Filling Your Love Bucket With A Fortune
Wednesday, June 29th, 2011 Posted in 7 Rings of Desire, Dating, Mating, Relating, Gifts, Her Love Bucket, Lifestyle, Love Dynamics, Lovematism, Romance, Sherrie Rose Recommends, The Love Bucket®, The Love Linguist®, The Man Class Series | No Comments »Can You Fill Her Love Bucket?
FORTUNE — Operating a successful business is supposed to be a ticket to the good life — but sometimes it comes at a cost. The following Fortune Magazine article is annotated by Sherrie Rose, The Love Linguist, with tips to help guys fill the love bucket and understand how to stay in the (benevolent) power position and remain the Chairman of the Relationship, not just the Chairman of the Board.
Story: Stephen Adele was too busy building his $20 million Golden, Colo., nutritional supplements company, iSatori, to spend much time with his wife and three children.
"I would try to compensate by buying her and my family things," he recalls. The cars and jewelry didn’t work, of course, and the couple just got divorced. => If the Provisions Ring of Desire is not one of her priority Rings of Desire of the Love Bucket, no fancy gifts or presents will make woman happy. <= Stephen Adele is now, finally, spending more time with his three daughters. Here’s a little advice that might help you avoid matrimonial discord.
- 1. Keep a flexible schedule
You may not be able to work less, but you probably have time to take a few items off your spouse’s to-do list. Brad Dresbach, co-founder of the Columbus branding and marketing firm 42Fish, tackles such daily errands for his family as picking up birthday cakes — relieving stress for his wife, Danielle, who has a much more inflexible corporate job. => This is the DO FOR Ring of Desire of the Love Bucket. Again, if this is not one of her priority rings of desire, hire a personal assistant for these tasks. Check out the 5 Love Dynamics: Acclimating Dynamic which all about the business of living, chores, household, etc.
2. Ration e-mail time
When you’re home, be present. Jeff Booth, CEO of BuildDirect, a 63-employee building materials retailer, has a wife, Kelly, who posts what a great dad he is on Facebook, though he spends 60 hours a week working. He attributes that to shutting off his phone as soon as he gets home so he can enjoy activities with her and their children– instead of checking e-mail poolside. => This is one of those common sense things that both men and women ignore. Giving attention especially when you are in physical proximity is a key to love success. If you are out of town, sweet-nothing voice mails, sexy texts (goes for guys and gals) may give her some attention and fun.
3. Hold family summits
D.J. Rezak, founder of KB Building Services, a commercial cleaning company in Omaha, credits weekly meetings with keeping the family organized and freeing up time for him to spend with his wife, Lisa. The family pauses during Sunday dinners to talk about the week, discuss upcoming plans, and hold an occasional talent show. "It makes it feel like our family is a priority," says Lisa. => Repeat from above - Check out the 5 Love Dynamics: Acclimating Dynamic which all about the business of living, chores, household, etc..
4. Share your interests
It’s easy to get so caught up in your own thing that you ignore your partner’s pursuits. Razor Suleman, CEO of I Love Rewards, a Boston rewards and recognition business with $50 million in sales, tries to avoid that mistake. He joined his wife, Kari, a web developer, at a summit she needed to go to for work. "It was amazing that Razor took an interest in an event that I was excited to attend," she says. "It sparked a dialogue we would not have had otherwise." => This is a great tip starting with the Recognition Ring of Desire and the Do With and Lifestyle Rings of Desire of the Love Bucket. This is a triple win for a man and she’s HAPPY!
5. Schedule regular vacations
Brad Feld, founder of VC firm Foundry Group, started scheduling regular vacations after his wife, Amy Batchelor, almost dumped him for working during an entire weekend trip. They now have one-week vacations each quarter — known as their "Qx vacation." The ground rules? He unplugs completely, giving her his smartphone. "She gives it back the following week," he says. Colleagues work around it, and Feld stays married. => The Do With and Lifestyle Rings of Desire of the Love Bucket are active here. Check out the 5 Love Dynamics on how to the Cultivating Dynamic works to build more lovematism in your relationship.
–Verne Harnish is a Fortune Magazine contributor and the CEO of Gazelles Inc., an executive education firm. Source: http://money.cnn.com/2011/06/27/smallbusiness/business_marriage_balance.fortune/index.htm
There are many ways to fill the love bucket. If you don’t know the details, you can’t drive her desire. Guys, get the man class – The Man Class Accelerator!
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Will the Summer Solstice Fill The Love Bucket?
Tuesday, June 21st, 2011 Posted in Dating, Mating, Relating, Her Love Bucket, Lifestyle, Romance, The Love Bucket® | No Comments »If you were looking online today to ideas for your date with your sweetheart because you want to fill her love bucket, you probably came across this Google image:
Takashi Murakami is the artist of the first day of summer, June 21, 2011 aka Summer Solstice Google Doodle.
Great things to do on a hot summer day to fill the love bucket… on summer solstice or any long summer day:
- Go for simple. Go together or meet at a local park for a walk. Take it easy walking around, talking, and looking at the surroundings. It can feel pressure-free. You don’t have to worry about impressing her with the right choice of restaurant or wooing her or being superman. Casual and low-key can make summer very cool.
- BBQ. There’s nothing like a man who knows how to use a grill. Can you say “cookout”? Go together to the market and pick out items to make together. It can be fun and sexy to you lady in the kitchen and really enjoyable to make a meal together. More pleasure to follow! (Steve Champagne is a grilling hero!)
- Check out an outdoor concert. There can be easy going, really fun and romantic. Being outdoors is cool and the music fills in the awkward lulls in conversation.
- Are you near water? Is there a ferry ride in your future? Being on the water can be fun and romantic. Rent a sailboat for the day. Or get some jetskis. Wet is fun and cool!
- Hang out in her backyard and cool off with a bucket of water balloons and have a water balloon fight. Fun, and seeing her all wet and in a T-shirt — really hot.
- What’s summer without baseball? If you gal likes the sport, bring her along. If she loves, it, get season’s tickets!
- Outdoor sports can be really sexy especially if you lady is somewhat athletic. Seeing a woman get sweaty in front of you can be exhilarating. Get a group together to play soccer or even croquet or better yet, swim, surf, or waterski! Do something sporty gets the testosterone flowing and the love biochemicals glowing!
- Backyard movies, picnic style can be fun to watch a movie outdoors. If you don’t mind your laptop getting a little sand, then pack up some snacks, and a blanket and head for the beach at dusk. Changing your routine and mixing things up feels more special than just sitting on the sofa with a DVD and it is intimate.
Here’s some cool facts with a great music soundtrack about Summer Solstice:
Here’s what the “pagans” are doing today at Stonehenge. Thousands flock there for the longest day of the year.
You don’t need to be a scientist or a pagan to fill your gals love bucket on the longest day of the year. Do something simple like go fly a kite together. Bringing out the ‘kid’ I each of you definitely fills the love bucket with lots of laughter!
Sherrie Rose
The Love Linguist
Dedicated to Enhancing Your Love and S*X Life!
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Father’s Day Fills The Love Bucket
Sunday, June 19th, 2011 Posted in Gifts, Lifestyle, The Love Bucket® | No Comments »
The Love Bucket is what this blog is all about and without father’s there would be no love bucket. The concept of the love bucket is with a loving couple who fill each other’s love buckets. A father ideally fills his wife’s love bucket. When her love bucket is full the family feels it. You know the saying, “Happy Wife, Happy Life.”
Every where go there are reminders of Father’s Day. Sings on storefronts, Father’s Day Specials, Father’s Day Gifts, and of course, Google has added the standard Father’s Day Tie in there logo for Father’s Day.
Of course, all the kids are saying they have the World’s Greatest Dad. And they do! In their universe, their father IS the World’s Greatest Dad!
If you’re chosen to have children in your lifestyle, you are probably be in honored today. As a child, you can honor your father today. Here’s some background on the Father’s Day Holiday.
Check out the Father’s Day update on the Mother’s Day Post in May.
Sherrie Rose
The Love Linguist
Dedicated to Enhancing Your Love and S*X Life!
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Love Bucket List – Dating Attraction Tactics
Thursday, June 2nd, 2011 Posted in Lifestyle, Love Bucket List, Sherrie Rose Recommends, The Love Bucket® | 3 Comments »
Make Your Love Bucket List
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If your goal is to attract an incredible partner, spouse, and life mate, Darren Hardy suggests asking yourself this question first: “Who do I need to become?” |
Jim Rohn said, “If you want to have more (goals) you have to become more… Success is something you attract by the person you have become.”
In this case, the success goal is to attract the kind of woman or man you want in your life.
My friend John Socratous posted recently in Facebook:
“A boy spends his time finding a girl to sleep with. A man spends his time looking for a woman worth waking up to for a lifetime. “
That is when a guy has made a decision to go from DFS to DFL and goes through the Shift. [see urban dictionary for definitions DFS, DFL, The Shift and even love bucket list] Unless you are really ready to attract a life partner, you probably won’t be interested in the level of detail you need focus on to imagine and commit the time and get clear on paper. It is an exercise worth your highest attention.
Darren Hardy said that when he understood the idea of “Who do I need to become?” it revolutionized his life and personal growth.
Inside Darren’s book, The Compound Effect, in the chapters: How Goal Setting Actually Works: The Mystery Secret ‘Revealed’ followed by Who You Have To Become, he wrote about attracting the woman of his dreams:
“When I was single and ready to find my mate and get married, I made a long list of traits I desired in the perfect woman (for me). I filled more than forty pages of a journal, front and back, describing her in great detail – her personality, character, her attributes, attitudes, and philosophies about life, even what kind of family and she came from it, including culture and physical make up, down to the texture of her hair. I wrote in depth what our life would be like and what we’d do together. If I had then asked, “What to have to do to find and get this girl?” I might still be on that butterfly chase.
“Instead I looked back at the list and considered whether or not I embodied the same attributes myself.
· Did I have the very qualities I was expecting in her?
· I asked myself, what kind of man is woman like this be looking for?
· Who do I need to become to be attractive to a woman of this substance?
“I filled forty more pages describing all the attributes, qualities, behaviors, attitudes, and characteristics I needed to become myself. Then I went to work on becoming an each those qualities. Guess what? It worked! As if she were peeled off the pages of my journal and appeared in front of me my wife, Georgia, is exactly what I described and ask for, in almost eerie detail. The key was my getting clear on who I’d have to be to attract and keep a woman of her quality, and then doing the work to achieve that.”
Darren tells how he proposed to Georgia in his book, The Compound Effect. "I’ve never seen such a smile…Gorgeous…Enough to make an angels heart run wild…" a couple lines from the song with by Boz Scaggs, with the name Georgia. Hear the song in video and read the lyrics, below in this post.
This concept of “Who do I need to become to be attractive to a woman of this substance?” applies to almost any goal in your life not just attracting a life mate.
Take some time today to make a list of the most important goals in your life. If you’re not ready to make the LOVE BUCKET LIST to attract a life partner, start with goals in other aspects of your life. This idea is to “Go for whole-life success – to create harmony in all aspects of your life: relationships and lifestyle areas such as business, finance, health, well-being, spirituality, and family. The Lifestyle Ring of Desire of the love bucket is about compatibility in your relationship design plan.
So whether you are making your LOVE BUCKET LIST today or a list of other goals, remember, getting clear on what you desire and knowing the person you have to become to attract that situation or person, is the key to success.
"Strategy will give you the plan, desire will direct your intention, only heart will carry you through to victory." #ringsofdesire
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GEORGIA song and lyrics by Boz Scaggs
*Georgia*
(Boz Scaggs)
Georgia
I swear I’ve never seen such a smile
Gorgeous
Enough to make an angels heart run wild
Your lazy eyes and small town lies
Have got me in your spell
Your drive-in boys and backseat noises
Oh you learned so well
Oh oh oh
So how was I to know
You got me you caught me by now
Georgia
Your daddy was high the night he dreamed of you
Georgia
The stars were flying the night that you came through
Christmas in your eyes
Oh what a nice surprise
Oh oh oh
And now I miss you so
But baby
I’m comin’ back to you
Georgia
We will be together dear
If they ever let me out of here
They will say that its not true
But I did it all for you
Georgia won’t you tell them for me dear
Oooh oooh oooh
Georgia
Girl I never lived through a night like that
Sure enough
Got your loving where I like it at
Moonlight through the pines
Oh oh oh
But how were we to know
That wasn’t moonlight
They were searchlights
Oh no
Georgia
We will be together dear
If they ever let me out of here
They will say that its not true
But I did it all for you
Georgia won’t you tell them for me dear
Georgia
We will be together dear
Oh my dear
If they ever let me out of here
Georgia Lyrics by Boz Scaggs:
http://www.bozscaggs.info/69295/html/page.html
Anthony Hopkins Fills The Love Bucket!
Saturday, May 14th, 2011 Posted in 7 Rings of Desire, Her Love Bucket, Lifestyle, Masterman, Mastermen, The Love Bucket® | 3 Comments »Anthony Hopkins Fills The Love Bucket!
Before the Love Bucket: Anthony Hopkins, born 1937, is a Welsh actor of film, stage and television. Knighted in 1993, Sir Philip Anthony Hopkins, he is considered to be one of the greatest living actors. Hopkins is perhaps best known for his portrayal of cannibalistic serial killer Hannibal Lecter in movie The Silence of the Lambs. It was his role as Hannibal Lecter that he received the Academy Award for Best Actor.
Stella was an antiques dealer and Sir Anthony met her one day when he walked into her shop in Pacific Palisades, California. They married in 2003.
Love Bucket at The Training Event: On May 14th, Bill Dorfman and Anthony Hopkins participated in the James Malinchak event in Los Angeles. Sir Anthony was there to represent the LEAP Foundation to gather grants for needy and deserving children to attend leadership learning camps.
Sir Anthony was on stage in a light grey suit, white open collar shirt, and black ankle boots. He sat on stage on the bar stool height chair which showed just above his boots a pair or matching bright red socks.
Sir Anthony spoke of his childhood and that those traces of demeaning experiences affected his self-esteem. Here are a few of Anthony Hopkins “sound bites” :
To be successful requires massive discipline. The progress to get an acting job is brutal and the rejection is tough. Real freedom is to ‘not care’ what other people think. Don’t waste your time trying to make an impression. Show up, say your lines, hit the mark. Never laugh at or smear others; support other people’s efforts and their dreams. Be bold and mighty forces will come to your aid. Your own inadequacies can be your greatest gifts. Believe in the vision you have for your life and you can overcome.
Then, Sir Anthony stood up. The red socks disappeared.
| Anthony Hopkins proceeded to ‘Fill The Love Bucket®’ of his beautiful wife, Stella, with a heart-felt tribute. |
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Sir Hopkins motioned to the back of the room where Stella was quietly sitting wearing a beautiful black hat. His gratitude and love for Stella shone through his words, “I want to give a tribute to MY Stella.” Sir Anthony shared that Lady Hopkins was a motivating force in his life. She encouraged him to paint and those painting were shown at their private wedding ceremony in Malibu. She inspired him to paint over 75 paintings and some where given to charities to be used for donations.
Sir Hopkins continued with his tribute to Stella and spoke of how she inspired him to compose music. He said that he has concerts in July in Birmingham and Cardiff where he will present his original classical music. This 73-year old man filled the love bucket of his wife in a public forum recognizing her contribution to his life and how she supports him and his talent.
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Sir Anthony Hopkins and his wife Lady Stella Arroyave
More on Sir Anthony Hopkins http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/
zimbio.com 2011 – Photo by Frederick M. Brown |
After the talk, photos were taken, with Anthony Hopkins the main attraction. I took a moment to speak with Stella. I said, “That tribute surely filled your love bucket!” Stella put her hand on her heart and replied, “Wasn’t that beautiful? I was so touched by his words.” It doesn’t matter if you are married to a famous celebrity and always in the public eye. The gift of filling the love bucket, in this case, with the Recognition Ring of Desire works no matter if you are unknown or a big celebrity.
There are three aspects of the Recognition Ring of Desire. Sir Anthony recognized Stella’s actions in how she inspires, contributes, motivates, encourages and helps an already great man become a better version of himself.
It was a gift to witness such a tribute. Anthony Hopkins definitely fills The Love Bucket®!!!
Sherrie Rose
The Love Linguist
Dedicated to Enhancing Your Love and S*X Life!
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