Some women wonder why they get hit on all the time.  Yes, they are beautiful.  Yes, they are sexy.  Yes, they have an air of confidence and some mystique.

Today A Gal Wrote – “Real Talk: If you hit on me and I am forced to tell you I am not interested, please do not ask why because it puts me in an awkward position to try to position my words so I don’t hurt your feelings. If I answer it diplomatically don’t keep asking more "whys" because THEN I am not accountable for what I say further. Why do people do this? If a guy tells me he is not interested trust me, I am experienced enough to know BETTER than to ask why? Cause I know possibly my feelings are about to be hurt. LOL”

Here is her profile below and photos – very exposing.  Asking for the male with a b-spot brain that is visually stimulated to not notice breasts, skin, and almost nakedness is, well simply ridiculous.

Thoughts of sugar plums and filling her love bucket goes through his head!

With a photo like this a guy just wants to fill her love bucket!

Drive Her Desire
=> And Your Lady Will Eagerly Want
more sex, more often with you!

Driving is often men’s passion and. “Car love,” men say, “sometimes comes before lady love” because the sound of a throaty V-8 revving can be a turn on! Guys can drive her desire and accelerate her amore throwing you back in the seat–especially when you get on passion road and ride with abandon! The combination of the thrill of a new experience and the joy of running your hands over a classic beauty before you take her for a spin… everyone enjoys the ride.

DRIVE HER DESIRE

http://driveherdesire.com/hot

With the right tools you can restructure your love and sex life and recreate the thrill, the excitement, and erotic passion!

Reclaim your power as a man and get in the driver’s seat, recharge her batteries to drive her desire!

Sherrie Rose
The Love Linguist
Dedicated to Enhancing Your Love and S*X Life!

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Follow @SherrieRose on Twitter and you’ll get a Direct Message with bonus link for a free Love Bucket Book™

The Love Bucket is a registered trademark.  Love Bucket Books™ can be found at http://lovebucketbook.com

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P.S. Revive Her Drive - Try it Out, Then Decide

Check out this system because it is going to make easy for you to quickly assess what options you have to create more variety, spontaneity and more passion with your partner. Power her passion and Drive Her Desire!

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Drop Your Pants Here
and You Will Receive Prompt Attention

Guys, wouldn’t it be so easy that all you had to do was follow the sign above to get the kind of attention you want from your wife or girlfriend. But, not so sure if this will fill her love bucket…

Unfortunately, you may have and easy on switch, but a woman is like a slow cooker and it takes time for her to heat up. You need to driver her desire, power her passion and unlock her libido.

If you don’t know about it, the love biochemicals decrease after your first few years or months of hot, frequent, passionate lovemaking. But, the good news is you can rev up her engine and get those love biochemicals surging throught her body again. Shine up her ring of desire… the red-hot ring of desire (that would be the sex ring of desire of the love bucket) and fill her love bucket.. again and again.

She will become more affectionate, more attentive, if you accelerate her turn on when you know just what works for her no matter how long you have been together. Get back in the driver’s seat and drive her desire until she is HOT FOR YOU!

Everything You Need To Be A ‘Master Seducer’
=> Seduction Techniques for Men In Relationship
Woo The Woman You Have NOW!

http://powerherpassion.com

or…

In Fifty Years We’ll All Be Chicks

Can you imagine that there is no polarity between the sexes so sexual tension evaporates (*like the title of this book indicates!). Men, get back in the (benevolent) power position in your relationship. Be the chairman of the relationship. You need to run the sex department in your marriage or relationship otherwise, like this book title suggests, men are doomed.

If you want a better love and sex life with your lady, get the tools and tactics in this great program and drive her desire until she hot, hot, hot.

http://driveherdesire.com/hot

You may become like one of the guys that says this:

"Things are better sexually than ever before and neither of us continue to be frustrated with this matter…"

I am a high school teacher so I know that if you are able to change lives (even 1 life) for the positive that the gratification you receive from knowing what you’ve done is immeasurable.
I found my way to your website after learning something that devastated me beyond anything imaginable!

…

After 2 days of pulling my hair out and trying to figure out why she was an emotional wreck, she admitted to me that she realized our sexual problems we had been facing were because she loved me but wasn’t physically attracted to me.
I’ve never been hit with anything so hard in my life!

That brought me to you.

Failure in our marriage was no option.

Without a doubt, I can tell that I have built back up that attraction that we had when we were first together.

Things are better sexually than ever before and neither of us continue to be frustrated with this matter.

I want to THANK YOU with the utmost sincerity and tell you that I don’t want to think about where I (and my marriage) would be without your knowledge.

Or… this…

"…she has this enormous orgasm just as I am ‘about to’ enter, she is wetter than any time I can remember,
she is sooo Hot that I can’t believe it."

We have been married over 30 years and at times I (meaning we) thought that I needed some help.
She loves me, and tells me all of the time, but the sexual tension is not there, and I never realized how important it is.
By the third day I can feel her tension, [a step by step process], she does initiate the action and when it’s time for me to roll her over and give her some relief.
I hear "this magical moan" and she has this enormous orgasm just as I am "about to" enter, she is wetter than any time I can remember, she is sooo Hot that I can’t believe it.
I deliver the "goods" and she is Cumming again and again, and I had figured that (erroneously) that she was not multi orgasmic, (30 years too late).
I am trying to recreate our most recent round of action with something even hotter, I am working on the different levels of communication, who knows what I will find, thanks.

Or …. This….

"…she was all over me!"

…

I realize now that this Revival System is like my "bible" if you will on correcting my marriage.

I have realized what listened to and everything you and the experts talked about is/was brilliant.

Every moment that I am with her now I am going through things in my head that you have explained.

Another thing that is comforting to me is that you understand everything that I went through (except that you realize that lack of attraction instead of her having to admit it to you). Therefore I knew that it would work.

I keep this in mind also, as I continue to build on the foundation that I have built since this realization. I have changed internally and have begun to think on a greater level.

Without a doubt, I can tell that I have built back up that attraction that we had when we were first together.

Things are better sexually than ever before and neither of us continue to be frustrated with this matter.

I feel like a big percent of husbands go through this problem. Do you think this is a safe assumption?

Looking back, I know that we were on the road to catastrophe if this wouldn’t have happened. It now seems that it is that best thing that could happen to us.

Along that note, I will also tell you that I don’t believe anything that you have talked about is immoral (I am a religious man). We ARE created different and your findings are a breakthrough to me as to how women act and why in many cases.

I want to THANK YOU with the utmost sincerity and tell you that I don’t want to think about where I (and my marriage) would be without your knowledge and taking the time to write it down.

Or……

"…We had hours of mind blowing sex for the first time in years this past weekend…"

"I realized after purchasing the program that I was literally creating an atmosphere that was driving my mate away from me. I figured that since we’ve been together for 18 years, I don’t have to do anything special, she’ll always be mine. I realize now, after reading your words and listening to the audio, that I have to create the atmosphere for better relations and sex.

And boy do your techniques work! It’s beginning to feel like the first few months and years we were together. It’s very hard as a man to admit that his thinking is flawed, that you’re doing everything wrong. Your work is really better than therapy or many of the books out there.

I created enough sexual tension that ultimately create a sexual explosion! We had hours of mind blowing sex for the first time in years this past weekend, and it’s all because of your approach and techniques I used.

The philosophy behind your work is much deeper than just sex. It’s a way of life. You really have to work to have a great relationship. Even your lady isn’t aware what you’re doing or isn’t actively participating, the changes you incorporate naturally rub off, and without them actually knowing it, the relationship begins to improve almost immediately!!!

Sherrie Rose Recommends this – click here to see program!

Drive Her Desire with Keys to Unlock Her Libido and
Get the Red Carpet right to the Master Bedroom!

http://driveherdesire.com/hot

A Freudian Click just made the word of the day taking its basic meaning from the well-known “Freudian Slip” of the tongue.

The Contact Ring of Desire of the Love Bucket takes several forms.  One of those forms is electronic contact.  Urban Dictionary gave “Freudian Click” the Urban Word of the day with the meaning sending an email to someone by mistake.

The example, “A second after I hit ‘send’, I realized that I made a Freudian Click and emailed a love note to my ex instead of my girlfriend.  So embarrassing. ”

What’s interesting about Freudian Click is NOT that it mirrors a Freudian slip, also called parapraxis, which is an error in speech, memory, or physical action that is interpreted as occurring due to the interference of some unconscious  wish, conflict, or train of thought ("dynamically repressed" but not the 5 Love Dynamics). The concept is thus part of classical psychoanalysis.

What’s interesting about Freudian Click is that there are 3 entries and this one, today’s word of the day, just sprinted to the winning line after being in the dictionary since Sep 24, 2008.

The moral of this story, good things take time.  So does cultivating love which is part of the 5 Love Dynamics.

Freudian Click is a reflection of our current society particularly texting and sexting.  You can use your cell phone to send mobile messages.  That is one way to fill the love bucket!  Modern day love letters all the way to red hot dirty talking texts – you decide how hot it will get. Works for both men and women. 

If you are a MAN looking for love and you’re a married man or in a relationship, check out this Contact Ring of Desire TEXTING her into bed system.

Texting/Sexting for GUYS to get Gals TEXTING her into bed

If you’re a WOMAN who’s looking to spice things up ROMANTICALLY with the  Contact Ring of Desire check out the TEXTING the romance method.

Sherrie Rose
The Love Linguist
Dedicated to Enhancing Your Love and S*X Life!

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Follow @SherrieRose on Twitter and you’ll get a Direct Message with bonus link for a free Love Bucket Book™

The Love Bucket is a registered trademark.  Love Bucket Books™ can be found at http://lovebucketbook.com

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The Red Hot Love Coach has this just for men…. direct from the Red Hot Love Coach herself!  Learn this and you will be well on your way to filling a woman’s love bucket!

THE SECRETS TO HOT DATING, CRAZY LOVE MAKING AND THE ART OF TALKING TO A WOMAN

Meeting and dating beautiful women

Do you find yourself lacking in confidence around women that you are interested in?  Maybe you have plenty of female friends but when meet a woman you are actually interested in, you lose your cool?

Have you got yourself into a pattern of meeting a woman, only to become her friend instead of her lover?

Are you fed up trying to figure out why nice guys don’t get the girls?

Being selfish and looking after your own needs first, will make you more attractive to a woman.

It’s no secret that confidence in a man is a huge aphrodisiac to a woman.

The way a woman relates to you is reflection of how you see yourself

Do you sometimes find women give you mixed signals?

Discover what a woman is really looking for and be able to attract her easily and keep her.

Would you like to set yourself apart from the hoard?

Seduction Mastery

Foreplay is a woman’s favourite word, yet it’s what most men fall down on.

Foreplay starts well before you get anywhere near the bedroom.

If you can’t get her excited you are not going to be able to satisfy her.

The trick is all about how you turn on her brain. (the b spot)

In fact how you touch her should be the last thing you are concerned about.

Play it right and you can have a woman absolutely begging for you.

Talk in her language and connect deeply with her

Do you find women confusing?  Have you found it difficult to figure out what makes a woman happy?

We are never taught how to relate to the opposite sex at school, we are meant to figure it for our selves!  How’s it working for you?

Unfortunately men and women may be talking to each other in English but sometimes it can actually feel like you are speaking in a completely different language!

Would you like to be able to speak in her language so you can have her understand you better?  Reduce all the unnecessary friction caused by misunderstandings in communication.

Do you find yourself spending a lot of time running around in circles for a woman only to have her upset about “something.”  You are left scratching your head trying to figure out what you did wrong?

Sometimes it seems no matter what you do, she’s never satisfied!

Would you like to do less and have more of an effect, by being able to show her your affection in a way she will understand.  Have her appreciate you more in return!

Would you like to find out how to be able to reduce the time, energy and money you spend, on making a woman smile.

Women nag when they feel a man is not “pulling his weight”.  Often it comes out of the mistaken belief that he doesn’t care for her.

Have you found yourself really put off a woman because she nagged you, no matter what you did for her?

You may be trying your hardest to show her that you care, but if you don’t show her in the way she understands it’s completely missed, or misunderstood.  You may as well be talking to her in a completely different language.

Would you like to discover how to have a woman appreciate you fully for the man you are?  Have her support you and acknowledge you for all that you do for her?

This program is designed for each individual and does not have to follow the set syllabus.  We will together assess where you are and what you want to achieve  out of the time spent.

However here are the following topics we may cover depending on each individual requirement:

Know thyself

Understand what it is that you actually need, want and value in a woman.  Be the one choosing to see if a woman meets YOUR needs and not have it the other way round.

Do you really know what’s important to you?  Friction is born out of finding that you are compromising on beliefs and values that are dear to you.  Which leads to resentment and frustration especially if your compromising is not fully acknowledged.

The way your lover behaves towards you is often a direct reflection of the love you have towards yourself.

If you don’t believe you deserve the best, then you will not get it.

How do you view yourself?

Nothing is more attractive to a woman than confidence and self belief.  It’s sexy and can be arousing.  Have you ever seen a person draw every gaze as they walked by, due just to the way they carried themselves and the aura of pure self love that they emitted?  What would you give to be that person?  How different would a woman relate to you?

Break through your self limiting barriers in your life and completely change you own perspective about yourself.

What women want.  Discover the secret to being more attractive to women.

Find that special X factor within yourself.

Master the Art of Foreplay and Be The man that always puts a smile on her face

Romance and foreplay.

Get it right and you’ll never be accused of being selfish in bed ever again!

Discover all the tricks and be the man that always manages to put a smile of satisfaction on her face.   Most women don’t really know what they like so it’s hard to extract this golden nugget of information from a woman.

Get the insider knowledge and set yourself apart from the rest.  Take the opportunity to have your questions answered by an expert.  How often do you have the chance to speak to a woman who will give you tips on how to pleasure a woman?

Discover the art of speaking in her language and ascertain what she wants

Ever found it difficult to figure out what a woman wanted?

Do you wish that she spoke in your language so that you could both understand what the other was saying?

Have you found yourself confused because no matter what you did she was never satisfied?  Ever been accused unjustly of being selfish.

Ever wished the woman you were dating came with a manual, explaining what on earth you had to do to make her happy?

Would you like to have it made clear for you?

Would you like to be able to communicate in your lover’s language so     that they are able to understand you fully each time?  Know what to do so you can satisfy each other’s needs?

Be able to deliver even a tricky communication that would have normally caused a disruption, in a way that is not only heard in a different manner but is appreciated by your lover.

As your coach in this program,

• I will listen and make no judgment.

• I will believe in the bigger you at all times.

• I will support you and ask questions to help you see things from a different perspective.

• I will not tell you what to do but I may make suggestions.  I will respect you and your individuality.

The “Just For Men” program is a seven session coaching program over the period of three to seven months depending on your personal schedule.

I only have places for a small number of clients as I would like to provide you with a high level of coaching which I am unable to provide if I am over booked.  I am passionate about you achieving everything that want and more from this program.

I like to assess every inquiry first, as I want to be sure that this coaching is right for you, before we start the program together.

For this reason if you could please send your interest to my personal email address.   I will respond to each person individually.

Please be prepared to provide me with several pieces of information.  I would be most grateful if you could send me details of your location, so I have an idea of which time zone you are in, your phone number and your Skype address.

I normally provide a free initial consultation so we can get better acquainted, I can assess your needs and we can then decide on how we are going to structure your personalized coaching.  For this consultation please have your diary at hand, so we can decide how much time you can set aside for your coaching and completing the program.

The price of the coaching is within your budget and I do have several payment plans available.

Please contact her at RedHotLoveCoach at gmail .com

Texting System Created by Mr. Fiore for husbands and guys in serious relationships (click link to program here)

Q: I have a girlfriend, but I’m not married. Will Text Your Wife Into Bed still work for me?

A: Of course. I maybe shoulda called this ‘Text Your Woman Into Bed” While the step-by-step methods described in the program have been “customized” to address the needs of married couples, they work extremely well in any kind of long term relationship. In fact, several of the initial “initial testers” of the program were unmarried long term couples who reported fantastic results.

Q: Sherrie Rose, The Love Linguist, says this qualifies as the CONTACT Ring of Desire of the Love Bucket. What do you know about this filling the love bucket?

A: Ahh, The Love Bucket. The love bucket really works for couples and I just said the methods in the program have been “customized” to address the needs of married couples and any kind of long term relationship. Sherrie Rose is a master of words of love a.k.a. love linguistics (that’s why she’s The Love Linguist!) and filling the love bucket is key in relationships. So to tie things together, sending the RIGHT KIND of text message surely does fulfill the Contact Ring of Desire so that you can get to the SEX Ring of Desire and fill her love bucket. Imagine, being a Love Linguist yourself and using your text and oral techniques to drive your wife or woman crazy! You win, she’s happy and satisfied…

Q: Will your seduction system work for folks who have been married for a loooong time?

A: Yup. I’ve had people who have been married just a few months use the program and have received success stories from people who have been married for over 30 years. The technology is new, but the principals I teach you are absolutely timeless. You get to be a MASTERMAN! And, what women want really does not change.

(She wants her love bucket filled!)

Q: I don’t like “Writing,” can I still use this?

A: Definitely. The Text Your Wife Into Bed system is packed full of “written for you” text messages, story lines and ideas. While you’ll undoubtedly want to “adapt” some stuff to make it really work for Your wife, you don’t actually have to do any “writing” at all.

As I like to say “The system works so you don’t have to.”

Q: How soon can I expect to see results with your system?

A: That really depends on how committed you are to doing this and how good of a communicator you are with your wife now.

Some couples who are already pretty close say this stuff is like a firecracker in their sex lives right away. Folks who have drifted apart more often take a few days or even a week to start seeing results.

With the Icebreaker you should be having flirty, fun text conversations with your wife inside of two or three days her love bucket should be getting full and should be having a lot more fun in the bedroom inside a week.

Q: Do I need a “fancy” cell phone in order to use the Text your Wife Into Bed methods?

A: Not at all. While you’ll probably find the process easier if you have a phone with a dedicated keyboard, any cell phone with texting capabilities will do the job.

Q: The Text Your Wife Into Bed System looks amazing, am I going to have to take a week off and lock myself in a closet to study it?

I’ve designed Text Your Wife Into Bed as a product “For guys.” That means it’s designed to be digested quickly and to get you results as fast as possible. The main training videos will take you about an hour and a half to go through (though it’s completely possible you’ll want to study them several times or review them on a regular basis.) The “Black Book” is meant to be used as a reference and “bible” for you and isn’t meant to be read cover to cover. And the “Icebreaker” is designed to get you started right away. Order the system today and you’ll be texting your wife and building heat by tomorrow morning.

THE BIG TIME TRUTH – Cutting to the chase: You’ll need to spend about 2 hours total digging through the material before you get started and will be “in action” by tomorrow. So no reading big novels like “War and Peace” or anything like that.

Q: I’ve never “Texted” before . . . should I try this?

A: There’s a first time for everything, right?

Honestly, the reason I like using texting so much for this process is because it’s a way to have a “private” conversation with your wife even when she’s out in public and living her life. If you’ve never texted before, don’t worry about it. There’s a whole process outlined in the “Icebreaker” document that explains exactly how to “warm your wife up” to receiving messages this way.

If you’ve NEVER used text messaging before AT ALL it might take you slightly longer to get “started” with this than if you’re a texting pro. But the results are the same no matter what. This stuff just works.

Q: What if my wife doesn’t like it/reacts badly/threatens me with bodily harm?

A: Funny story.

When I first created this product (and I worked on it for a LOOONG time before finally unleashing it on the world) I had a whole bunch of men and women “Initial Test” for me. I was really interested in seeing if the material was explained in a way that “anybody” could use it, and I was really interested in how women reacted to the material. Would they think it was too dirty? Would they freak out? Would they yell at me and call me a creep?

But that didn’t happen at all.

Instead I got email after email from women (thin women, fat women, old women, young women) saying “I LOVE this and I WANT MY HUSBAND TO DO THIS TO ME.” Like Sherrie Rose says: This shines the CONTACT Ring of Desire and Fills The Love Bucket.

In fact, I only got ONE negative response from a woman. (She thought some of the language I use in the product was a little too dirty. And I think it was cultural.)

So on the one hand I had women saying “I love this, I want this. Make him do this.”

And on the other hand I had MEN who emailed me and said “Hey, this stuff is great, I really think you’re on to something but I’m SCARED at what my wife will do if I try this.”

This is actually where the “Icebreaker” came from. It was a way to help “scared” guys get over their fear and start texting their wives.  Hey anything that helps fill the love bucket…

What I’m trying to say is that the odds are your wife will react like my initial testers did. They’ll LOVE IT when you start sending them these little “bombs” of affection the way I show you to in the program.  When you use this system her love bucket gets full and your sex life heats up!

All you’ve got to do is take the first step and order today.

Q: I’m Not From the USA. Will this program work for me?

A: “Maybe.”

If you’re from a “Western” culture everything in this program should work like gangbusters. In some other countries the “code” of how women and men interact is quite a bit different. The main principles should translate well, but you’ll need to adapt some of the idiomatic phrases and language to fit your culture.

Q: How do I actually get the program?

Great question. After you order, you’ll be asked to create an account in the Text Your Wife Into Bed online membership site. Once you log in to the site, you’ll be able to watch the videos online or download them to your hard drive to watch whenever you want.

You’ll also be able to download the e-books of the Text Your Wife Into Bed ‘Black Book’ and the Text Your Wife Into Bed ‘Ice Breaker’ to your hard drive so you can print them out.

If you’ve taken Sherrie Rose’s “The Man Class” or “5 Love Dynamics” programs you can skip the rest of this and simple order now: Text Your Wife Into Bed

What’s an e-book?

An e-book or a digital book is simply an electronic version of a book that you download and save to your computer. Instead of going to the bookstore or waiting for the mail to deliver a hard copy book, you get instant access to your product through the magic of the internet.

Once you place your order, you’ll be taken to a page with instructions on how to download the Text Your Wife Into Bed materials right away. You’ll also receive an email as a back up.

Once you download the materials (which only takes a few minutes), you’ll save them as a PDF file. A PDF file is a readable document file that you can also print out. (You’ll probably want to print out the cheat sheet, the timetable and several other parts of the Black Book.) You’ll need the Adobe PDF reader to view these downloads, which is installed on most newer computers.

You can download the free adobe reader here: http://get.adobe.com/reader/

Finally, you might feel better to see some of the other people who are just like you who have had great success (and done amazing things to their marriages) with the program

Q: I’d really like to order your system as it really looks amazing. I’m a bit nervous about using my credit card online though. How safe is it really?

A: Perfectly understandable concern. I was nervous the first time I bought something online too, but online ordering has come a LONG way since then. In fact, ordering online via credit card is now considered safer and more secure than many traditional forms of payment (ordering over the phone, etc.)

Our merchant account (through Clickbank) uses SSL (secure socket layer) technology to protect your information from being viewed by third parties. Even as the website owner, I don’t have access to the credit card information you use to place your order. On top of that, Clickbank is the most popular and frequently used online credit processing company in the world today for downloadable products. Rest assured, your transaction is secure and safe.

You can get started now. If so, just click the “Order now” button you see below and you’ll be digging into the system (and completely changing the way you interact with your wife) in just a few short minutes.  This is one of the easiest ways to fill her love bucket – so just do it!

And remember, you get 30 full days to check out the system and decide if it’s for you. If not, just email me (you’ll get my private email as part of the program) and I’ll issue a full refund and thank you for trying it out. Easy peasy. No fine print.

Get Yours Order Now: Text Your Wife Into Bed

Sherrie Rose Recommends: Text Your Wife Into Bed

Sherrie Rose
The Love Linguist®
Dedicated to Enhancing Your Love and S*X Life!

Follow @SherrieRose on Twitter and you’ll get a Direct Message with bonus link for a free Love Bucket Book™

This is no trick, it is a treat!

If you want a date for Halloween – then –

you HAVE to see this.  It’s going to make
your weekend.

The Guru Black Book is live
http://Dating-Interviews.com/gurublackbook/

Brad and Bill opened the doors to best video at on
Friday morning, 10/29.

If you missed their live webinar, this is your chance
to see what those select few saw on Thursday night.

The Guru Black Book claims to "change the game."

But there are a lot of guys who claim to be game-changers.

I have to be honest though, I’ve seen a lot of cool
stuff, and it’s not often that I’m surprised.  But this
is one of them.  These guys are truly rolling out the
red carpet for you!

http://Dating-Interviews.com/gurublackbook/

This VIDEO will give you an ACTUAL look inside
this thing that is getting so much hype lately and
you’ll see why everybody is talking about it.

And the funny part is, it’s not about Dating Gurus.
It’s about you.

And, perhaps, you WILL get a great date for Hallowe’en.

Enjoy
Sherrie Rose
The Love Linguist

P.S. Your success with women has just been given
a pretty big shortcut.

http://Dating-Interviews.com/gurublackbook/

Sherrie Rose Recommends Guru Black Book

Are you a love virgin?

Allow me to explain. If you go by the traditional definition of the word “virgin,” it means a person who has not had sexual intercourse. If you’ve ever bumped uglies in the night, hid the hot dog, or taken the bullet train through Yonker’s tunnel, then no, you are not a virgin.

What about a love virgin?

The term “virgin” can also be used in non-sexual contexts to mean a lack of something. A Pina Colada Virgin, for instance, is a Pina Colada cocktail without alcohol. A love virgin, therefore, is someone who has never fallen in love.

If you’ve never fallen in love, you probably have not filled the love bucket….

Some people go through life never experiencing love. Some do and don’t know it. Still others do and won’t admit it. While all three are potential dating hazards, the first kind — the true love virgin — presents an especially difficult case.

Most people have experienced it at least once. While there isn’t a limit to the number of times one could fall in love, it would be logistically difficult to have felt it more than, say, twenty times. Unless, maybe, you’re a thousand-year-old vampire or something.

For most people, love isn’t an emotion or a state of being that happens easily. It’s not like buying ice cream at the supermarket. It’s more like buying a condo or house, relatively speaking.

I’ll bet some of you are shaking your heads right now. “I fall in love almost once a month,” you’re thinking to yourself. “It’s not as rare as this doofus makes it sound.”

Sorry to do this, but see your bubble there? Now look at this pin in my hand. Burst!

If you fall in love that often, chances are you haven’t been feeling love. What you may have been feeling is infatuation. A very deep, passionate infatuation, perhaps, but infatuation nonetheless.

It is easy to confuse infatuation with love. Love isn’t a feeling that fades in a matter of weeks. It takes years, decades, even lifetimes. Or perhaps it never truly fades; it just evolves into a more elemental emotion.

Infatuation, on the other hand, is defined as an “all-absorbing passion” (see why it’s so easy to confuse it with love?) that doesn’t last. It doesn’t grow or evolve. It just remains at that level, then dips like the sunset.

If you are still in your teens or early twenties, it isn’t uncommon to be a love virgin. Some may even argue that you don’t really know what love is until you’re older, though I think that’s bullshit. But if you are still a love virgin at this age, don’t fret. You are not alone.

If you are in your thirties or forties, however, then you should be concerned. That’s a long time to go through life without ever falling in love. It isn’t impossible, but, well, something may be wrong.

Are you afraid of being hurt so much that you avoid relationships? Are you consciously or unconsciously isolating yourself from strangers? Are you ending relationships before they have a chance to mature?

There is something beneath the surface that isn’t quite socially healthy. Or at least, socially acceptable by the norm.

On the flip side, if you are dating a love virgin, then be careful. Just as a sexual virgin isn’t quite sure what to do with all the rods and cones, a love virgin isn’t quite sure what to do with all the messy emotions that come with being in love. This isn’t a slight against love virgins, it’s just a fact. Lack of experience begets lack of understanding.

Don’t expect that your love bucket will be filled right away by a love virgin…

For example, jealousy can play a big part in love. Most people new to love will find this curious, yet nagging emotion sitting on their shoulder from time to time. The little green devil may occasionally nip at them, throw an all-out tantrum, or crawl away and lurk just behind the ears.

With experience, many learn to cope with this emotion. They realize its roots in insecurity and put it away appropriately. However, a love virgin doesn’t yet have this experience. Thusly, the little green devil is out to play.

There is more. Mutual love is a delicate sheet of rice paper. Push too hard and it will crumble. Pull too hard and it will tear. With experience and a few failed relationships under your belt (no pun intended), you will hopefully have learned how hard to push and how hard to pull.

A love virgin at age forty, unfortunately, hasn’t had the benefit of such experience. Such an individual may unknowingly come on too strong and suffocate the object of their desire. So dater beware.

To be fair, there are many patient people in the world who can deal with a middle-aged love virgin, just as there are many understanding people in the world who can deal with a middle-aged virgin. (“You know what? I respect women! I love women! I respect them so much that I completely stay away from them!”) So it isn’t the end of the world if you are a love virgin.

It takes confidence and bold moves to fill the love bucket….

But to those dating a love virgin, if you don’t have the patience or tolerance to deal with a new crop of emotions and lack of experience, be careful. Their only experience with love is what they’ve seen in movies. And as we all know, life isn’t like the movies.

Love Virgin by Mike Lee http://www.mikelee.org/love-virgin.html

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The Honey Love Pot (see Urban Dictionary for definition below) is comprised of multiple parts that eventually lead to the O-Spot (see Urban Dictionary).

There are always trends in your Love and Sex Life and currently the hottest rage is decorating the mound of the Honey Love Pot. Accessorizing the body has always been a favored activity of women and some of the naughty trends include vajazzling, vadge blush, and vadge accessories.

This is not exactly vadge blush… the color is called Orgasm.  see honey love pot http://honeylovepot.info

The V relates to the female body part that is often, but incorrectly thought of as the Love Bucket.

Spas that provide bikini waxes in major metropolitan areas will most likely also provide the application service as you select from the range of temporary tattoos or bring your own. Like most temporary tattoos, depending on a variety of factors like frequency of washing, rubbing, and oil on the skin, they’ll they lasts for about five to seven days.

Not every naughty love diplomat would decorate her honey love pot but, just like henna tattoos that are temporary, vattoos specifically designed for the mound of Venus. Special designs are being created by artists now that this demand is on the rise. Truth is any nicely designed temporary tattoos will do the trick!

The real trick and treat is the surprised look on the face of the man who gets the full visual of the vattoo on the mound of her honey love pot.

Recently I read an email targeting guys who want to pick-up women.
Here’s what they say the 3 HOTTEST TOPICS are for guys who date:

Dating Science. It is basic and simple psychology. It is basic and simple physical attraction. We are marvelous creatures, the human. Simple, yet so terribly complicated.

For topic one, it relates to context and the environment. I love to dance and you may often find me dancing on top of the speakers tho’ not a club.

What age are the guys who go to clubs and what’s their mentality? Not so much chronological age but mental age. The same night lays occur if you go to clubs and probably want to tell all the guys about your conquests.

Clubs, they are flashing neon for “pick up.” Easy pickin’s in the clubs because of the context and environment.

(Booty call: If she only wants her “honey love pot” filled then you may get lucky.)

But the gals who want their love bucket filled aren’t looking for a one night stand.

Topic two: Seductive and erotic text messages can ramp up the desire and passion. But if too quickly consummated the value diminishes. Men who pay for sex are willing to pay top dollar while aroused and before the act, and after being serviced, the value of the call girl is gone. So is respect.

Love is not a game. Getting a phone number, albeit important, is only the first step. Guys that want a real woman in their life do not want to play games. Yes, they tease and banter, but love is not a game. Lovematism is a BOND between lovers. Love is fun and flirtatious but it is not a game.

Topic three: Back to the clubs. It is a pick-up scene. So the “day game” as it is now being called apparently represents the highest quality women. Why, because high quality women don’t want to be picked up by men who want same night lays.

I get that sex is on the mind of men. In fact, the sex drive portion of the male brain is 2.5 times larger in men. They are driven by the primal urge to merge sexually. It is good and healthy. And, the young men who want many conquests will find women who just as easily want sex (that honey love pot wants action too). But one night stands leave out respect.

Because so many men of all ages confide in me, I know men want love not just sex. I also know that there is a time that THE SHIFT happens and guys go from DFS to DFL (dating for love). I also know that commitment is a big deal for guys and that they are driven for sex even when they are not at capable of commitment for a number of valid reasons. (See urban dictionary: The Shift)

What is sad is when a woman wants love and falls for the pick-up lines and allows her body to take over (the libido is a very powerful thing…) and then she feels hurt that the sex she has just had is only a one night stand. This has happened to high quality women.

At the end of the day, or the morning after, it is your personal choice. If you want and attract one night stands you may get your body satisfied. Short-term relief, barely satisfaction.

Eventually the longing for lovematism takes over. Then guys WANT to fill her love bucket with the words and actions that keep a women’s attention focused on you. Real LOVE renews and expands with each love-making session.

She’s Happy, He Wins, and Your Sex Life is Enhanced. That’s the Love Bucket® Formula!

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