Fill The Love Bucket – Selfish Lovers Have More Fulfilling Sex Lives
Friday, June 25th, 2010 Posted in SEX, Sherrie Rose Recommends | No Comments »
Study: Selfish Lovers Are Better in Bed
A new study defies the common belief that those who focus on their partners’ needs in bed make the best lovers. The findings were presented at the Association for Psychological Science convention in Boston and conducted by Kwantlen Polytechnic University’s Hayley Leveque and Cory Pederson.
The researchers studied 60 couples, two groups Under 26 & Over 30 ~ half of whom were between the ages of 18 and 25 and the other half over the age of 30. Participants were asked about their motivations for having sex and their levels of sexual satisfaction with their current partners. Their motivations for having sex included "horniness" and wanting to feel good. The over-30 group stated different reasons for having sex, including wanting to show love and affection for their partner as a reason for engaging in sexual activity. Summary: Under 26 Sex = Relieve Horniness, Get Pleasure \ Over 30 Sex = Show love and affection (in addition to Relieve Horniness, Get Pleasure). The younger age group tended to be more sexually self-focused.
"We found that as a partner’s sexual self-focus decreased, their partner’s satisfaction decreased," says Leveque. "You would think it would be exactly the opposite, with a partner being more attentive to the other partner’s needs, but that’s not what we found. It was sort of counterintuitive."
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I agree: "We have to be generous as lovers, and yet, selfish at the same time." That is part of Sexual Dimension.
How can we feel sinfully lustful without losing that loving heart connection?
Sexual Dimension is to know how to merging these two the polarities of expressing lust and tenderness in the same love-making session. To go from a gentle, sensitive sexual encounter into a rough, animalistic sweat-fest so that you get your sexual needs filled and titillate and turn on your lover at the same time.
Sexual dimension allows lovers to express intense passion and loving intimacy at the same moment. It’s about bringing the bond of lovematism into a sizzling physical expression that manifests the divine. It’s a spiritual and mystical connection, but it’s also hot and steamy. . Sex includes orgasm; but the sexual dimension goes beyond as you explore and know every aspect of each other fully and deeply.
For the average person, sexual multidimensional experiences are a mystery.
You must be able to open yourself up on all levels, physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually to bond in lovematism. Leave behind the issues of control, trust, childhood, family parents, religion, culture, personal fears, and other sexual complexes.
The perfect place to explore is in a committed relationship where you can express your sexual feelings for a fuller, richer experience of multi-dimensional sex.
"We have to be generous as lovers, and yet, selfish at the same time," said Patti Britton. "Sex is a partner dance. One of the reasons that people don’t experience the full capacity of their sexual pleasure is that they’re hung up on whether they’re doing a good enough job."
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Top 10 Hot and Horny Countries in the World – Who’s Filling the Love Bucket!
Thursday, April 29th, 2010 Posted in SEX, Sex Sells | 2 Comments »Top 10 Hot and Horny Countries in the World – Who’s Filling the Love Bucket!
Who’s in the world is filling the love bucket? The top 10 hot love countries are from the Durex survey. A country is ranked when the survey shows more of its citizens are having sex regularly. The basis for qualifying for the top 10 horniest country is that 75% of a country’s citizens have reported to be having sex at least once a week. Check out the top 10 list below to see whose is rocking the world or as some might say who’s the horniest! Sex is just one way to fill The Love Bucket® – the Sex Ring of Desire.
Top 10 HOT LOVE Countries
HOT LOVE Country #1 – Greece
The movies are full of love stories on Greek Islands. The Mediterranean climate, the handsome people, beaches, great weather, are the perfect ingredients to make Greece HOT LOVE Country #1.
Greeks have an abundant erotic history including pederasty, a relationship between an older man and an adolescent boy outside his immediate family. The word pederasty derives from Greek (paiderastia) "love of children" or "love of boys." Wikipedia note: The female Sappho, a poet from the Greek island of Lesbos (the derivation for Lesbian), wrote many love poems addressed to women and girls. Sappho is thought to have written close to 12,000 lines of poetry on her love for other women. As a result of her fame in antiquity, she and her land have become emblematic of love between women.
HOT LOVE Country #2 – Brazil
It doesn’t take much to imagine a Brazilian beauty in a thong on a white sand beach. Brazilians, speaking Portuguese, are known for their hot blood and lack of inhibition. Brazil is HOT LOVE Country #2.
Carnaval is the most famous holiday in Brazil and has become an event of huge proportions per wikipedia. The country stops completely for almost a week and festivities are intense, day and night, mainly in coastal cities. The government distributes condoms and launches awareness campaigns at this time to prevent AIDS dissemination. Wikipedia note: The thong is known as fio dental (literally dental floss) in Brazil. Wikipedia note: In Brazil, prostitution itself (exchanging sex for money) is legal, as there are no laws forbidding adult prostitution.
HOT LOVE Country #3 – Russia
To Russia with Love (and Sex!). Russia is HOT LOVE Country #3. Is the cold weather the reasons couples are getting hot together? Wikipedia note: The first Russian sex museum opened in 2004 in Saint Petersburg; it claims to exhibit the preserved penis of Rasputin. Wikipedia note: The 1988 Soviet film Malenkaya Vera was the first to feature a sex scene. The resolution on Glasnost stated, "Glasnost must not be used [to] disseminate pornography" but by September 1989, calendars of topless women for the year 1990 were being sold in Moscow.
HOT LOVE Country #4 – China
Does sex mean more people? That’s certainly the case with China, HOT LOVE Country #4.
China is the manufacturer for the majority of the world’s sex toys. China now retails sex paraphernalia in sex shops and more are opening every day.
Wikipedia note: 1991 Hong Kong erotic film, Sex and Zen, grossed $18,424,224 HKD. This was enormous business considering the film was saddled with the restrictive rating the equivalent of NC-17. Sex and Zen is about a lustful scholar who dares to challenge the moral teachings of the Sack Monk. The monk attempts to lecture the scholar that spiritual enlightenment transcends the passions of the flesh but the scholar, who enjoys women, naturally doesn’t agree. However, the most powerful man in the town marries his daughter, played by Amy Yip, to the Scholar. The daughter is a virgin and has been taught that sex is dirty. The scholar, after a disastrous yet humorous wedding night, soon initiates his bride into the pleasures of sex, aided greatly by the illustrations of a copy of said sex manual that he owns. But soon, the amorous husband goes about his ’scholastic travels’ where he meets the greatest thief known to man. The thief is able to sneak into people’s houses undetected, and the scholar wants to learn this skill so that he can sleep with other men’s wives.
HOT LOVE Country #5 – Poland
People think of Poland as a conservative county but underneath it all the citizens are halfway to the top of the list as HOT LOVE Country #5. The Annual Eroticon festival showcases adult toys has been going on for years. Wikipedia note: From December 13, 1981 to July 22, 1983, the authoritarian government of the People’s Republic of Poland drastically restricted normal life by introducing martial law. Did you know that during martial law Poles had reproductive sex more than any other European nation, and so was born the first "baby-boomer" generation of the Communist bloc. The curfew imposed by martial law put the Poles in the bedroom. Poland now boasts one of the youngest— and by definition—most sexually active populations in the region.
HOT LOVE Country #6 – Italy
Rome is for Romance and Italy is Hot Love County #6. Go Latin lovers! Italian lovers, living the la dolce vita with designer clothes, dark hair and smolders eyes attract members of the opposite sex. Sex is not just for the young at heart, the over 60 Italian crowd have sex regularly; which keeps them young. So when in Rome, do as the Romans do and have lots of sex. Italy Magazine in 2007 article, Italians Working Hard At Sex, stated that Italians claim to have sex more often, for longer and with more orgasms than people in most other countries in the world. The data showed that average Italians have sex 121 times a year (same survey showed average Greeks have sex 164 times a year). The data also says that the average Italian lovemaking session lasts approximately 20 minutes – which is longer than anywhere else in the survey – and two-thirds of the people surveyed reported having “regular” orgasms.
HOT LOVE Country #7 – Malaysia
Malaysia is HOT LOVE Country #7 with sex happening within the marriage vow and outside. In public, this country definitely appears conservative with a recent announcement this year on April 28 in Kuala Lumpur by Malaysian Deputy Education Minister Dr. Puad Zarkashi who said sex education is not needed in schools across the country. A few months earlier In February 2010 the BBC news reported that Three Malaysian women have been caned by the authorities for having extra-marital sex.These Malay women are the first women to receive such a sentence under Islamic law in the country. Malaysia’s majority Malays are subject to Islamic laws, while the large Chinese and Indian minorities are not.
HOT LOVE Country #8 – Spain
Hot Spanish Lovers make Spain HOT LOVE Country #8. It is said that nudism is perfectly legal throughout Spain which may account for all the sex. People have been known to walk the streets of Barcelona completely stark-naked. Some say that Madrid sex is the best. There are particularly well-known nudist beaches in Spain; where would you like to be rubbed with tanning oil? Any beach in Spain can be a nudist beach. Wikipedia note: The movie Sex and Lucia is an award winning 2001 Spanish drama film, and as suggested by the title, there is a great deal of passionate sexual content surrounding the love story of Lucia and Lorenzo. The movie features a highly non-linear story line with repeated surreal references to the ocean and beach.
HOT LOVE Country #9 – Switzerland
The Swiss and tourists are happy to pay for their sexual pleasure. The 2007 Durex Sexual Wellbeing Global Survey showed that the Swiss are regular lovemakers – 123 times a year, (the worldwide average is 103 times a year). Apart from their regular bedroom stamina at 19 minutes per lovemaking session, prostitution is also legal in this HOT LOVE country #9 .
The Hills are Alive with the Sounds of Sex… the Swiss use the word SEX in several Alp mountains, namely: The Sex Noir (translation Black Sex) and Sex Rouge (Wildhorn) are mountains in the Bernese Alps in Switzerland. The Sex de Marinda is a mountain in the Pennine Alps in Switzerland.
HOT LOVE Country #10 – Mexico
South of the border there seems to be plenty of action. Perhaps those afternoon siestas are worthy adding to your daily routine. Mexico is HOT LOVE Country # 10. Just below San Diego is the border town of Tijuana where it is easy to find a sex worker zone but in most of Mexico, prostitution is generally illegal. The age of consent in Mexico for sex is very low – 12! (source: the Aids Prevention website: http://www.avert.org/age-of-consent.htm ) This very Catholic, traditional country, which once emphasized that sex was for procreation, is beginning to acknowledge the need to lift the taboo from sexual activity. Mexico City’s sex plaza has 80,000 square feet of strip clubs, adult-movie theaters and boutiques stocked with sex toys indicating that sexual expression in full blossom.
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This information is from the 2008 Durex condom company sex survey, with some references to the 2007 survey. www.durex.com
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What about UNITED STATES, CANADA and BRITAIN?
What about HOT LOVE in the United States, Canada and Britain? Well if numbers tell the truth, only 53% of Americans have sex once a week, while 55% of British and 59% of Canadians admit the same. If you’re competitive, this would be embarrassing. Hot Love may depend on where you live, how honest folks are in the survey, and if filling the love bucket is a priority.
Sherrie Rose
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"50 HOT Reasons To Fill Her Love Bucket"
Thursday, April 22nd, 2010 Posted in 7 Rings of Desire, Her Love Bucket, Masterman, Mastermen, SEX, The Man Class Series | No Comments »
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Love, Sex, and The Male Brain (that wants to fill her love bucket!)
Tuesday, April 13th, 2010 Posted in Love Bucket Books, SEX, Sex Sells, Sherrie Rose Recommends | No Comments »
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"There’s the ‘Man Trance,’ that glazed-eye look a man gets when he sees breasts." "Men look at attractive women the way women look at pretty butterflies."
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Dr. Louann Brizendine is the author of The Male Brain.
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