In general there are three sorts of relationships.

Some don’t "fill us" anymore. Some do.

1) Both “his and hers” love buckets are getting filled.

2) Only one the love buckets is getting filled. You wish things may change; that there may be a chance for love to flow back into the love bucket.

3) Both love buckets are bone dry. Do you feel you can’t let go of the other person’s love bucket or release the connection with another person?

Spring is a time for new beginnings. Sometimes people just do not serve our greater good, not that the person is not good, it is the connection between us that doesn’t work anymore.  The love bucket is not open to receive.  Energy is wasted trying to fill it. Negative intimate connections often take us to a negative place especially if the relationship does not serve the greater good for all involved.

Sometimes people are obsessed with another person. Often it is because the object of their obsession participates in the energy exchange. Obsession is completely destructive. Preventing someone you care about from having the truly good relationship they deserve is just like being a thief.

Why should relationships end? When you end a relationship you release that person to be free. You free that person to be available for someone else. When you release and let go more beneficial connections can be made. There is someone out there that is much better suited to fill the love bucket!

If you are in a romantic relationship fill the love bucket MORE! If only one of the “his and hers” love buckets is getting filled, revitalize your sexual dynamics and relating dynamics and start filling the love bucket again. If the love bucket is bone dry and you’re holding onto the past, release him or her.

Love is the ultimate reality. Love is to be shared completely and unconditionally. The future of love is lovematism. Look into your heart and know if you have the capacity to receive love into your love bucket. Look into your heart and know if you have the ability to share love with a lover and fill their love bucket. It is a give to share love and it is a give to receive love. Filling the love bucket is an act of love.

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Everyone automatically is magnetized to the word lovematism.

You can find lovematism on urban dictionary and also on wordnik

http://www.wordnik.com/words/lovematism/contributions

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=lovematism

http://www.getlovematism.com

http://www.lovematism.com

Sherrie Rose recommends lovematism for lovers!

“It is better to be with someone even if the love is gone than to be alone.”

“I’d rather be alone that with someone who does not truly, deeply love me.”

“I would move mountains to be with you, to be near you, to be by your side.”

“Accept what is and live with it, or, change and live with the consequences.”

“I want to stand on the rooftop and tell the world, “I love you!””

“There are three choices: stay, leave, or modify.”

“Give and receive love consistently, not just when you “feel” like it.”

“Do you really see me in your future and if so, how do I show up? “

“I am on the lookout for someone better; know that I’m just biding my time
with you until someone better for me comes along.”

“It is your choice to focus your attention on me.”

“Get clear on what you really want and the right person and opportunities will show up.”

“Hanging on to your dream of the perfect relationship will meet with unfilled expectations.”

“To thine own heart be true.”

“I give 80% of me 100% of the time, you want 100% of me, 80% of the time – there will
always be dissatisfaction in the 20%.

”Just because someone said, “I do” or made a commitment doesn’t mean you don’t
have to continue to work at the relationship.”

“You must feel trust in order to sacrifice for love.”

“Intermittent reinforcement keeps you hooked in love – you keep hoping that more will come
to get your next ‘fix’ of love. Very addictive; very unfulfilling.”

“Lovematism is the passionate bond of lovers: mind, body, heart, and soul.”

There Are Only So Many Moments Left To Live, Love, And Matter.

(my comment to Brendon Burchard from Sherrie Rose, The Love Linguist)

Brendon,

I had the pleasure of meeting you several times and first time was last summer just three weeks after your wedding. Your business approach was unique and your story about how “Life’s Golden Ticket” came to be was fascinating. I loved being in the BIG TENT with you. It was magical.

The Golden Ticket is a metaphor for “taking action.” Sometimes we take action because of fear and sometimes because we are inspired. When we are comfortable it takes a lot to move us unless eventually boredom sets in. To start anew require a reason. You are a motivational speaker and have provided much fuel to take action.

Your story I like best is the lion tamer.

[excerpt: (They locked him in the lion's den but he was too cowardly to fight the lion in the den.)

Finally, Mary (his fiancee) appeared...

I ran between Mary and the lion. Mufasa (the lion) roared and lunged. I raised my arms high in the air and screamed, "MUFASA, GET BACK...GET AWAY FROM HER, YOU BASTARD!" Mufasa's eyes widened, and he stepped backward and roared at me and at Mary...I took another step toward him and screamed with all my might, "GET BACK NOW, YOU SON OF A---" I looked over my shoulder for Mary...she has disappeared.

I looked back at Larry (the lion tamer). "Something worth fighting for," he said.]

I like this story best because it is about LOVE. Love is something worth fighting for because there is SOMEONE worth fighting for. Since I write about love and satisfying a woman by filling her love bucket, the reason behind fighting or TAKING ACTION is very powerful. When you experience LOVEMATISM (see the website) your motivation is powerful and will take you to new heights.

Thanks for all you do, Brendon.

Sherrie Rose
The Love Linguist

http://brendonburchard.com/blog/goldenticket/

Life’s Golden Ticket reveals this message from Brendon Burchard:

“WHEN YOU WERE BORN a golden ticket was slipped into your soul’s pocket by your Creator. The golden ticket gave you privileged access to a world of choices – it granted you permission to be whoever you wanted to be and do whatever you wanted to do.  You may not have known you were carrying this ticket all your life, but you were.  Life’s golden ticket is now in your hands. And now is your moment of truth. You can either stand still and live yesterday or you can step through the gates of possibility into the life you were truly meant to live.  The only price of admission is to release any anger, hurt, worry, or resentment tied to your old story and to have the clarity and strength to start anew.  You can make new choices.  You can live more fully.  You can love more completely.  You can make a great difference.  Every moment is a second chance to unleash and claim the life of purpose and contribution that is your destiny.  But beware.  The only promise in life is that soon the gates will close, as there are only so many moments left to live, love, and matter.  Stand still or step forward? The choice, as it always has been, is yours.”

I met my friend Michael for tea at a coffee shop in Flower Hill.  A week before the Del Mar races so it was still fairly quiet.

We were at an end table and on the wall beside us was this handwritten message:

“Open Your Heart
there may be
someone waiting
to get in”

It was one of those messages that is so simple and yet so true.  You must be open to receive.  To create the possibility of love in your life an open heart is a key ingredient.

The love bucket is ever-expanding and has an open rim ready for more lovematism. 

The heart is only open with the attitude, feeling and belief that love will find you.  Are you ready?  Open your heart today.

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Valentine’s Day is not just a day.  It is a celebration. It doesn’t have to be on February 14th. 

This year, Valentine’s Day is on Saturday, February 14th, 2009.  What pressure – a Saturday night on top of it!

So, take it easy.  Ask your lady if she wants to have a quiet evening with you and see if she wants to give to others – check out www.CharityWater.org

Giving a donation in the name of a loved one is a beautiful form of RECOGNITION.   Recognition does not fade or wilt; Recognition stays in the positive memory banks and can be associated with thoughts of you providing a wonderful recognition experience to honor her.

Sherrie Rose Recommends:  www.CharityWater.org

P.S.  If you have to give something tangible, give LOVEMATISM: www.GetLovematism.com

Here you go!

ONE: Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.

TWO:  Never laugh at anyone’s dreams. People who don’t have dreams and aspirations don’t have much.

THREE: Talk slowly but think quickly.

FOUR: When you lose, don’t lose the lesson.

FIVE: Remember the three R’s: Respect for self; Respect for others; and Responsibility for all your actions.

SIX: Don’t let a little dispute injure a great friendship.

SEVEN: When you realize you’ve made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it.

EIGHT: In disagreements, fight fairly. No name calling.

NINE: Say ‘bless you’ when you hear someone sneeze.

TEN: Smile when picking up the phone. The caller will hear it in your voice

ELEVEN: Spend some time alone with yourself.

TWELVE: Don’t believe all you hear, spend all you have, or sleep all you want.

THIRTEEN: Don’t judge people by their relatives.

FOURTEEN: When someone asks you a question you don’t want to answer, smile and ask, ‘Why do you want to know?’

FIFTEEN: Remember that great love and great achievements involve great risk.

SIXTEEN: Believe in love-at-first-sight.

SEVENTEEN: When you say, ‘I love you,’ mean it.

EIGHTEEN: When you say, ‘I’m sorry,’ look the person in the eye.

NINETEEN: Be engaged at least six months before you get married.

TWENTY:  Marry a man/woman you love to talk to. As you get older, their conversational skills will be as important as any other.

TWENTY-ONE: Love deeply and passionately. You might get hurt but it’s the only way to live life completely and fully.

TWENTY-TWO: Strive for LOVEMATISM in your intimate relationships. www.Lovematism.com

Thanks!

Lovematism & Love Bucket by Sherrie Rose, The Love Linguist™

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