Pandora’s Box in Dating Leads to Success in Filling Her Love Bucket
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MASTERMAN - Dating Over 30 - Response to Adam Gilad
Thursday, March 4th, 2010 Posted in 7 Rings of Desire, Dating, Mating, Relating, Lifestyle, Love Bucket, Masterman, Mastermen, The Love Linguist | No Comments »My friend Adam Gilad posed a question on his blog about dating over 35 and accessing your inner king. Here is my response. The link to his blog is at the end.
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Adam,
I read your post with amusement not because the information is not good, but because, you (and everyone) see the world through your phase of life, in this case, with two teenage sons sharing custody. And, those teenage sons may be messy and have chaos in their lives. Although, they are both EXTREMELY talented and intelligent young men and you are very proud of them as you should be. Chip off the old block.
Your questions:
“How should you date after 30 - 35 - 40? Should you act different? Should you BE different?”
First, I like the title of your upcoming new book, Adam, “Embodying Mastery.” As you know, the term I use is MASTERMAN. (See definition on urban dictionary)
It is not about having order and slaying chaos as a page, prince, knight or king. Those archetypes from Tarot and other teachings are not about being a MASTERMAN. A MASTERMAN embodies all those archetypes.
About chaos. I’m known for THE LOVE BUCKET® concept. One of the rings of desire of the love bucket is LIFESTYLE. How a person lives with neatness and hygiene, finances, location of home, and the full gamut of the business of living is part of lifestyle. Some areas you can compromise on and others you can’t. But there’s more to the love bucket than lifestyle.
Next, the over-30 - 35 - 40 dating question first revolves around two big “elimination” questions:
PHASE of LIFE: Are you in the “lets play and have fun” or “let’s settle down” phase. These are not mutually exclusive but one is the prime motivator. Which is it?
KIDS: Where do you stand with kids? Do you have kids, do you want kids, does she have kids, does she want kids.
Again, your questions: “How should you date after 35? Should you act different? Should you BE different?”
The answer is not about being different. It is about being clear. Clarity in what you want in dating whether it is dating for fun or dating to get into a serious relationship. Be clear YOURSELF on the two elimination questions. Know what you want out of your phase. If you just want to play and have fun and you start dating a woman who wants to settle down and have kids you are not acting in integrity with either of your best interests.
A MASTERMAN would determine the answer to the elimination questions up front so he can act in integrity when he is dating. Remember the dating experience is for the highest good for all involved. If you don’t have clarity you’ll be wasting your time and her time.
Now about TIME: Time is an investment. As you get older, time is more in the forefront of the mind of men and women. When you date over thirty you realize that you are investing your time (and possibly your money) into the date or several dates that may lead to a relationship.
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For women, what is the TIME INVESTMENT in dating? Men need to understand and value the two very essential capital investments that a woman brings to the dating game. 1) A woman is investing HER LOOKS. 2) A woman is investing HER FERTILITY. Both LOOKS and FERTILITY have an expiration “shelf life.” |
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That is why it is so important to be clear upfront with what you want while dating as dating can lead to a relationship. If you date and she wants a commitment and kids you are spending her fertility. Over 35 it is much more serious. Enough said.
Even with LOOKS. If she wants a serious relationship, with or without kids, and the guy is spending her looks because he has no intention giving her a commitment even though you may be serious and exclusive, you are spending her looks. When a guy is “done” she is now older, has another wrinkle, and the guy is off to a younger woman.
Her LOOKS helped attract you to her. Spending her looks when she is young is not that big a deal. If you spend her looks over 35 you’ve got to keep the timeline in check past three months of dating.
So if you are not conscious or are unaware of the expiration date of these two capital investments that women bring, you become part of the angry conversation that women have about men.
So how should you BE (as a man) when dating?
Be a MASTERMAN. Here’s the MASTERMAN definition: A man who exudes mastery and integrity because he has self-discipline, confidence, clarity of purpose on a daily basis, and strategic direction of his life. Women are extremely attracted to a masterman (think Rockstar), young boys clamor to be lead by a masterman, and peers seek the counsel of a masterman often in the context of a mastermind group.
A MASTERMAN has mastered the art of initiative and positively contributes and participates in the lives of others.
A MASTERMAN is a success in all aspects of his life.
Again, a MASTERMAN would determine the answer to the elimination questions (phase and kids) up front so he can act in integrity when he is dating.
A MASTERMAN does not need validation or approval of women. A MASTERMAN has other strong men in his life in a group or BROTHERHOOD of MASTERMAN that keep each other in check, activate friendly competition, and challenge each other to rise to their greatness and potential.
The concepts and ideas here will soon in be available in a free PDF document.
To Your Love Success,
Sherrie Rose
The Love Linguist®
Dedicated to Enhancing Your Love and S*X Life!
Adam’s Blog: http://attractconnectinspire.com/dating-after-30-accessing-your-inner-king/
4 Tips 4 Days 7 Ways (Fill Her Love Bucket)
Tuesday, January 26th, 2010 Posted in Her Love Bucket, Masterman, Mastermen, The Man Class Series | No Comments »4 Tips For Keeping A Woman’s Attention on YOU
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Now let’s get to the good stuff…and let me
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***QUESTION***
To Sherrie,
I’m considering investing in your program, but I
have a question for you before I do. Essentially,
I’m no longer looking to hook up with women left
and right. In fact, I think I’ve met “the one,”
but I’m having trouble making her realize this.
I get the sense that she’s very guarded about
making it a serious relationship.
She’s *very* goal oriented (which I recognize really
turns ME ON about her), and therefore very busy. It
seems she does not have time for me and has little
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>>>THE LOVE LINGUIST COMMENTS:
Right now you are playing what is referred to
as a “losing game”. You have to put the attraction
mechanism in place (didn’t you learn this from the
genius David D.?)
The stakes are just a little higher when you’ve got
your Total 10 woman and want to keep her.
Part of creating attraction is creating OPEN LOOPS.
Unfinished experiences. Unanswered questions. Give
her something wonder about. Create your own
“cliff hanger” so she must have the next episode of
what you are offering. This is the first tip.
It seems to me you are a bit boring – but you
don’t have to be.
What happens is must guy start to act “too nice” and
–Pursue -Cling -Act submissive -Seek approval
- Agree when you don’t want to…
- And turn in a big wuss.
DON’T. This is the second tip.
It’s distinctly FEMININE in nature. And boring.
You need to step up the highest position in the
relationship and become THE CHAIRMAN. It is the
benevolent power position. This is a MASCULINE
position. This is the alpha-male position or what
I often call being a MASTERMAN. This is the third tip.
The Chairman who is a Masterman is respected.
The Chairman creates arousal.
She will probably HOLD BACK until you step up
to your position of power. I’m sure she
WISHES that she could be attracted to you and put
her attention on you. I’ll bet you money – hey,
I actually do with the guarantee I have for my class.
You need a new perspective on this entire
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woman’s desire.
You’re obviously a smart guy, and if you’re asking
the question, you’re ready for change.
Total transformation.
And the best part is that you won’t be changing
how you act and just “faking it” or manipulating.
You’ll change how you act because you GET IT.
You’ll GET HER. This is the fourth tip.
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To get all the details, just go here:
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And I’ll talk to you again in a few days…
Your friend,
Sherrie Rose,
The Love Linguist®
Dedicated to Improving Your Love and S*x Life
P.S. Don’t wait any longer. Take action and make changes.
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Good Advice, Insight and Direction Is Almost Never Pretty (ask The Love Linguist)
Sunday, January 24th, 2010 Posted in Her Love Bucket, Masterman, Mastermen, The Love Linguist, The Man Class Series | No Comments »Men take heed; John Carlton has spoken! This is straight from the blog of John Carlton who is a top notch marketing copywriter a.k.a. wordsmith. I simply changed a couple business words to relationship words and the message is spot on! (original blog post Jan 22 2010 http://www.john-carlton.com/2010/01/bamboozled-by-babble/)
1. Don’t confuse experience… with wisdom.
Took me a while to nail this concept.
Experience does NOT automatically translate to wisdom.
You nearly always need experience before you attain wisdom, yes. But it’s not a guarantee.
In fact, over my career, I’ve always spent the first minutes of any consultation diving into the experience-wisdom correlation with new clients.
Their ego screams “wisdom”. But their actual savvy whispers “hasn’t learned shit in all those years”.
The smart ones remember why they went looking for a consultation in the first place, and we can get moving on solutions and fixes.
The dumb ones fight it.
3. Do not confuse ego… with self-awareness.
Ego is bullshit. At most, it’s a sense of being in the game, and keeping score (often in ways that no one else cares about).
Self-awareness must be earned.
And while most modern people can’t entirely murder their ego… they can at least overwhelm it with self-awareness. So when it flares up, or gets bruised, or starts interfering…
… you can just say “oh, hell, my ego’s involved in this” and get over it.
Do you set goals? If you set goals to satisfy your ego, your life will be miserly and grim.
The really good goals in life are always larger than “you”.
Don’t get confused about who’s running the show.
4. Don’t confuse expertise… with fast-talking charm.
This problem — confusing charm with real expertise in what you need — is like a weed or rat problem in the entrepreneurial world.
People who can talk the talk… but can’t walk the walk… are causing some serious financial damage out there.
It has ever been thus… until you get hip to how things really get done.
When money is on the line… especially your money (connected to the success or failure of your biz)…
… screw charm.
Some (actually, maybe most) of the best marketing and business minds I’ve ever met…
… are charm-challenged, grizzled, anti-social quasi-nut jobs.
You don’t have to like the dude who rescues your ass.
You just gotta learn to tell the difference between him, and the dazzling scumball out to gut your wallet.
Let your trust be earned.
(Love Linguist comment: Women often fall for the charm and if it’s not backed up by solid integrity she’ll soon be gone)
5. Don’t confuse cocking teasing women… with righteously angry ladies who have a legitimate complaint.
You blackball the first.
But you embrace the second. As tough as it can be to hear someone point out the flaws, foibles and blunders in your life…
… you cannot grow without that kind of reality check.
Getting good advice, insight and direction is almost never pretty.
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FINAL NOTICE: How to Satisfy A Woman (Sexually, Every Time and MUCH much more… When You Fill Her Love Bucket)
Sunday, August 16th, 2009 Posted in Her Love Bucket, Love Bucket, Masterman, Mastermen, Sherrie Rose Recommends, The Man Class Series | No Comments »Subject: Last Day: FINAL NOTICE
Hi Sherrie here…
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*Definition: A Masterman exudes mastery and integrity because he has
self-discipline, confidence, clarity of purpose on a daily basis,
and strategic direction of his life. Women are extremely attracted
to a masterman (think Rockstar), young boys clamor to be lead
by a masterman, and peers seek the counsel of a masterman.
And of course, a masterman knows how to fill her love bucket!
