“DFS” does not Fill Her Love Bucket

Saturday, July 10th, 2010 Posted in Her Love Bucket, Love Bucket, Seduction, The Love Linguist | No Comments »

“DFS” does not Fill Her Love Bucket

What is “DFS”? DFS: DEFINITION on Urban Dictionary DFS = Dating For Sport Lots of FWB (friends with benefits), no commitments, where winning means you’ve scored in the bedroom. Example: “Hey, Jimmy, are you still DFS or are you looking for ‘the one’?” Also DFS = Dating for Sex DFS = Desperate for Sex

Recently I read an email targeting guys who want to pick-up women.
Here’s what they say the 3 HOTTEST TOPICS are for guys who date:

The focus of this seminar will be on the three hottest topics in Dating Science today as well as special added bonuses reserved only for seminar attendees: SAME NIGHT LAYS: Have you ever met a women at a club, and wanted to sleep with her that night! Well it’s a lot easier then you think. Learn the 3 basic rules to help master Same Night Lays! PHONE & TEXT GAME: Get the number and a fool proof plan to prevent flaking, get her dying to see you again, and learn the magic ways to get the number every time. DAY GAME: This is the most popular trend in dating science today. Learning this skill-set will allow you to meet women at any time. And I’ll let you in on a little secret…usually you come across the highest quality women during the daytime. Excerpt from Love Systems

 

Dating Science. It is basic and simple psychology. It is basic and simple physical attraction. We are marvelous creatures, the human. Simple, yet so terribly complicated.

For topic one, it relates to context and the environment. I love to dance and you may often find me dancing on top of the speakers tho’ not a club.

What age are the guys who go to clubs and what’s their mentality? Not so much chronological age but mental age. The same night lays occur if you go to clubs and probably want to tell all the guys about your conquests.

Clubs, they are flashing neon for “pick up.” Easy pickin’s in the clubs because of the context and environment.

(Booty call: If she only wants her “honey love pot” filled then you may get lucky.)

But the gals who want their love bucket filled aren’t looking for a one night stand.

Topic two: Seductive and erotic text messages can ramp up the desire and passion. But if too quickly consummated the value diminishes. Men who pay for sex are willing to pay top dollar while aroused and before the act, and after being serviced, the value of the call girl is gone. So is respect.

Love is not a game. Getting a phone number, albeit important, is only the first step. Guys that want a real woman in their life do not want to play games. Yes, they tease and banter, but love is not a game. Lovematism is a BOND between lovers. Love is fun and flirtatious but it is not a game.

Topic three: Back to the clubs. It is a pick-up scene. So the “day game” as it is now being called apparently represents the highest quality women. Why, because high quality women don’t want to be picked up by men who want same night lays.

I get that sex is on the mind of men. In fact, the sex drive portion of the male brain is 2.5 times larger in men. They are driven by the primal urge to merge sexually. It is good and healthy. And, the young men who want many conquests will find women who just as easily want sex (that honey love pot wants action too). But one night stands leave out respect.

Because so many men of all ages confide in me, I know men want love not just sex. I also know that there is a time that THE SHIFT happens and guys go from DFS to DFL (dating for love). I also know that commitment is a big deal for guys and that they are driven for sex even when they are not at capable of commitment for a number of valid reasons. (See urban dictionary: The Shift)

What is sad is when a woman wants love and falls for the pick-up lines and allows her body to take over (the libido is a very powerful thing…) and then she feels hurt that the sex she has just had is only a one night stand. This has happened to high quality women.

At the end of the day, or the morning after, it is your personal choice. If you want and attract one night stands you may get your body satisfied. Short-term relief, barely satisfaction.

Eventually the longing for lovematism takes over. Then guys WANT to fill her love bucket with the words and actions that keep a women’s attention focused on you. Real LOVE renews and expands with each love-making session.

She’s Happy, He Wins, and Your Sex Life is Enhanced. That’s the Love Bucket® Formula!

For programs and classes on love and sexuality, see the Love Linguist.

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FREE Love Bucket Books – Secrets to Fill The Love Bucket!

Tuesday, April 20th, 2010 Posted in 7 Rings of Desire, Dating, Mating, Relating, Her Love Bucket, Love Bucket, Love Bucket Books, Masterman, Mastermen, Romance, SEX, Seduction, Sherrie Rose Recommends | No Comments »

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Pandora’s Box in Dating Leads to Success in Filling Her Love Bucket

Thursday, March 4th, 2010 Posted in Dating, Mating, Relating, Masterman, Mastermen, Seduction, Sherrie Rose Recommends | No Comments »

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Sexually Expressive Woman A liberated woman with sexual experience allows herself to be turned on and she can handle sexual innuendo, sexual language, and a powerful physical touch that suggests sex. She has sexual memories that can be easily triggered. She acts on her physical triggers and makes out. Sexually Reserved Woman An inexperienced or reserved woman can respond to sexual language by recoiling. If inexperienced, sexual language does not have a place to trigger images and thoughts that she is comfortable with. Sex may be repressed until she feels completely safe with a man. If confident but reserved, she’ll think you’re a player and not serious. Social Butterfly – Dates a lot, playing around for now, making out with the guys she’s dating. No hang ups about sex. Looking for the ideal husband, but having fun and having sex now. Playette – Can lead men on and be a tease. Lots of guy friends who’d all like to sleep with her and she’s having sex with none of them. Will only sleep with a guy that’s got long-term relationship potential. She always has guy friends as back up. Fun and fun only UNLESS TAMED, then very loyal to one guy. Seductress – Get her to chase you. Actively pursues what she wants in her career and in the bedroom. Go-getter. Fun to date. Can teach you a lot. Sets her sights on something goes for it. Often older with experience. [Cougar?] Hopeful Romantic – Holds everything back waiting for the perfect man. Wants you to demonstrate to that you have potential to be perfect (she probably wants to improve and fix you, too). She joins a work in progress to work on you. Cinderella – Falls in love quickly and has sex quickly, wants to be shown romance. Hopes she finally has found Mr. Right. If you don’t satisfy her Mr. Right needs, she’s gone. She’s a challenge and you must reinforce her image of a femininity to end her cycle and save her pain. Private Dancer – Very particular. Unique since she gets physical when you can contribute to her – career, knowledge, etc. Will open up completely, very loyal. She doesn’t talk about it in a public way. Secret rendezvous; maybe she has something to lose possibly in her career. Modern Woman – She wants ONE guy. Will date to find him and be sexually active. Knows the value of a functional relationship and will invest heavily in a guy if she feels you can contribute to each other’s lives. More sexually open than Connoisseur. You can become intimate faster, develop a relationship sooner. Connoisseur – Very selective. Screens out “players.” Thinks Long term. Powerful and self-sufficient and can support a man in many ways. If she senses short term, she will not get intimate with you, she wants long-term. Ideal for a career-driven man looking for a woman where you can improve each other’s lives together. Worth the wait.

Note from Sherrie Rose, The Love Linguist®: As you can see from all the eight types of women that Vin DiCarlo identifies they all want ONE guy, Mr. Right, a Perfect Man, and Ideal Husband, or a Long-Term Relationship. This is probably not a huge surprise. The question is what do you want? (apart from sex) The two most popular questions that are asked in an initial encounter are: 1) Where do you live? 2) What do you do (for a living)? The real dating questions revolve around the two big “elimination” questions: 1) PHASE of LIFE: Are you in the “lets play and have fun” or “let’s settle down” phase. These are not mutually exclusive but one is the prime motivator. Which is it? 2) KIDS: Where do you stand with kids? Do you have kids, do you want kids, does she have kids, or does she want kids. The answer is simply about being clear and honest with yourself. Clarity in what you want in dating whether it is dating for fun or dating to get into a serious relationship. Be clear YOURSELF on the two elimination questions. Know what you want out of your phase. If you just want to play and have fun and you start dating a woman who wants to settle down and have kids you are not acting in integrity with either of your best interests. If you’ve figured out her “type” as Vin describes, can you meet her in both PHASE and KIDS. That’s were your integrity lies. A MASTERMAN would determine the answer to the elimination questions upfront so he can act in integrity when he is dating. Remember the dating experience is for the highest good for all involved. If you don’t have clarity you’ll be wasting your time and her time. Now about TIME: Time is an investment. As you get older, time is more in the forefront of the mind of men and women. When you date over thirty you realize that you are investing your time (and possibly your money) into the date or several dates that may lead to a relationship. For women, what is the TIME INVESTMENT? Men need to understand and value the two very essential capital investments that a woman brings to the dating game. 1) A woman is investing HER LOOKS. 2) A woman is investing HER FERTILITY. Both LOOKS and FERTILITY have an expiration “shelf life.” That is why it is so important to be clear upfront with what you want while dating as dating can lead to a relationship. If you date and she wants a commitment and kids you are spending her fertility. Over 35 it is much more serious. Enough said. Even with LOOKS. If she wants a serious relationship, with or without kids, and the guy is spending her looks because he has no intention giving her a commitment even though you may be serious and exclusive, you are spending her looks. When a guy is “done” she is now older, has another wrinkle, and the guy is off to a younger woman. You are draining her love bucket, not filling it. Her LOOKS helped attract you to her. Spending her looks when she is young is not that big a deal. If you spend her looks over 35 you’ve got to keep the timeline in check past three months of dating. If you have are not conscious or aware of the expiration date of these two capital investments that women bring, you become part of the angry conversation that women have about men. So how should you BE (as a man) when dating? Be a MASTERMAN. Here’s the MASTERMAN definition: A man who exudes mastery and integrity because he has self-discipline, confidence, clarity of purpose on a daily basis, and strategic direction of his life. Women are extremely attracted to a masterman (think Rockstar), young boys clamor to be lead by a masterman, and peers seek the counsel of a masterman often in the context of a mastermind group. A MASTERMAN has mastered the art of initiative and positively contributes and participates in the lives of others. A MASTERMAN is a success in all aspects of his life. Again, a MASTERMAN would determine the answer to the elimination questions upfront so he can act in integrity when he is dating. A MASTERMAN does not need validation or approval of women. A MASTERMAN has other strong men in his life in a group or BROTHERHOOD of MASTERMAN that keep each other in check, activate friendly competition, and challenge each other to rise to their greatness and potential.

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Talkin’ Health: The Primal Urge of Sex (Fill The Love Bucket!)

Thursday, February 18th, 2010 Posted in Love Bucket, Romance, SEX, Seduction, Sherrie Rose Recommends, The Love Linguist | No Comments »

 

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Thursday Feb 18 at 10pm EST/ 7:00pm PST   Replay Available Below with Special Offer      =============================

Today’s show, Talkin’ Health revolves around many things including addressing the primal urge of sex, a healthy body, a healthy state of mind and healthy relationships.

Post-Valentine’s Day, Sherrie will be talking with Joe Kasper about Men and Women, Women and Men, How to Stay Connected to Your Partner- Pillow talk, Romance- and much, much more.

This show is for adults, 18 and over. Click image for replay of show.

Sherrie Rose is The Love Linguist®

Sherrie Rose “The Love Linguist®” is affectionately known as “Lady Love Bucket.” Men refer to Sherrie as a go-to-resource so men can understand and become successful with women both in-and-out of the bedroom.

Sherrie Rose is a masterful teacher and speaker, whose specialty is translating the complexities of how women operate romantically and sexually, into a language and format that men can get and apply with total success!

The Result => He WINS, She’s HAPPY!

It is Sherrie’s passion to help men really understand women to masterfully fill her “love bucket.” The result is that lovers heal, bond, and enjoy mutually satisfying sexual dynamics and feelings of enhanced love and affection.
For MEN – http://HerLoveBucket.com

In addition to Sherrie’s passion, she is on a mission to empower women as "LOVE DIPLOMATS" so that there is love success and peace in relationships, marriages, at home, in the workplace, in our communities, countries and the world. This can happen when women become empowered with the negotiating power of LOVE DIPLOMACY. You must start with your own love success. Ultimately women will be more fulfilled, experience more ecstasy, have a hotter sex life, and be happier! This is part of the Love Success Series and the Academy of Love Linguistics.
For WOMEN – http://HisLoveBucket.com

Sherrie and Joe (the host of Talkin’ Health)  met in January 2010 on a cruise (http://marketerscruise.lovestide.com) along with 420 of their closest marketing friends. Joe is known for his 22-Minute Workout and is the CEO of Fire Your Diet™, a Master Health Coach, Exercise Therapist, and dynamic Motivational and Keynote Speaker with over 20 years experience training and motivating people to the health and body they deserve!

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“Pillow Talk Secrets Reveal Powerful, Seductive Dirty Talk” (one sure-fire way to fill her love bucket !)

Thursday, February 11th, 2010 Posted in Gifts, SEX, Seduction, Sherrie Rose Recommends | No Comments »

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