Everything I love about you fills my love bucket!
Friday, May 11th, 2012 Posted in Her Love Bucket, The Love Bucket® | No Comments »
Everything I love about you fills my love bucket!
We often speak of filling her love bucket. The actual experience itself of loving another person a can fill The Love Bucket!
Having a feeling of gratitude for another person makes your chest swell and your heart fill with more love.
The amazing thing about The Love Bucket is that it expands to receive more love and never overflows.
Filling The Love Bucket Works Both Ways!
Update Facebook Relationship Status at the Altar! (caught on video)
Monday, April 16th, 2012 Posted in Her Love Bucket, The Love Bucket® | No Comments »Yes, the groom did really update his Facebook Relationship Status to MARRIED right from the altar in front of all his wedding guests! All caught on video as many weddings are.
He is proud and publicly making the declaration of love (this was planned) and filling his bride’s Love Bucket!
He changes his relationship status on Facebook right after his wedding vows in church! Dana and Tracy, bride and groom
Dana also pulled out the bride’s phone and to handed it to her to update her status Facebook Relationship Status via mobile. Big News!
The Minister at Mountain Christian Church in Joppa, MD said “If it is official on Facebook, it is official in my book” (and he married the couple).
The Love Bucket® and Love Languages
Sunday, April 15th, 2012 Posted in Her Love Bucket, The Love Bucket® | No Comments »The Love Bucket® and Love Language
The Love Bucket® concept has more than once been confused with Gary Chapman’s “Love Languages” because love in a relationship must be sustained and “filled.” Filling The Love Bucket® is the theme here on the Love Bucket Blog.
As The Love Linguist® the link between language and linguistics further creates confusion. So let’s look at similarities and clear up the confusion.
Here are the five main ideas with the Gary’s languages: words, quality time, gifts, acts of service, physical touch.
Gary’s main ideas do relate to the 7 Rings of Desire® of The Love Bucket® in several ways because the emotion of love is well established and there are unifying and dominant themes of love.
The romantic concepts of The Love Bucket® include the 7 Rings of Desire® and they also apply to relating to other people outside of intimate relationships, in particular the Recognition Ring of Desire.
Included with 7 Rings of Desire® is Sex because The Love Linguist® feels the boudoir is part of intimacy, as well as the Lifestyle Ring of Desire. Neither sex or lifestyle are referred to specifically in Chapman’s love languages perhaps because he is a minister and his lifestyle path is set and he only refers to sex saying not to confuse it with physical touch. The Love Linguist® contends that physical touch if done with the right timing and intention can lead to beautiful love making. The Sex Ring of Desire is very important. Chapman reserves sex for married couples.
Separate from the 7 Rings of Desire® of The Love Bucket® are the 5 Love Dynamics. That is a completely different program that goes from dating to cultivating in an intimate relationship.
As of The Love Linguist®, I agree with Chapman’s theory that as individuals we all seek emotional affirmation in a variety of ways. These are desires and with the 7 Rings of Desire® there are preferences and often three to four top desires not just one. It is about what we desire and value that when received, fills The Love Bucket®.
Again, I agree with Gary, that one of the elements of a healthy relationship is to have each lover understand and fill the emotional needs of the other. He says it is by speaking a love language, I say it is by filling The Love Bucket® with your lovers top desire. How Gary and The Love Linguist® define these needs are somewhat different.
People tend to assume, project and act the way they want to receive love. They value in a particular fashion and automatically act that same way and therefore treat their husband, wife, boyfriend, girlfriend, lover, or partner as they would like to be treated. The Platinum Rule of Love is the opposite. See the Platinum Rule of Love here: http://platinumruleoflove.com/
Lifestyle is one of the most important aspects and when it comes to The Love Bucket® is it the core to the 7 Rings of Desire®. Like Chapman, the lifestyle that includes a spiritual path (spiritual mysticism) in your shared lifestyle is defined by The Love Linguist® in lovematism.
As an example, if a man’s desire for love is recognition in the form of respect or encouraging words, then he might assume that his lover values the same which would make him keep saying how much he appreciates her. He thinks “I’m filling her love bucket” but she’s feeling unappreciated because she values another Ring of Desire, let’s say, the Lifestyle Ring of Desire. She’s smart and knows it’s easy for a guy to tell her how pretty and smart she is (words are overrated to her!). Sadly, her Lifestyle Ring of Desire is left unfulfilled, tarnished and her love bucket is not full. So guys take The Man Class and get the details on filling her love bucket!
The Love Bucket® concept works when you understand your lover’s desires and emotional needs and take the right action to keep The Love Bucket® full.
The Love Linguist®
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Finding the Perfect Girlfriend and Fill Her Love Bucket
Sunday, March 11th, 2012 Posted in Dating, Mating, Relating, Her Love Bucket | No Comments »Finding the Perfect Girlfriend and Fill Her Love Bucket
If you don’t have a girlfriend, you can’t fill her love bucket. But, you can find a perfect girlfriend if you know the 15 clues to watch out for.
How to Spot and Cultivate an Extraordinary Girlfriend
You can watch the webinar replay click the image above.
It’s available now – only – until Monday at 12pm EST.
In this webinar, we discussed:
? The 15 tell-tale characteristics of amazing girlfriend material
? How to enflame her imagination with new possibilities and lead her deeper
? How to instantly gain trust and leadership
? How to guide a beautiful girl into girlfriend mode with you
Again, if you are looking to end cycles of dating and attract a
truly amazing partner, then this webinar is your starting line.
Watch the webinar replay. And if Adam has space left –
apply for a free consultation afterwards.
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Attention all Bay Area Ballers…
Adam will be in San Francisco Monday evening for a special one evening only
INTENSIVE Speed Coaching Session over dinner and afterwards.
Bring your online profiles.
Bring a clear breakdown on:
1. What is working for you
2. What are your biggest exterior obstacles
3. What are your biggest internal obstacles
4. What is your vision of the intimacy and dating life you DREAM of (just how you want to fill her love bucket)
5. What are the steps you think you need to get there…
And we will drill down on each of these and advance you with
hard-nosed, practical actions you can take to get you into the life
you really want.
There is no delaying for happiness.
Don’t wait 5 or 10 or 20 years to be happy.
If you are interested, send me your name and phone number to
AdamGilad [at] gmail.com and he’ll give you the details.
See you in San Francisco
On behalf of,
Adam Gilad
How Do I Love Thee? Let Me Text and Tweet the Ways
Friday, February 17th, 2012 Posted in 7 Rings of Desire, Her Love Bucket, Romance, Seduction, SEX, The Love Bucket®, The Man Class Series | No Comments »Valentine’s may be over but dating and love are always hot topics.
If you’ve dated online, then you probably experienced being asked out via text message. 
If you use Twitter, you may have sent a 140-character declaration of love. Compared with a sonnet on perfumed parchment, it doesn’t seem very romantic.
Mobile-tapping tweets, texts, facebook, and the latest pinterest, keep hands busy but not with a pen.
When was the last time you picked up a pen wrote out a letter by hand? And when was the last time you sent someone a love letter?
And who needs Shakespearean declarations of love anyway? If Juliet had Googled Romeo, she would have found out he was a Montague and avoided all the big fuss.
Looking for your Romeo? The boom in Internet dating means there are more fish in the sea than ever before. Plenty of Fish is a popular, free dating site. For those too busy for the singles scene, online dating is a welcome shortcut, especially when profiles and photos let you be choosy about your choices.
Before you even go on your first date, you can Google and Facebook your potential love to your heart’s content to make sure she’s not hiding any skeletons. Technology just cuts out the small talk, letting you know if your partner is the right one for you.
So once a potential Juliet is found, what’s the way to a modern woman’s heart? Try her cell phone. And if you are in a relationship, you can spice up your love life with hot texts (GUYS, click here for more on Text Love Now)
If they’re correctly organized, text messages are like stacks of love letters tied with ribbon — only now they’re searchable.
Paul Walker, 25, used texts to create the perfect anniversary gift for his girlfriend, Elizabeth. He created a calendar that tracked the chronology of their relationship, using only their text messages.
As he was making the calendar, Walker, who lives in Brooklyn, converted his chats with her into a text document — 1,200 pages long. Though the mass of messages was intimidating, the finished calendar showed the arc of their relationship. "It ended up creating a rather emotional thing," says Walker. And an overjoyed girlfriend => Definitely filling her love bucket showing her his dedication with the time, effort, and love infused into such a project
Texting technology helps not just the enamored though. If a romance goes sour, your smartphone or iPhone can take all the effort out of writing a Dear John letter. We all know someone who’s been dumped via text message.
Especially in the case of breakups, it’s tough to draw the line between efficient and impersonal communication. The key seems to lie in balancing your online and off-line relationship. It is not surprising that texting, tweets, and social media may lead to break-ups, because often text messages are misinterpreted. If you do want to get your ex back, then you can try text your ex back and reunite that uses a lot of the right psychology.
In the age of texting, old-fashioned romance may seem as antiquated as Old English. Excerpts From Time.
Smart marketers are using the texting angle to tap your deepest emotions. Perhaps technology can smooth the course of true love, whether it helps find it, nurture it or, fix it, and, if need be, end it.
With dating, because texting and online relationships make a days-old relationship seem more intimate or because they numerous texts increases anticipation.
Text and tweet to your hearts content and hopefully you’ll get the reply you want!
With a relationship, the frequency of texts (frequency being one of the considerations of the love bucket) coupled with the RIGHT message can fill the love bucket and shine up the Contact Ring of Desire that will lead to other rings of desire of THE LOVE BUCKET.
Yes, in the end it gets back to The Love Bucket. If the text or tweet does not fill the love bucket, try a different Ring of Desire. There are 7 Rings of Desire and your special lady has three or four top desires. Find out what they are in The Man Class Accelerator.
Sherrie Rose
The Love Linguist
Dedicated to Enhancing Your Love and S*X Life!
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