady who made this request, here’s your article. |
First, know that women more than men are constantly evaluating their intimate relationship. Guys, in general think everything seems good at home: she seems happy, we’re having sex, and she’s not nagging me.
Second, breaking up and leaving rarely happen in a moment. Even though there may be some incident that is the proverbial ‘straw that breaks the camel’s back’ there has been in your mind an ongoing database filled with the transgressions of your partner. This is particularly true of women. Often a break-up happens long before the friends and family know of its demise.
So why don’t we “Leave When We’re In Love?"
It is very simple. HOPE DIES LAST.
One of the most beautiful aspects of the human spirit is hope. Hope is defined as, “To wish for something with expectation of its fulfillment.” Some suggest a connection with the word ‘hop’ with the notion of "leaping in expectation."
In the back of your mind, you are thinking, “I still have hope that we can work things out”.
“I love this person. I hope he give me what I want. I hope he can fill my love bucket with my desires.”
The Love Bucket blog is about The Love Bucket®. The 7 Rings of Desire of the love bucket are the things women desire. These desires are related to passion, aspirations, expectations, and wants. To desire is to long for, a craving, and to feel the want of some object or person. Desire is also about sexual appetite and passion. With each desire comes the hope it will be fulfilled.
(Guys, if you think 7 Rings of Desire are too many, relax. Every women wants about 3-4 and it is in your power to fill her love bucket!)
When the love bucket is being filled partially, there is hope that it can be filled up and with the unique rings of desire of each woman. The Love Bucket is a concept and as such, the love bucket can be empty but the love bucket never overflows because the love bucket expands to receive more love just like the heart. If the love bucket is not being filled with the specific rings of desire at least 80% of the time, there is disillusionment, discontentment and it is possible that eventually it dries up. If there is SOMETHING in the love bucket, we don’t leave because hope exists.
Is there a solution?
Due to the nature of this page (a request from an aching heart), there are few additional materials that will be added shortly.
Look for a link to a free document that has tips for the dating process. That includes what you want on your LOVE BUCKET LIST for your Mr. Right or Ms. Right in your life.
It seems that everything gets clearer in hindsight. But, you can start over and there is a way to have a relationship that is more in alignment from the start. When you start dating again you can see who’s out there and it important to figure out more of what you want.
And remember, nobody is 100% perfect, but ask yourself what you truly want in your next relationship, and what can you do without? Breaking up is hard to do, but it happens all the time. Whether you meet up with your ex again, in this lifetime, or the next, be kind to yourself and to the one you loved.
Second, get clarity on your Relationship Design Plan. There is often a mismatch in how you both see your common goal and therefore you’ll be out of alignment. Having a “real partnership” means you have expressed to one another your relationship plan – whether a simple or grand design – no secrets or reading minds. Communication is key. This is the time for vulnerability and honesty. When you navigate to love’s true north defined by your common goal of your relationship design plan, you will be able to course correct when needed and your love bucket will continue to be filled. You may find that you do not need to break up because you simply need to make a few adjustments to your Relationship Design Plan. A little knowledge goes a long way.
Third, you may be found yourself in a Relationship by Default. Well, not exactly found, kinda wished yourself into or possibly tried to fit a “square peg into a round hole.” The yellow, pink, red warning flags were there from the beginning but you just chose to ignore them. Often this will be highlighted when someone cheats because that is not the relationship they really are meant to be in for their highest good and greatest potential.
Last, it is so important to feel you have the basis of the enduring bond of lovematism. Lovematism is such an amazing connection and intimate bond of two lovers. www.Lovematism.com
Bond of Lovematism Connections
MYSTICISM OF THE SPIRIT
Soul Connection: Practices, like praying or meditation. Spiritual philosophies or way of living. Karma or soul purpose to be together. Soul connection of two lovers.
HYPNOTISM OF THE MIND
Mindset Connection: Attitudes, perceptions, tastes, approaches, subject matter of conversation, ways of thinking, levels of consciousness, and appealing to the imagination, intelligence and intellisense of the mind. Mind connection of two lovers.
MAGNETISM OF THE BODY
Sex Connection: Sexual dimension of physical chemistry, attraction, and energy. Sexual connection of two lovers.
EMOTIONAL RHYTHM OF TWO HEARTS BEATING AS ONE
Emotion Connection: Sharing happiness, joy, fun of romance, caring, and compassion. Heartfelt love vibration, coherence and resonance. Emotional connection of two lovers.
Sherrie Rose
The Love Linguist
Dedicated to Enhancing Your Love and S*X Life!
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Follow @SherrieRose on Twitter and you’ll get a Direct Message with bonus link for a free Love Bucket Book™
The Love Bucket is a registered trademark. Love Bucket Books™ can be found at http://lovebucketbook.com
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Another gift … in the form of a poem
How to Leave When You Still Love
by Mayana Blank on Monday, March 14, 2011 at 2:43pm
When you know in your heart what is right
And the circumstances seem wrong
When you know in your heart that the love you feel
Is not enough to balance the situation
You continue to love
and then you love more
and then you realize you must love you first.
When you know in your heart what you want
And the relationship falls short
You know that the soul of the one you love
Will always be within you
You continue to love
and then you love more
and then you realize you must love you first.
Leaving when you love someone is a hard thing to do
But staying when you know that leaving is better
Will harm the relationship so much more
That goings the thing to do
You continue to love
and then you love more
and then you realize you must love you first.
Loving yourself first and best seems to be the hardest test
that humans endure while living in form
We think it is selfish or egoic or wrong
But really its the right thing to do
You continue to love
and then you love more
and then you realize you must love you first.
When you love you first you meet your own needs
You know who you are and why you are here
You take care of your body, mind, spirit and soul
and then you love others more.
You continue to love
and then you love more
and then you realize you must love you first.
So I love me first and most and best
and then I love you and you and you
my heart is true and pure and free
and then I love others more.
Mother Mary told me as I walked away
That I could never leave anyone behind
She said that we would weave our lives in and out
In a way most beautiful and sublime
