Life’s Golden Ticket Fills Her Love Bucket
Tuesday, August 11th, 2009 Posted in Her Love Bucket, Lovematism, Romance, Sherrie Rose Recommends | No Comments » 
There Are Only So Many Moments Left To Live, Love, And Matter.
(my comment to Brendon Burchard from Sherrie Rose, The Love Linguist)
Brendon,
I had the pleasure of meeting you several times and first time was last summer just three weeks after your wedding. Your business approach was unique and your story about how “Life’s Golden Ticket” came to be was fascinating. I loved being in the BIG TENT with you. It was magical.
The Golden Ticket is a metaphor for “taking action.” Sometimes we take action because of fear and sometimes because we are inspired. When we are comfortable it takes a lot to move us unless eventually boredom sets in. To start anew require a reason. You are a motivational speaker and have provided much fuel to take action.
Your story I like best is the lion tamer.
[excerpt: (They locked him in the lion's den but he was too cowardly to fight the lion in the den.)
Finally, Mary (his fiancee) appeared...
I ran between Mary and the lion. Mufasa (the lion) roared and lunged. I raised my arms high in the air and screamed, "MUFASA, GET BACK...GET AWAY FROM HER, YOU BASTARD!" Mufasa's eyes widened, and he stepped backward and roared at me and at Mary...I took another step toward him and screamed with all my might, "GET BACK NOW, YOU SON OF A---" I looked over my shoulder for Mary...she has disappeared.
I looked back at Larry (the lion tamer). "Something worth fighting for," he said.]
I like this story best because it is about LOVE. Love is something worth fighting for because there is SOMEONE worth fighting for. Since I write about love and satisfying a woman by filling her love bucket, the reason behind fighting or TAKING ACTION is very powerful. When you experience LOVEMATISM (see the website) your motivation is powerful and will take you to new heights.
Thanks for all you do, Brendon.
Sherrie Rose
The Love Linguist
http://brendonburchard.com/blog/goldenticket/
Life’s Golden Ticket reveals this message from Brendon Burchard:
“WHEN YOU WERE BORN a golden ticket was slipped into your soul’s pocket by your Creator. The golden ticket gave you privileged access to a world of choices – it granted you permission to be whoever you wanted to be and do whatever you wanted to do. You may not have known you were carrying this ticket all your life, but you were. Life’s golden ticket is now in your hands. And now is your moment of truth. You can either stand still and live yesterday or you can step through the gates of possibility into the life you were truly meant to live. The only price of admission is to release any anger, hurt, worry, or resentment tied to your old story and to have the clarity and strength to start anew. You can make new choices. You can live more fully. You can love more completely. You can make a great difference. Every moment is a second chance to unleash and claim the life of purpose and contribution that is your destiny. But beware. The only promise in life is that soon the gates will close, as there are only so many moments left to live, love, and matter. Stand still or step forward? The choice, as it always has been, is yours.”
Her Love Bucket – What Happened To The *Naughty* FUN? (and… what about PORN?)
Wednesday, June 3rd, 2009 Posted in Her Love Bucket, Romance, SEX, Sherrie Rose Recommends | No Comments »What Happened To The *Naughty* FUN?
From my friend Alex Allman author of THE ALLMAN REPORT with commentary by Sherrie Rose, The Love Linguist™, author of ? 7 Ways to Fill Her Love Bucket
GUYS – Have you ever been in bed with your wife or your girlfriend and felt like the spark was gone?
Have you noticed that she is less and less interested in sex… have you noticed that as a couple you are less playful together? Is it just less FUN?
Do you ever worry that this might be Irreversible?
Have you wondered if she’s losing attraction for you?
Have you ever been afraid that if YOU kept on losing attraction for HER, you might end up being nothing more than friends… or wondered if you would end up having to break her heart?
Let’s cut to the chase…
Have you ever made love to the woman you are in love with… while fantasizing about being with another woman in order to stay hard?
Let’s get real. Of course you have.
Have you ever worried she might be doing the same thing?
Let me ask you this: Have you ever lost a relationship because the sex got stale?
There’s an old truth about living as a couple that says “the fight is never about what the fight is about.” When you start arguing about how she ordered her coffee this morning, you know there’s just no way that COFFEE is worth that kind of drama…
That’s the way it is when the sex becomes boring and you both start thinking about how it might be with someone new…
You start fighting about how the money is spent, or you fight about who should clean the dishes, or about what you want to do over the weekend.
Remember when the sex was red-hot and you never fought over any of that crap?
Look, I’m not trying to panic you here, and of course, sometimes couples legitimately DO fight about the money or whatever… it’s just that sometimes it’s a convenient excuse because you are not as HAPPY as you used to be… and that fact can be FRUSTRATING.
Great sex is the soil and the sunlight for growing passionate and loving relationships.
Most of us never really got any education at all on how to have great sex. But even more… nobody ever educated us on how to KEEP sex great.
After a long period of monogamy, promiscuity can look very, very tempting.
So the million dollar question is:
Is it possible for intimacy be better than novelty over the long haul?
YES.
I guess it would be fair to say, “not for everyone,” but the great news is that there are things you can LEARN that can keep the sex with the woman you are in love with hotter than anything you could experience from the thrill of “new sex.”
Before I sat down to write this letter I did a little research and read some of the stuff that other people were writing on the subject of “keeping it hot.”
It’s a big “marriage issue” and a large number of therapists, counselors, and journalists have written about the subject in everything from serious-minded books to an endless stream of “women’s magazine” articles on the subject.
Every one of them that I saw seemed to recommend that the way to bring the spark back was to get more “kinky.”
In other words, they were saying that the way to get it hot was to do something “new” so that you’d get that “new sex” feeling back… share your fantasies, tie each other up, new positions, new oral sex tricks, hand-cuffs, toys, dressing up, blind-folds, latex, whipped cream, etc.
Well, sure, that might all be well and fun…
but… what next?
What do you do when tying her up gets boring?
Whip her?
What about when THAT gets boring? I mean there is nothing that won’t get routine…
How far can you go? How many new, weird things can you come up with?
And WHY would you WANT TO?
Look, there is nothing wrong with sharing fantasies or trying out kinky things. If that’s fun for you… I’m all for it.
But it has NOTHING to do with how and why to keep sex hot in a loving, monogamous relationship. (Sex is at the top of her love bucket, the RED HOT Ring of Desire)
Here’s what happens to most couples–
In the beginning the sex is hot because of the ANIMAL desire we feel for each other. We’re attracted to each other and it’s new and our genetics are programmed to want to get into bed every opportunity we get. (Her Love Bucket is holding boiling passion)
But as we get closer and more intimate, we begin getting all those cozy, snuggling, love- feelings… and that’s great, that feels wonderful…
But it’s not really… HOT. (…kinda dry in her love bucket)
And as the animal desire wears off, we are left with less sexual passion. Sure, in it’s place might be great FRIENDSHIP and great trust, and great love-emotions… but is that SEXY?
Usually not.
Sexual ATTRACTION is not made of friendship and trust.
So why is it that some couples remain hot for each other over years and years… and years?
Well, I’ve actually got a huge amount to write on this subject, but for now I want to get you started with some tips that I pulled out of my ” Couples Guide ” Special Report that you can use RIGHT NOW to keep your relationship on track or even turn it completely around if it’s already getting stale. (This information compliments her love bucket)
>>> MAKE HER MORE BEAUTIFUL <<<
What if every day that you knew your woman she got a little bit better looking? What if, instead of getting bored with the way she looked, you got more and more attracted to her?
Well, it’s possible.
At first this may sound a little bit weird or “out there,” but I promise you that if you try this technique for only 2 WEEKS you will see an amazing difference in your attraction to your girl.
Here’s how…
Tell her, out loud, as often as possible, that she is beautiful. Whenever possible, single out your favorite parts of her… the parts that really do turn you on (her hair, her hips, her eyes, her lips, her legs, etc.), and tell how beautiful and sexy those parts are. (this is the RECOGNITION Ring of Desire of Her Love Bucket)
Here’s why…
First of all, you have to understand this important principle:
*Your Words Have Power*
When you say something out loud it adds to your own belief and conviction of the thing you say. The more you say it, the more you believe it. (Sherrie Rose adds that your TONE of VOICE is particularly important)
There’s hard science behind this. Part of it is rooted in the science of Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP), and part of it is based on the one of the principles of psychological influence pioneered by the brilliant psychologist, Robert Cialdini, that he called “Commitment and Consistency.” (Sherrie Rose adds that this is part of the AC-DC aspect that she write about in 7 Ways to Fill Her Love Bucket)
Without going into all of the details, the fact is, when you say something out loud, especially when you say it to other people, your brain starts to “re-wire” itself to rationalize and prove the truth of what you have said.
When you tell your woman that she is beautiful, and you tell her often, it actually does affect way you see her. (Actions in addition to words fill the RECOGNITION Ring of Desire of Her Love Bucket)
If you are thinking, “I don’t have to tell her, she knows I think she is beautiful,” …man, you are missing the point entirely.
Say it out loud. I promise it is different than just “knowing” it. (Sherrie reminds you that some of the considerations of her love bucket are timing and frequency – once is probably not going to fill her love bucket)
If you just keep telling her (and everyone else that you know) that she is the most beautiful woman you have ever seen, you will feel it more strongly every day.
And now here is the really crazy part…
She actually WILL become more beautiful.
It’s a fact:
Women blossom under positive reinforcement. (Reinforcement = Recognition Ring of Desire of Her Love Bucket)
When you tell her that you love her hair, she will like hearing it. And so she will spend more time making it beautiful for YOU. She will buy some special girl stuff to make it shinier and healthier.
When you tell her you love her ass, she’ll be in the gym working those butt exercises because she will enjoy your attention.
And when she feels loved and cared for and beautiful, she will radiate a happy sexiness that you might not have seen in her since she was a teenager.
Doubt me?
Try it for 2 weeks.
I guarantee that if you stop telling her that she needs to eat less ice-cream and start telling her that you think her body is sexy, she will leave the ice-cream alone all by herself.
She will enjoy being sexy for you. She’ll make herself more beautiful in every way.
As I always say… I don’t like to argue too much with what works.
This WORKS. (Hey, use all 7 Ways to Fill Her Love Bucket and she become the most beautiful woman in your world)
>>> BE A MAN <<<
Here’s a difficult truth about slowly losing attraction for your woman…
SHE’S LOSING ATTRACTION FOR YOU TOO.
In fact, it’s a cycle. You are doing it to each other.
What causes it?
Too much friendship, familiarity, and learning to like the same things.
Weird, huh? Because it sounds like those things should be GOOD. And to a certain extent they are.
But here’s the problem…
When you first met, and on your first couple of dates, you probably did and said things to let her know that you are a MAN. You behaved in a masculine way.
And she was extra feminine. She laughed prettily at your jokes and sat up straight, and did all sorts of things that turned you on because they are so girlish.
Have you ever noticed that when you spend a lot of time with a particular friend, you start picking up on each other’s mannerisms, you start saying the same things… you start acting more like each other?
Well, the same is true with your woman.
When couples have been together for awhile, usually what happens is they start to act more alike.
As a result… he becomes more feminine and she becomes more masculine.
Big trouble.
And very, very hard to avoid.
The truth is, this is a natural process– and it is much more natural in our generation than it was for our parents (or grandparents) where the man made the money, and the woman was expected to do the housework and raise the children.
It established “sex roles” that were different.
Men did what men did and women did something else.
I’m not saying that you need to get your girl to do all the housework (though I’m not sure that would be a bad thing!) but I AM saying that it’s harder to maintain the DIFFERENCE in sex roles than it used to be… and that is part of what is killing your attraction for each other.
You need to maintain your masculinity in the relationship. You need to be the one who protects her, who takes care of her, who pulls out chairs, who makes quick decisions, and who kills the spiders. (Sherrie Rose reminds you that being the Chairman of the Relationship helps attraction and fills her love bucket)
And you need to be comfortable asking her to rub your shoulders and be comfortable stroking her hair for an hour on the couch like you did when you first started dating.
You need to keep masculine BOUNDARIES and not act like one of her girlfriends when she wants to gossip.
You need to maintain some of your male mystery and let her feel the intensity of your difference from her.
And when you act more like a man, you will be rewarded with two amazing things…
First of all, the sex will become better right away, because she is going to be suddenly much more attracted to you. (Sherrie Rose reminds you that being the Chairman of the Relationship helps attraction makes her want you sexually because your benevolent power turns her on!!!)
Second, she is going to CHANGE in response to you becoming masculine.
When you take up that male-energy side of the relationship, she doesn’t have to. And that allows her to return the balance of the relationship by filling the female-energy side.
She will become more feminine every day. And she will LIKE it. Very quickly you will discover that you like it too.
And you will be increasingly attracted to her sweet “female-ness”.
Finally, you will find that your roles of male and female are expressed more in the bedroom and that the sex will become more passionate and more powerful for both of you. (Gotta love that Red Hot Sex Ring of Desire of Her Love Bucket!)
>>> GO ON A “PORN DIET” <<<
Maybe you have no interest in pornography…
If that’s true, just go ahead and skip this part.
But according to statistics, most men spend a LOT of time looking at porn.
Now I’m not going to make any judgments about that. I’m not particularly against porn or in favor of censorship or anything like that. And my personal views on the subject aren’t important to what I’m talking about anyway…
And I know that for MANY guys, the idea of cutting down on porn is not something that they want to hear.
But here is the cold, hard truth:
It is highly addictive. And though nobody likes to admit it, it DOES hurt relationships.
I am NOT trying to tell you what to do. I am just presenting you with an option that I think you will ENJOY experimenting with.
Again, this is about TRAINING YOUR MIND. When you stop looking at video to get yourself hard, your sexual energies will have only one outlet…
Your woman.
She will become increasingly precious when she becomes the only thing that ever gives you sexual release.
In fact, she will increasingly become “your type”.
The “type” of woman that we are attracted to evolves over time, and when we’ve been with one woman for a long time, one advantage that EVERY other attractive woman has is just the simple fact that she’s NOT your woman.
Different becomes attractive.
But when you cut off or reduce those visual and fantasy options, you will become more and more attracted to the woman that you are actually with.
So here’s the experiment that I propose:
Completely cut porn out of your life for 2 full weeks. Not one pornographic image is allowed.
Not only that… no thumbing through the Victoria’s Secret Catalogue, no “Sports Illustrated” Swimsuit Issue, no Maxim babes, no sexually arousing images at all… except for your woman.
I know it sounds ridiculously harsh, and I know there’s nothing “wrong” with LOOKING as long as you are not touching. (Touch is a form of contact and Contact is one of the 7 Rings of Desire of Her Love Bucket)
But I am asking you to try this for only 2 weeks. 14 days. You can do anything for 14 days, right?
At the end of those 14 days, I want you to honestly decide if you are having better sex with your woman. Is it more fun? Is it hotter?
If it is, put a value on that amount of fun and a value on the amount of fun that you are losing by not looking at bikini babes calendars…
You may find at the end of those 2 weeks, that you miss the porn more than you like the better sex with a real woman that loves you.
But, you also must realize at that point that the effects are continuing to grow. And, in fact, they will continue to get better and better for a
long time. So…
Based on YOUR judgement, I’d like you to decide whether to continue the experiment for another 14 days.
I know this may seem impossible from where you sit right now, but MANY guys that have taken me up on this challenge have given it up forever.
Not because of some moralism or because they were trying hard to make their marriage “work” but because they found that they had MORE PLEASURE with their newly revived sex life than they were getting from the internet.
For other guys this might not be the case. That’s fine. I’m just SUGGESTING that you TRY IT.
If you are one of the guys who is saying: “But my wife and I watch porn TOGETHER.”
Okay, that’s cool. And I’m not telling you you have to give it up. I’m just saying TRY IT for two weeks. Get her on board with the idea and see what you think.
At first it might be hard because you’ve been using the porn in place of foreplay to get both of you “in the mood”.
So the first week you might not feel like sex at all.
Okay, that’s fine. Just stick with it.
When you re-find each other when you are both horny enough, I think you’ll discover some crazy attraction that you hardly remember that you used to have for each other.
Place your own value on it and at the end of 14 days, decide together whether or not you want to continue the experiment.
There’s no “failure” here. It either enhances your life, or it doesn’t. For many couples it is better– but you have to decide what is right for you.
NOW IT’S UP TO YOU
Look, I’m a little nervous about this.
I know that, unlike most of the other Newsletters that I’ve sent to you, this is the first one where the tips I’ve shared actually take some hard work and sacrifice from YOU.
But if you have tried any of my other tips along the way, then you know this:
Everything that I share in this forum WORKS AMAZINGLY WELL.
If you are in a relationship, please TRY these tips. They sound simple. They may even sound obvious.
They are neither.
They have the power improve your life and your happiness.
Added to the tips that I usually share for driving women crazy in bed, they can bring your sex life inside of an intimate and committed relationship to a powerfully SPIRITUAL level.
If you are getting started down this path and you are serious about having the kind of powerful connection during sex that can cement your love for a lifetime, then stop doing things half way…
If you’re ready to take the big leap, and really explore the outer boundaries of what love making can be like at it’s highest and most intimate levels… the kind of sex that leaves you both in tears of happiness when it’s over…
I think you ought to take a chance on my
Sexual Mastery Program http://www.herlovebucket.com/sex-mastery/.
And you should do it now. The reason you should do it now is because it is fresh in your mind and you have the enthusiasm to actually put this information to WORK for you.
The other reason you should do it now is because I’m going to SWEETEN THE DEAL for you.
Alex has created a coupon good for a 50% savings off of my Sexual Mastery Program.
Here’s how it works:
When you get to the check out page, there is a little box for a “coupon code”, and the code is simply “MASTERY“.
Easy enough to remember, right?
=>Alex is not doing this to make you buy (okay, to be radically honest, I’m sure that’s part of his motivation)… but it is far more important, after working on this stuff for years, answering all these emails, and figuring
out what men really need in their relationships…
Figuring out what really WORKS…
to get more couples to experience the benefit of what I’m talking about.
And you’ll know that you’re ready by the fact that you’ve read this far, so go ahead and take care of this now by clicking here:
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And then using the coupon code: MASTERY on the checkout page to get a HALF-OFF savings.
Yikes! Almost forgot to mention: The coupon expires in 7 days. You’ve got until the 10th, so do it now or if you wait you will
then end up having to pay full price…
Your woman and your relationship are worth far more than the five minutes it will take you to get the program and start downloading it.
And then do me one other favor…
After you’ve been through the program and you’ve seen the profound and beautiful affect it has on your love making, please drop me an email and let me know about it.
It’s what makes the whole thing worthwhile for me.
Thanks.
Your Friend,
Alex (with Sherrie’s comments and recommendations)
P.S. REMEMBER! The coupon is set to expire one week from today. That’s Wednesday, June 10. So if you got to this email late… head over there right
now!
Sherrie Rose Recommends:
Sexual Mastery Program
http://www.herlovebucket.com/sex-mastery/
Read through the letter, click the order button, and then enter the coupon code “MASTERY“ to get your 50% off discount. The price is right – do it now!
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Love Bucket, Condoms, Romance, Roses, and Valentine’s
Friday, February 13th, 2009 Posted in Love Bucket, Romance | No Comments »I did a quick search on Filterbox and found these results for Love Bucket, Condoms, Romance, Roses, and Valentine’s. I even found that my last name was mistyped (how can you mistype ROSE ?) on a private forum.
Have a look…
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CONDOMS
Sales of condoms are up with the economy down. Good news that something is UP! State Lawmakers to Receive Condoms And in some stores |
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LOVE BUCKET
Okay, it is true, that most of the Love Bucket search results are on this blog. Her Love Bucket is not (yet) the most popular search term. Perhaps my class, |
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ROMANTIC
It’s the day before Valentine’s Day, Sat. February 14, 2009 and The winners are: |
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ROSES
Apart from being my last name, Rose, the flowers known as Rose are popular on Valentine’s Day. “Rose is a rose is a rose is a rose.” by Gertrude Stein in the 1913 poem Sacred Emily as a Rose is a Rose by any other name. |
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VALENTINE’S
Last and certainly making everyone see red hearts and roses is Valentine’s Day. For those in LA, I recommend joining the Peace in 5 Years re-launch celebration in Beverly Hills this Saturday night. |
Valentine’s Day in Her Love Bucket
Tuesday, February 3rd, 2009 Posted in Love Bucket, Lovematism, Romance, Sherrie Rose Recommends | No Comments »
I just received a beautiful bouquet of roses from an admirer. Perfectly fitting for a woman with the last name, Rose.
Valentine’s Day is not just a day. It is a celebration. It doesn’t have to be on February 14th.
This year, Valentine’s Day is on Saturday, February 14th, 2009. What pressure – a Saturday night on top of it!
So, take it easy. Ask your lady if she wants to have a quiet evening with you and see if she wants to give to others – check out www.CharityWater.org
Giving a donation in the name of a loved one is a beautiful form of RECOGNITION. Recognition does not fade or wilt; Recognition stays in the positive memory banks and can be associated with thoughts of you providing a wonderful recognition experience to honor her.
Sherrie Rose Recommends: www.CharityWater.org
P.S. If you have to give something tangible, give LOVEMATISM: www.GetLovematism.com
Valentine’s Day – Fill Her Love Bucket this Valentine’s Day
Sunday, February 1st, 2009 Posted in Gifts, Her Love Bucket, Romance, Sherrie Rose Recommends | No Comments »It’s coming. Valentine’s Day. Two weeks until V-DAY. Or is that D-Day (Dreaded Day)?
It can be amazing but most often expectations and reality do not line up. But, the retailers are out in full glory offering every manner of goods to woo her with.
Guys, Give Yourself a Gift for Valentine’s Day
(no, not the heart box…)
Find Out How to Treat Your Woman
The Way She REALLY Wants to be Treated
SO THAT She’ll Treat You
The Way You’ve ALWAYS Wanted to be Treated!
Sherrie Rose Recommends: www.GuysGiveGift.com
Click to have a look at these Valentine’s Goodies
http://www.amazon.com/gp/gift-central?tag=jerosmusicoll-20