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Four Seasons of Love Part 2 (Fill The Love Bucket)

Tuesday, March 6th, 2012 Posted in Dating, Mating, Relating, Seduction, SEX, The Love Bucket® | 1 Comment »

Four Seasons of Love Part 2

Some folks say this is good for every one of the Four Seasons of Love. Fill The Love Bucket by shining up the rings of desire of your special lady. One of those desires is sex.

Here’s a quick recap of the Four Seasons of Love Defined:

DATING - Season 1 of the Four Seasons of Love

INTIMACY - Season 2 of the Four Seasons of Love

COMMITMENT - Season 3 of the Four Seasons of Love

BREAK-UP & MAKE-UP - Season 4 of Four Seasons of Love

Four Seasons of Love celebrates love providing ideas for experiences for couples in the real world and online. The Love Bucket of romance and intimacy gives you and a chance to rekindle the flames of passion… Four Seasons of Love define the four seasons of the lifecycle of love in four parts. Part1 = Season 1, Part 2 = Season 2, Part 3 = Season 3, Part 4= Season 4

For many relationships, intimacy and commitment go together. Season 2 of the Four Seasons of Love is intimacy which includes sex but is not limited to sex. In the Four Seasons of Love there is a close familiarity and friendship, closeness, private connection, and involves physical or emotional intimacy.

In the Four Seasons of Love, the physical intimacy is characterized by romantic passionate love and sexual activity. The term intimacy often refers to is a sexual relationship.

Fortunately, in the Four Seasons of Love, intimacy does not end and traverses several of the Four Seasons of Love. There is a desire to belong and to love which is often satisfied within an intimate relationship.

The well-known Dummies books have several volumes relating to the four seasons of love.

To honor our friends and authors of the Dummies books we will dedicate the four seasons of love to them. Here’s some of their sage advice:

Have a Sexier, More Exciting Relationship

Use these tips to keep the sexual chemistry alive in your marriage and improve your sex life:

· Show your love every day.
· Touch each other lovingly and sensuously.
· Show and tell your spouse what pleases you.
· Let your fantasies run free.
· Make time to be alone together.
· Play and laugh together.
· Make special time for sex.
· Become an artful kisser.
· Talk sexy to each other.

Try altering time, place and technique to further beat the bedroom boredom.

Be daring and create a sense of sexual excitement

Acting out fantasies can be a rich and exciting experience for couples. Once you’ve shared an experience, you’re likely to feel more comfortable with your fantasy lives and extend your repertoire further. If you do want to act out a fantasy, make sure that your partner is comfortable with the idea.

Playing grown-up games can also bring passion back to your sex life, and can increase feelings of trust and intimacy. Try:

Buying a blindfold
Adding sexy twists to classic games like hide and seek
Buying a commercial sex game
Staging fun play fights
Engaging in role playing

Maintain a sexual connection with your partner

If you’re working all day or busy raising a family, you may find that you stop seeing your partner as a lover. Maintaining a sexual connection will help you keep a sense of sexuality outside of the bedroom. Try:

Sending saucy text messages during the day.
Saying “I fancy you”, or paying an unexpected, sexually loaded compliment
Being physically bolder with affection

Create sexual space to arouse your senses

Think about creating an environment that appeals to each of your five senses in order to maximize the sensual experience.

Sight: Soft lightning and candlelight in particular can be very romantic and can cast exciting shadows in a room. Think about colours which excite you. Try swapping the bed linen for something sexy
Sound: Playing music can help to get you in the mood. Think about what kind of music makes you feel sexy, or calm and chilled.
Smell: Your partner’s favorite scent, or favorite aromatherapy oil can get your pulse racing. Lavender aids relaxation, ylang ylang can boost sensuality, or choose sandalwood to boost your sexual energy.
Taste: The link between food and sexual desire is well known. Foods which are said to contain aphrodisiac properties include strawberries, asparagus, chocolate, oysters, saffron and lettuce.
Touch: Your skin is the biggest sensory organ you have, yet it’s often forgotten about. Interesting textures such as silk, fur, feather and satin can help you rekindle a passion for touch and feel.

ALTER the romantic initiation “rules”

If sex has become a bit routine, try spicing things up by initiating sex in new ways:

Romantic and tender: This could start with a romantic supper, or massage, or any gesture which says ‘I love you’.
Brazen and bold: Try a sexy, direct statement or physical come-on which is straight to the point and says ‘I want you’.
Urgent and frenzied: The tempo is quickly upped after the usual hug and kiss
Daring and erotic: Turn up the volume by dressing sexily or performing a strip-tease for your partner.

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Thanks to the Dummies books who are celebrating in March and for being part of the Four Seasons of Love.

Intimate relationships may start with season 1, dating, of the Four Seasons of Love and involve the physical and sexual attraction by one person to another, liking and loving, romantic feelings, and sexual relationships.

Season 3 of the Four Seasons of Love coming next.

Four Seasons of Love Part 1 ( Fill The Love Bucket)

Monday, March 5th, 2012 Posted in Dating, Mating, Relating, The Love Bucket® | No Comments »

Four Seasons of Love Part 1

To begin to fill The Love Bucket, in most cases you start with dating.

Here’s a quick recap of the Four Seasons of Love Defined:

DATING - Season 1 of the Four Seasons of Love

INTIMACY - Season 2 of the Four Seasons of Love

COMMITMENT - Season 3 of the Four Seasons of Love

BREAK-UP & MAKE-UP - Season 4 of Four Seasons of Love

The 5 Love Dynamics starts with dating. Check out the free intro by clicking on the image.

Thanks to the Dummies books who are celebrating in March and for kicking off the Four Seasons of Love. Here’s some of their sage advice:

Flirting Tips for Dating

When you’re on a date, flirting is a delightful way to make your date — and you, for that matter — feel irresistible and tingly all over. The point of flirting with your date is interest; that’s why it’s so alluring. Here are some flirting do’s and don’ts:

· Use your whole body. Lean forward, make eye contact, smile, bend your knees a bit, and relax your hands and arms. Make very, very sure your breath is very, very sweet: no onions, garlic, coffee, or ciggy in the recent past.

· Make eye contact. Looking someone in the eyes is very alluring. And it makes your date feel like he or she has your undivided attention, which is as it should be.

· Smile, don’t smirk. Smile openly and sincerely — it’s irresistible.

· Pay attention. No looking like you’re trying to remember if you fed the cat.

· Lighten up; don’t bulldoze. Telling your date she or he is incredibly hot isn’t flirting; it’s steering your dating experience directly into a mountain.

· Focus on your partner, not yourself. Make your date feel as though every word is a pearl of wisdom.

· Enjoy yourself. Fun is the flirter’s playground. And once you’re having fun, it’s easy to get others to play.

Using Technology Wisely When You’re Dating

Our lives are defined by technology, and the dating scene certainly has changed because of it. The Internet, social networking sites, and cell phones are ubiquitous, but you have to use each of them with caution when you’re meeting potential dates and going on dates. Here are some hints:

· Use common sense when posting information about yourself online. Your home address, photos of yourself when you were drunk and half-dressed, and your sexual fantasies have no place on the Internet. Censor yourself, or you’ll live to regret it.

· Whether you meet a potential date online or in real life, do not Google that person or search for more information about him or her on social networking sites. If you meet on Facebook, obviously the info he or she has posted in the Facebook profile is fair game. But if you meet at school, don’t assume that you have license to check out this person’s online profiles. Take the time to get to know your potential date in real life so you don’t make any assumptions based on what’s posted online.

· Don’t make a potential date your Facebook “friend” just yet. Doing so can create feelings of jealousy and a sense of over-familiarity that can doom a relationship before it starts.

· Don’t badmouth your exes online. Any potential date can see that information and will feel pretty confident that you’d do the same thing if he or she ever crossed you.

· If you’re hoping for a relationship, avoid long-distance connections online. If the person you’re chatting with online lives more than 25 miles away from you, the two of you simply can’t see each other often enough to have a stable relationship.

· Avoid online “shopping.” If you meet someone you’re interested in, give yourself a chance to get to know this person before trolling for more potential dates. The online dating pool is huge, but you’ll never head in the direction of a relationship if you’re constantly checking out who else is available.

· When you’re on a date, turn off your cell phone. Yes, you read that right! Give your date your complete attention, and don’t you dare sneak in some texting while your date isn’t looking.

· After a date, don’t text your date repeatedly hoping for confirmation that the date went well.You wouldn’t call this person again and again, would you? (Would you?) Have some confidence in yourself, and give your date some breathing room.

· Keep your work life and your love life completely separate. That means no dating at work, but it also means to leave your office computer out of your online dating adventures. You don’t want to lose your job while you’re looking for love.

How to Ask for a First Date

Asking for a first date can be intimidating, but it’s not the end of the world if the answer is no. To better the chances of getting a yes when you ask for a first date, stay flexible, keep things light, and use these tips:

Ask for a Wednesday or Thursday night. Never ask for a first date for a Friday or Saturday night (too big as date nights) or Monday (everyone hates Mondays).
Offer a specific opportunity (as well as alternative days). If you say, “Would you like to go out sometime?” you leave yourself absolutely no way out if the person says no, and if the answer is yes,you still have to ask the person out.
Offer options. Options can include the day, time, activity, and transportation. Options make you sound organized without being rigid.
Ask for a first date a week to ten days in advance (but you can break this rule with impunity as the need arises).
Go for it when you’re having a good day. You’re cuter when you’re happy, and self-confidence is sexy.
Think KISS (Keep It Simple, Sweetie). All you want to do here is send a clear, gentle, but important message: I’d like to spend some time getting to know you better. Are you interested?

Here are more Dummies book resources for dating:

In the end, it is all about filling The Love Bucket
and satisfying desire again and again.

Four Seasons of Love Part 2 coming up next.

Four Seasons of Love Introduction (Fill The Love Bucket)

Sunday, March 4th, 2012 Posted in Dating, Mating, Relating, The Love Bucket® | 1 Comment »

Four Seasons of Love Introduction

The Love Bucket is all about fulfilling desire. This motivates both sexes as they experience the four seasons of love.

The four seasons of weather relate to the four seasons of love. Spring and summer often bring to mind courtship and weddings. Seasons of autumn and winter are times to pull close and prepare for the bleak, blustery and sometimes very frigid moments.

Four Seasons of Love Defined:

DATING - Season 1 of the Four Seasons of Love

INTIMACY - Season 2 of the Four Seasons of Love

COMMITMENT - Season 3 of the Four Seasons of Love

BREAK-UP & MAKE-UP - Season 4 of Four Seasons of Love

The well-known Dummies books have several volumes relating to the four seasons of love.

To honor our friends and authors of the Dummies books we will dedicate the four seasons of love to them. Here’s some of their sage advice:

Communicate by Listening to Improve Your Relationship

Improving communication is a key part of improving your relationship. In fact, it’s the single most significant improvement you can make. To be an effective communicator, you have to be a good listener first.

· Attending: This means showing that you’re paying attention. You can do that by ensuring that your body language is open and that you’re facing your partner, and by giving good eye contact. Also nod your head to show you’re listening, and provide minimal verbal cues such as uttering ‘uh, um’ at key points.

· Restating: If your partner has said something particularly important, demonstrate your understanding by repeating it back – ‘So you’re saying you want me to pick up the kids on the way back from work tomorrow.’

· Clarifying: If you’re not sure that you’ve understood something, ask for clarification – ‘So are you saying you want me to pick up the kids on the way back from work tomorrow?’

· Summarizing: When you’ve shared a lot of information, you can draw together the main threads to show that you’ve got the full story – ‘So you’re going to have a really stressful day tomorrow and you’re worried about finishing on time, so you want me to pick up the kids on the way back from work.’

· Encouraging: To demonstrate that you want to listen and you want to hear more, use minimal encouragers to keep your partner flowing. For example, say something like ‘And then what happened?’ or ‘In what way?’ or simply ‘Go on.’

· Being quiet: Make sure that you don’t do all the talking. Give plenty of space for your partner to speak, and allow quiet times when she can think about what she wants to say next. While this is happening, make sure that you don’t get distracted and start fidgeting or writing tomorrow’s shopping list, but continue to attend physically.

Rules for Effective Communication In Your Relationship

Communicating effectively is the keystone to any relationship. Use the tips in this list to make sure your message gets across – and to help you listen to what you’re being told.

· Be clear on the objective of the conversation: Before you open your mouth, make sure that you know why you’re doing so. No communication is effective unless you know what you’re hoping to achieve by it.

· Choose your timing: Make sure that you’re both as relaxed as possible, have plenty of time and can’t be interrupted.

· Stick to the matter in hand: Don’t try to get everything of your chest at once. Keep focused on the issue you need to deal with.

· Avoid starting sentences with ‘You . . . ’: Don’t start out with an accusation – or by sounding as though you’re making one.

· Never say never or always: Categorical statements are provocative and unlikely to be true. Cut them out.

· Watch your shoulds and shouldn’ts: Unless you honestly believe that you have the right to take the moral high ground and preach to your partner, don’t do it

· Don’t interrupt: Even if you’re 100 per cent sure that your partner’s got nothing else worth saying, keep quiet and let him finish. If you want your partner to become a better talker, then first you must become a better listener.

· Stay calm or postpone the conversation: When people get angry, reason tends to disappear. Relax or take a time out.

· Avoid sarcasm, monologues or mind reading: Don’t try to manipulate the situation to your advantage. If you speak to your partner or act in a way that you’d never dream of doing with your boss, then ask yourself why.

· Express your feelings as well as your opinions: Saying that you feel unvalued when he’s late explains not just what the problem is, but the effect that the problem is having on you.

Thanks to the Dummies books who are celebrating in March and for kicking off the Four Seasons of Love.

Sweetness in a Love Bucket

Saturday, March 3rd, 2012 Posted in The Love Bucket® | No Comments »

Taste the sweetness in a love bucket (not THE Love Bucket) with cookies and truffle-like desserts.

Happening this weekend

What: Oregon Chocolate Festival

When: Friday through Sunday, March 2-4

Where: Ashland Springs Hotel, 212 E. Main St.

Tickets: $20 for a one-day pass

The last winner for Best in Show at the Oregon Chocolate Festival for the "lemon lovie" — a small shortbread cookie filled with a lemon-infused chocolate ganache and dipped in white chocolate was Love Bucket Baking by owners Padgett and her daughter, Leah Dancer.

"We’re not a true truffle, and we’re more than a cookie, so we’re trying to create a niche for cocoa creations in the chocolate world," Padgett says.

Love Bucket Baking and The Love Bucket® have no relationship with except we truly appreciate delectable sweetness and real winners.

Love Bucket: You’ll Never Forget The First Time

Monday, February 20th, 2012 Posted in Masterman, Mastermen, Seduction, The Love Bucket® | No Comments »

You’ll Never Forget The First Time

First impressions MATTER!

You can try to "be nice" or you can give her a MIND BENDER.

I vote for door #2.

Nothing like a beautiful woman to trigger ideas of HOT

SEXUAL ENCOUNTERS …

Understanding Sexual Mastery is one of the traits of a Masterman.

Men love women and men love their cars. Seduction sometimes comes from transferring the desire for one onto the other.

It is your value that makes you stand out from other men. Read this love bucket article for more:

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