Love Bucket: I Love You
Wednesday, February 1st, 2012 Posted in 7 Rings of Desire, Love Bucket | No Comments »
Love Bucket: I Love You Dialogue between Husband and Wife
Wife: I Love You.
Husband: I Love You.
Wife: Prove it! Tell the world!
Husband: *whispers in ear* I Love You.
Wife: Why’d you whisper it to ME?
Husband: Because you are my world.
Perhaps you’ve seen the dialogue, above, being passed along in email, Facebook, or other social medium. It falls under the category of the recognition ring of desire and the contact ring of desire of The Love Bucket. Contact because one form is words and recognition because it all about “you.”
This may not work for every woman. The public/private aspect is one of the considerations of the love bucket. She may really need validation by you, as her man, telling the world that you love her.
One of the regular issues that men have with their own love bucket is recognition of being a good husband. Not just a good provider, or a good father, or a good handyman, or even a great lover, but a GREAT HUSBAND. Ladies, if you are reading this find out what he wants to hear in this regard. It may not be words, he may want actions.
There is a formula to filling the love bucket. You need to observe to and apply the considerations. Every person has a unique set that fills their love bucket.
Valentine’s Day is coming up so put a little more effort into figuring out your special guy or gal’s desires. Guys, you can take THE MAN CLASS and get a jump start.
Sherrie Rose
The Love Linguist
Dedicated to Enhancing Your Love and S*X Life!
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Love Bucket In the Boardroom
Saturday, January 28th, 2012 Posted in Dating, Mating, Relating, Love Bucket | No Comments »Love Bucket In the Boardroom – Why Employees Want Happiness
When the Harvard Business Review starts focusing on happy employees you know that putting people first is a core driver. That’s because the landscape in business is changing and the attention is people (not just profits).
What does that have to do with the love bucket? Explanation will follow after a few excerpts in italics from the recent HBR.org article
There is a sign of the growing recognition that happy, engaged employees are more productive and generate better outcomes for their companies.
Just as a full love bucket helps a woman become a more happy, engaged girlfriend, wife and partner who is more attentive, more passionate and a better cheerleader in the relationship.
If you want happy employees, you can just pay them more. You can give them more time off. You can give them free lunches by celebrity chefs. Only a few of the things that make employees "happy," however, result in real, sustained benefit for the company.
The Provisions Ring of Desire of the Love Bucket is about providing which can be in the form of gifts, vacations, presents and other goodies. And, as noted above with employees, the stuff alone does not sustain happiness.
We have been studying the links between employee engagement and customer loyalty for a few years now, and we’ve found that the only route to employee happiness that also benefits shareholders is through a sense of fulfillment resulting from an important job done well.
For men, the feeling of a job well done on the job is critical. For women, in a relationship the feeling of being part of a deeply committed relationship where her love bucket is being filled regularly and she is part of making her man’s life better leads to mutual benefit. Filling the love bucket is part of fulfillment.
Direct feedback from customers. The most important step, of course, is providing a steady stream of feedback from customers and then "closing the loop" quickly by sharing it directly with employees in its most raw form. When frontline employees and managers hear directly from customers — when they see how customers scored their experience, when they hear what went right and wrong in the customer’s own words — the effect is dramatic. Applause in the form of positive feedback inspires them to keep up the good work. Criticism often inspires employees to improve their performance on their own or to seek additional coaching so they can do better next time.
Applause and positive feedback work the same. Here’s where things change from the boardroom to the bedroom. Criticism usually does not inspire your woman. It creates distance. Because criticism in an intimate relationship is personal. There are ways to broach wanting to make changes but outright criticism is not one of them.
Loyal, passionate employees stay longer, work harder, work more creatively, and find ways to go the extra mile.
Loyal, passionate lovers who have a regularly filled love bucket put more effort into the happiness of the relationship. And your sex life improves.
Being the “Chairman of the Relationship” is about having your shareholder become more invested in you and your relationship with more SHARING of love, sex, passion, and FUN! See Love Bucket Article describing “Chairman of the Relationship” here Chairman of the Relationship
And, speaking of business, boardrooms and bedroom, check out the items with various love bucket logos in The Love Bucket store.
Love Bucket Valentine: Valentine’s Day and Valentine Gifts
Thursday, January 26th, 2012 Posted in Gifts, Love Bucket, Romance | No Comments »
Valentine’s Day is now the number two gift giving holiday, right behind Christmas.
How many days before Valentine’s Day?
The countdown has begun! Valentine’s Day is less than three weeks away. Valentine’s Day is now the number two gift giving holiday, right behind Christmas, with 88% of Americans saying they plan on giving a present to their loved one.
Click on the image below to get an updated countdown to Valentine’s Day
Google has good news for love.
Google searches related to Valentine’s Day increased 35% compared to last year. Not only are more people searching, and they’re searching two days earlier – last year people began looking for Valentine’s Day ideas on January 9th. This year Valentine’s Day searches began on January 7th. 
In 2011 the average man spent $158 for Valentine’s Day, about $80 more than women. Women look for Valentine’s Day gift ideas earlier and more often than their male significant others.
Gift giving… listen click here
If you look at the word cloud below searches include “diy valentines gifts” and “valentines day baskets,” which means there will be quite a few people unwrapping homemade gifts or pre-made gift baskets this year. The biggest cluster of phrases, “valentines day border,” “valentines day drinks,” and “valentines day meals,” signal that people are also planning on celebrating with food, drinks, and homemade recipes and decorations for Valentines. Valetine’s recipes on YouTube are a big hit.
Valentines Day Retail sales in growing annually. 2011 sales were over 15 billion. Valentine’s day gifts such as jewelry, gifts and flower are on the increase.
Online sales happen in advance with jewelry sales starting to peak 3 weeks before Valentine’s Day.
Get your free romantic tips including gift giving guide for jewelry and other bonuses for Valentine’s day and every day here: Free Romantic Tips
We are all mortal…
Until the first kiss…
or the second glass of wine
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Hopefully this helps you steal away some hearts on Valentine’s Day!
The best way to fill her love bucket is to discover the 5 Love Dynamics that will lead you to Great Love, Sex, and Life!
Sherrie Rose
The Love Linguist
Dedicated to Enhancing Your Love and S*X Life!
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Love Bucket: Ex-Homeless Guy Gets The Girl (his trick inside)
Monday, January 23rd, 2012 Posted in Dating, Mating, Relating, Love Bucket, Masterman, Mastermen | No Comments »
Ex-Homeless Guy Gets The Girl
Several years ago, as the story goes,
co-founder of now successful MLM,
David Woods, was in a natural health
food store grabbing a quick bite to eat
when….
….the sparkle glimmering off the
face of a girl caught his attention
and consumed him almost instantly.
She was sitting with another man -
obviously her boyfriend – enjoying
lunch and good conversation.
Dave felt his chest tighten up.
Emotion rushed through his veins.
A compelling urge inside him made it
impossible to walk out the door of the
store without saying something to her.
So he mustered up the guts to walk
over….and at the very last minute, he
swerved – and walked away.
"Wussie" he muttered to himself.
He started to walk back over and
again – at the last minute, he swerved.
Sweat puddled up in his hands and
started to bead on his forehead.
His chest was pounding.
The wrinkled dress shirt he was wearing
was sticking to his back.
"Screw it!" he exclaimed.
He walked straight over and said……
"I know you two are together, and I
don’t mean to be rude….but I think
you are the most beautiful girl in the
world…."
"We’re not together…" she said.
"He’s just a friend."
A short period of time later, they
were married.
Everyday people walk away from
situations that could be a defining
moment in their lives.
Don’t walk away, seize your moment.
Don’t be a wussie.
Stop over thinking it.
The results are right there when you have the confidence to act.
Be a Masterman and fill her love bucket!
Check out the interview and Carlos Xuma’s program to
make this happen for you!
Empty Love Bucket: Going to Sleep Angry
Saturday, January 21st, 2012 Posted in Dating, Mating, Relating, Love Bucket | No Comments »Going to Sleep Angry Empties The Love Bucket
Any negative emotion, like an argument with a spouse or a disagreement at work can cause negative emotions. The love bucket starts to empty not fill up.
The b-spot (brain) is affected by negative emotional responses particularly at bedtime. A study by University of Massachusetts at Amherst neuroscientists concludes that if you have a negative emotional response—their examples were for viewing an unsettling picture or experiencing a traumatic event—the response is reduced if you stay awake afterwards.
The old anecdotal saying that you should never go to sleep angry just got backed up by science, thanks to the neuroscientists at UMass.
If you go to sleep immediately, the response is "protected," which means that when you are exposed to the effect again, your negative response will be just as negative as the first time. There is a built-in survival value to our ancestors by preserving very negative emotions and memories of life-threatening situations and a strong to incentive to avoid similar occasions in the future.
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The scientists pointed to people who suffer from post traumatic stress disorder and witnesses to accidents as examples of how their conclusion is applicable in practical terms. If a witness to a gruesome accident remains awake after the event, the next time they see a reproduction or photograph of the scene, their emotional response will be much lower than if they had slept right after. Researchers even said that their b-spot, as a defense mechanism is averse to going to sleep and the brain keeps active.
The researchers found that contrary to previous assumptions that sleep might soften negative emotional effects of a disturbing event, a period of sleep was associated with participants’ maintaining the strength of their initial negative feelings compared to a period of wakefulness.
The study points to the practice that you should try to resolve negative emotional feelings before you go to sleep so that you can have a less visceral reaction to the problem in the morning.
