Everything I love about you fills my love bucket!

We often speak of filling her love bucket.  The actual experience itself of loving another person a can fill The Love Bucket!

Having a feeling of gratitude for another person makes your chest swell and your heart fill with more love.

The amazing thing about The Love Bucket is that it expands to receive more love and never overflows. 

Filling The Love Bucket Works Both Ways!

He is proud and publicly making the declaration of love (this was planned) and filling his bride’s Love Bucket!  

He changes his relationship status on Facebook right after his wedding vows in church!  Dana and Tracy, bride and groom

Dana also pulled out the bride’s phone and to handed it to her to update her status Facebook Relationship Status via mobile. Big News!

The Minister at Mountain Christian Church in Joppa, MD said “If it is official on Facebook, it is official in my book” (and he married the couple).

The Love Bucket® concept has more than once been confused with Gary Chapman’s “Love Languages” because love in a relationship must be sustained and “filled.” Filling The Love Bucket® is the theme here on the Love Bucket Blog.

As The Love Linguist® the link between language and linguistics further creates confusion. So let’s look at similarities and clear up the confusion.

Here are the five main ideas with the Gary’s languages: words, quality time, gifts, acts of service, physical touch.

Gary’s main ideas do relate to the 7 Rings of Desire® of The Love Bucket® in several ways because the emotion of love is well established and there are unifying and dominant themes of love.

The romantic concepts of The Love Bucket® include the 7 Rings of Desire® and they also apply to relating to other people outside of intimate relationships, in particular the Recognition Ring of Desire.

Included with 7 Rings of Desire® is Sex because The Love Linguist® feels the boudoir is part of intimacy, as well as the Lifestyle Ring of Desire. Neither sex or lifestyle are referred to specifically in Chapman’s love languages perhaps because he is a minister and his lifestyle path is set and he only refers to sex saying not to confuse it with physical touch. The Love Linguist® contends that  physical touch if done with the right timing and intention can lead to beautiful love making. The Sex Ring of Desire is very important.  Chapman reserves sex for married couples.

Separate from the 7 Rings of Desire® of The Love Bucket® are the 5 Love Dynamics. That is a completely different program that goes from dating to cultivating in an intimate relationship.

As of The Love Linguist®, I agree with Chapman’s theory that as individuals we all seek emotional affirmation in a variety of ways. These are desires and with the 7 Rings of Desire® there are preferences and often three to four top desires not just one. It is about what we desire and value that when received, fills The Love Bucket®.

Again, I agree with Gary, that one of the elements of a healthy relationship is to have each lover understand and fill the emotional needs of the other. He says it is by speaking a love language, I say it is by filling The Love Bucket® with your lovers top desire. How Gary and The Love Linguist® define these needs are somewhat different.

People tend to assume, project and act the way they want to receive love. They value in a particular fashion and automatically act that same way and therefore treat their husband, wife, boyfriend, girlfriend, lover, or partner as they would like to be treated. The Platinum Rule of Love is the opposite. See the Platinum Rule of Love here: http://platinumruleoflove.com/

Lifestyle is one of the most important aspects and when it comes to The Love Bucket® is it the core to the 7 Rings of Desire®.  Like Chapman, the lifestyle that includes a spiritual path (spiritual mysticism) in your shared lifestyle is defined by The Love Linguist® in lovematism. 

As an example, if a man’s desire for love is recognition in the form of respect or encouraging words, then he might assume that his lover values the same which would make him keep saying how much he appreciates her.  He thinks “I’m filling her love bucket” but she’s feeling unappreciated because she values another Ring of Desire, let’s say, the Lifestyle Ring of Desire.  She’s smart and knows it’s easy for a guy to tell her how pretty and smart she is (words are overrated to her!). Sadly, her Lifestyle Ring of Desire is left unfulfilled, tarnished and her love bucket is not full. So guys take The Man Class and get the details on filling her love bucket!

The Love Bucket® concept works when you understand your lover’s desires and emotional needs and take the right action to keep The Love Bucket® full.

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If you’ve dated online, then you probably experienced being asked out via text message.
If you use Twitter, you may have sent a 140-character declaration of love. Compared with a sonnet on perfumed parchment, it doesn’t seem very romantic.

Mobile-tapping tweets, texts, facebook, and the latest pinterest, keep hands busy but not with a pen.

When was the last time you picked up a pen wrote out a letter by hand? And when was the last time you sent someone a love letter?

And who needs Shakespearean declarations of love anyway? If Juliet had Googled Romeo, she would have found out he was a Montague and avoided all the big fuss.

Looking for your Romeo? The boom in Internet dating means there are more fish in the sea than ever before. Plenty of Fish is a popular, free dating site. For those too busy for the singles scene, online dating is a welcome shortcut, especially when profiles and photos let you be choosy about your choices.

Before you even go on your first date, you can Google and Facebook your potential love to your heart’s content to make sure she’s not hiding any skeletons. Technology just cuts out the small talk, letting you know if your partner is the right one for you.

So once a potential Juliet is found, what’s the way to a modern woman’s heart? Try her cell phone. And if you are in a relationship, you can spice up your love life with hot texts (GUYS, click here for more on Text Love Now)

If they’re correctly organized, text messages are like stacks of love letters tied with ribbon — only now they’re searchable.

Paul Walker, 25, used texts to create the perfect anniversary gift for his girlfriend, Elizabeth. He created a calendar that tracked the chronology of their relationship, using only their text messages.

As he was making the calendar, Walker, who lives in Brooklyn, converted his chats with her into a text document — 1,200 pages long. Though the mass of messages was intimidating, the finished calendar showed the arc of their relationship. "It ended up creating a rather emotional thing," says Walker. And an overjoyed girlfriend => Definitely filling her love bucket showing her his dedication with the time, effort, and love infused into such a project

Texting technology helps not just the enamored though. If a romance goes sour, your smartphone or iPhone can take all the effort out of writing a Dear John letter. We all know someone who’s been dumped via text message.

Especially in the case of breakups, it’s tough to draw the line between efficient and impersonal communication. The key seems to lie in balancing your online and off-line relationship. It is not surprising that texting, tweets,  and social media may lead to break-ups, because often text messages are misinterpreted. If you do want to get your ex back, then you can try text your ex back and reunite that uses a lot of the right psychology.

In the age of texting, old-fashioned romance may seem as antiquated as Old English. Excerpts From Time.

Smart marketers are using the texting angle to tap your deepest emotions. Perhaps technology can smooth the course of true love, whether it helps find it, nurture it or, fix it, and, if need be, end it.

With dating, because texting and online relationships make a days-old relationship seem more intimate or because they numerous texts increases anticipation.

Text and tweet to your hearts content and hopefully you’ll get the reply you want!

With a relationship, the frequency of texts (frequency being one of the considerations of the love bucket) coupled with the RIGHT message can fill the love bucket and shine up the Contact Ring of Desire that will lead to other rings of desire of THE LOVE BUCKET.

Yes, in the end it gets back to The Love Bucket.  If the text or tweet does not fill the love bucket, try a different Ring of Desire. There are 7 Rings of Desire and your special lady has three or four top desires.  Find out what they are in The Man Class Accelerator.

Sherrie Rose
The Love Linguist

Dedicated to Enhancing Your Love and S*X Life!

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The Love Bucket® is on Pinterest.  This is the official pinboard with more pins to be added.

Other people have used the term but it does not relate to The Love Bucket Concept (that relates to the trademark. ) Here are a couple more beneath the Official pinboard,  The Love Bucket®, on Pinterest. Often you hear the words ‘love bucket’ as a term of endearment. That is not The Love Bucket Trademark for the USPTO, United States Patent and Trademark Office.

You are my love bucket. When someone uses the term ‘love bucket’ as a term of endearment it is the same as saying something like  there are ‘four seasons’ of love. This could not be confused with Vivaldi’s musical composition, Four Seasons.  Or the Four Seasons of spring, summer, winter, and fall. 

The Love Bucket® is a term used in commerce.

Another related trademark term used in commerce is Love Bucket Book.   Although not registered, it has been in use since 2008.  Have you read a Love Bucket Book?

Please respect The Love Bucket Trademark and no matter if you are a “famous” company, using a trademarked concept that has been circulating for several years that becomes part of the conversation because it simplifies and makes so much sense, should not be used in promotions for public relations or financial gain.  Thank you!

Read love bucket article on The Love Bucket concept here:

The Love Bucket Concept #lovebucket

Sherrie Rose
The Love Linguist

Dedicated to Enhancing Your Love and S*X Life!

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Message to Men:

Valentine’s day is tomorrow and I want to make sure you don’t make a huge mistake . . .

See, a lot of guys think what women really want for Valentine’s day are flowers and candy and expensive dinners and pieces of jewelry that cost as much as your car (hope you have  cheap car.)

But what women REALLY want for Valentine’s day (and EVERY day) is to KNOW how you really feel about her.

Honestly, I [Mike] think of flower and candy and all that BS as "romantic methadone."

If a woman doesn’t feel truly loved and adored then she gets "bitchy" and "demanding" and wants you to spend a bunch of money on her. But REAL romance is cheap.

If you really want her to swoon (and get out of the romantic dog house you’ll get into if you don’t do anything at all) you need to bring her down the "golden path" of romance . . .

That means teasing her . . .

Seducing her . . .

Making her feel like the most special woman in the world . . .

And to me the EASIEST way to do that is

To Fill Her Love Bucket.

End of Mike’s letter.

Actually Mike wants you to send her a text message. Mike is great and smart and he is a copywriter. Wordsmith. He calls himself “Moneyfingers” as he types cash comes out of his keyboard.

But words are not enough. As The Love Linguist, words are very important. They are very important to me. But if words were so important, then why are there so many messages that state:
“Actions speak louder than words”

Mike thinks the right words are like crack to women. And to some women words work magic. Definitely try it and check out Mike’s texting program video– www.TextLoveNow.com

The good news is that sending a text does show you are putting in effort. But, if it is out of character for you’re and you use the “magic texts” prewritten for you… it may backfire.

Texting is certainly the easy way to go.

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Some women have a very tarnished recognition ring of desire and words, being one form of recognition might work wonders. Also using the contact ring desire when you are OUT of proximity using a cell phone and TEXT can get her motor running. You can hide behind the text and let her know how you really feel if you haven’t done it for a while. Text messages can break down her low self esteem and give you something to play with in a back and forth banter that can make her feel like a queen.

But if you are in close physical proximity, toss the text and look her straight in the eyes. Tell her that she is loved. Take action and hold her. And also, DO something together which is the DO WITH ring of desire. Or if she has been wanting you to do something for her then shine up her DO FOR ring of desire. Fill her love bucket with her top desires.  Power her passion and drive her desire.

And if words of love are what she wants, a hand written love letter or love card will speak volumes over a text message. Text messages used in combination with an anticipated card or gift may get you VERY lucky!

Now, I fully know that a woman’s BIG erogenous zone is her mind – her “B-SPOT” brain. Mike says a text might get you laid too =-) But knowing her combination of top desires, the 3-4 Rings of Desire of her love bucket will get her juices flowing for sure!

Show her you love her by knowing her rings of desire and shine the ones that mean the most to her.

And get your free romantic tips here: http://freeromantictips.com

Happy Valentine’s Day!

To use Lovestagram simply sign in with your Instagram account (available on the AppStore and iTunes), enter the name of your beloved and choose from one of three adorable designs, Lovestagram Rainbow, Mr. Pink Camera and Cinnamon Heart Candy.

Guys, don’t worry, this is geared for gals sending Instagram Lovestagram’s to you.  Of course, you can send these cute messages but if your male co-workers find out you probably will become the laughing stock.

The TechCrunch article was written by a woman so there are lots of awww’s because women swoon over such sweetness and expressions of love.  Her Love Bucket fills with the emotion of love that touches the heart.

Sharing a like interest is part of the mental hypnotism bond of lovematism.

Sharing like interests, talking about like interests, getting excited about common interests are a bonding experience. #LikesUP

Instagram’s Girlfriend said: “Mike was really touched,” she said. “His support throughout this whole process has really been a gift. Tolerating me when I’ve been cranky.” Trigger views both the physical manifestation of her skills and the skills themselves as the V-Day gifts, “[But] the fact that we have one more thing in common is the bigger gift.”

In the about section of Lovestagram, with reference to her boyfriend, Mike, Kaitlyn writes: “Over the past year and a half, Instagram has attracted over 15 million users and hundreds of millions of beautiful photos. It hasn’t been a cake-walk for Mike, who’s constantly on call in case Justin Bieber posts a shirtless photo. Yet despite the long hours, the unpredictable server crises, and all the media attention, Mike has always found time to make me feel special.”

Happy Valentine’s Day, Try Lovestagram.

Desire is primal on many levels. Desire is what stirs passion.  And women have desires, in fact, seven, 7 Rings of Desire.

Men are aware that women love romance novels that are filled with lust and desire.  Harlequin has a DESIRE series with Desire Titles published for more than 30 years.

The current Desire book spotlights rich, powerful heroes and scandal.  Mixing business with pleasure is great for intrigue.

Tempted by Her Innocent Kiss is about a businessman and marriage. The last feather in businessman Devon Carter’s cap would be to enter a business partnership with Copeland Enterprises. But to achieve this he must marry Ashley Carter-the boss’s daughter. Ashley is everything Devon didn’t think he wanted — but she’s about to change his mind.

I am not recommending you read this book or even give it to your lady. It is merely to highlight Desire as a main driver in her desires.  Drive her desire and you’ve harnessed her energy and that energy can be focused on you.

A woman wants her man to be her KING.  Passionate kisses are part of the Desire books for heated reading with steamy and sensual stories. 

Billionaires, dynasties, provocative situations fill the pages of romance novels. Business tension adds to forbidden desire and seduction.

All business, all the time, had made Justin Stern a very confirmed bachelor. Yet one glance at Selena Gonzalez and he knew changes were in order. Perhaps marriage wasn’t in his future, but an affair certainly was.
Never mind that he and Selena were on opposite sides of a deal that could make or break them both. Pretty soon, passion was the top priority. And if Justin could finesse their white-hot attraction into a win for his company, he would—no matter what the cost.

Creating DESIRE has been know to boost business.  The idea behind stealth persuasion and desire has been used in Facebook ads that talk about trashy magazines and sleazy novels.  The Desire novels noted about are romance and passion oriented, not sleazy, but again, it is in the eye of the reader to determine.  Desire for some is a dirty word. 

The 7 Rings of Desire of the Love Bucket are simple yet not easy.  Why?  Because anything worthwhile takes time and attention.  You can have a quickie but sex with seduction is more than one minute.  A deep, fulfilling relationship takes effort and you have to put your heart into it.

DESIRE [d??za??] definition  vb (tr) via free dictionary

1. (Psychology) to wish or long for; crave; want

2. to express a wish or make a request for; ask for

n

1. (Psychology) a wish or longing; craving

2. an expressed wish; request

3. (Psychology) sexual appetite; lust

Desire From Shakespeare to Mitchell

1. More giddy in my desires than a monkey —William Shakespeare
2. Desire had run its course like a long and serious illness —Harvey Swados
3. Desire … like the hunger for a definite but hard-to-come-by food —Mary Gordon
4. Desire overtook us like a hot, breaking wave —A. E. Maxwell
5. Her love bucket holds the 7 desires that a woman wants a man to fill. —Sherrie Rose
6. Desire … swept over her like a flame —Robin McCorquodale
7. Dying for … like God for a repentant sinner —Bertold Brecht
8. My desire for her is so wild I feel as if I’m all liquid —W. P. Kinsella
9. Worldly desires are like columns of sunshine radiating through a dusty window, nothing tangible, nothing there —Bratzlav Naham
10. A brief surge of sexual desire that crested and passed like a wave breaking —Paige Mitchell

For Valentine’s Day and any day, remember, "She’s wanting ‘her love bucket’ filled with her top desire."

Sherrie Rose
The Love Linguist

To Enhancing Your Love and S*X Life!

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The Love Bucket images are available on café press.  The trademarked love bucket is a term and concept represented by a love bucket with 7 rings of desire encircling it. 

The Recognition Ring of Desire is very popular.  It is represented by the yellow color. The color yellow is associated with the sun. As the source of light and warmth, the sun is integral to life on Earth. It should come as no surprise that the color of the sun would hold many positive connotations. In many Eastern cultures, for example, the color yellow represents joy, wisdom and power. A bouquet of yellow roses now brings to mind all of the sunny, cheerful feelings of warmth and happiness and a perfect message of appreciation.

There are 7 Ways to Fill Her Love Bucket represented by the 7 Rings of Desire.

The Sex Ring of Desire red hot for all the implied reasons. Someone shared the Ring of Desire movie which has nothing to do with the Sex Ring of Desire of the Love Bucket. The movie does have an interesting premise (not related to the love bucket concept) which is “A day in the life of a magic ring which grants whoever wears it their sexual desire.”

The Love Bucket expands exponentially to receive more love.

A full love bucket helps a woman function so she can give more to the man in her life. A lady has emotional and physical needs represented by “The Love Bucket” that need to be filled regularly.  

The love and support a woman gets from the main man in her life helps fill her desires as well as the show love we. Filling her love bucket is simple when you know her desire. If the love bucket reserves are depleted, a lady can’t function at her optimum in relationship.

Any guy gutsy enough to wear these boxers (albeit under clothing) is a true Masterman!

The Love Bucket® and the Love Bucket Books™ are fun and just before Valentine’s Day we’ll be seeing more references to “love bucket”

There are “look-alike” love buckets with love bucket stripes in multi-colors.

The Love Bucket® a registered trademark   Before Valentines you’ll see lots that call themselves love bucket types that are NOT the real LOVE BUCKET; likes the ones below (with respect to the image owners).

Men, realize that 6 of the 7 Rings of Desire of the Love Bucket have little to do with stuff, things, gifts, presents, or providing. If you are reading this, get THE MAN CLASS to discover Her Love Bucket secrets!  You Win, She’s Happy and your sex life is enhanced.

Thank you for filling the The Love Bucket® before Valentines, on Valentine’s Day and every day.

Sherrie Rose
The Love Linguist

Dedicated to Enhancing Your Love and S*X Life!

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