Guys, Do You Convey Value? (enough to fill her love bucket…)

Saturday, March 6th, 2010 Posted in 7 Rings of Desire, Dating, Mating, Relating, Her Love Bucket, Sherrie Rose Recommends | 1 Comment »

There are lessons are out there in the real world on every street corner.  Everyday guys do this. (And, remember to check out the resources at the end.)

This is the gospel of ATTRACTING women and KEEPING women.

It’s there every second if you have the eyes to see.  You don’t need X-RAY vision.

Open your eyes.

Look.  Watch. Listen.

The secret of getting women to be attracted to you is…. CONVEYING VALUE

 

Do YOU Convey Value?

Create and convey a value that ONLY YOU can fill.  She has to come to you to be satisfied, to quench her desire, to be fulfilled. 

The value you convey let’s her know that you can FILL HER LOVE BUCKET!

The term "conveying value" describes the process.

Here are a few ways you convey value to women.

1.  Show the benefits over time

Show how being with you today results in benefits to her now and in the future.  Great sex, fun, adventure, laughter; did I mention great sex? 

(women typically want long-term, not short-term)

2.  Show the instant benefit

A lot of times women don’t believe they’ll get a benefit.
So if it’s instant, you raise believability.

3.  Show ALL the WAYS a woman benefits

This sparks the imagination to the DEPTH of your value and shows a woman you are a multi-dimensional man.   It is not about YOU it is about what you can do for her in the ways she’ll benefit.

4.  Demonstrate the benefit

Show her instead of just telling about it.  Actions speak louder than words. Even if is simply entertaining her and keeping her intrigued. That’s a benefit.

5.  Have a wing man or wing woman talk about you.

Nothing like a positive recommendation to reinforce the value that you are conveying.

6.  Tell STORIES about other women in your life who benefited. 

A sister, aunt, mother, a female friend who’s similar to her would be good here rather than an ex-girlfriend or ex-wife. Then let her know you want to do it FOR HER.

7.  Your appearance conveys value

You know the saying,"the clothes make the man."  How you look conveys value. This also goes for the things that represent you like the cleanliness of your car and home. 

Here’s my question to you:

HOW could you convey value?

Brainstorm all the ways you could do that.

Your conversation should convey value as well as creating urgency so she wants to take action and go on a date or take it to the next level because she sees you as a “HOT” guy that has value and she needs to act now since OBVIOUSLY other women will see your value, too.

A lot of guys get caught up in pick-up lines and forget it’s all about conveying value.  The more value you convey and display to her, the more she’ll hang onto your words and even “chase you” to be with you.

You’ve got to SHOW and TELL her all the ways you’ll create VALUE for in her life.  Whether it is for THAT NIGHT or value for the long term.  And do it in such a way that she doesn’t think you’re selling yourself.  It must be natural.

She’ll keep coming back for more if you convey value that triggers her desires. If  she feels you can fill those desires and fill her love bucket, you’ve got it made!

To convey value, you’ve gotta get out of your head and into the woman’s head (not easy to do). And say, "What does SHE want?"
 
To help understand what she wants, *HER RINGS OF DESIRE*, if you are dating, you can learn about the 8 TYPES OF WOMEN from my friend Vin DiCarlo. This is a free video and I’ve listed the types for you.  If you’ve got a gal in your life and you want her to be more responsive to her, the you can take the man class and learn about the 7 ways to fill her love bucket.

Because the VALUE is NOT in you.  Conveying value, not surprising, is satisfying the desires of a woman.

That’s how value is demonstrated.

Now once you CREATE that value by showing you can satisfy her desires, you have to CONVEY and DEMONSTRATE the value.  The best guy does NOT win.  The guy that CONVEYS the right VALUE that matches the particular type of women in dating and the guy that fills her love bucket in relating to her, WINS. 

WIN = More sex, more respect, more love, more fun.

Just knowing about conveying value does not get you the gal or help keep the gal you love.  Those guys who DO the most exquisite job of CONVEYING the value to satisfy her desires are the real winners.

There’s an art to conveying value.

Some guys do it by bragging and hyping really hard.

Some guys do it subtly with skill and implication.

Some guys do it via the brute force of overpowering her senses.

Some guys do it via multiple attempts to get her attention.

It’s more art than science. Although there’s a science to it.

But the common theme is CONVEY VALUE.

I LAUGH so hard (to myself) when I see guys fail with women because they don’t know their own value and don’t understand how their value will positively contribute to a woman’s life.

Because girls and even experienced women can get so caught up in the pick-up lines guys deliver. The pick-up lines can have short term effect.
THINK about it.

The one thing ALL those other guys have in common is they want the girl to satisfy them (basically get laid).  He wants HER to give it up FOR HIM.

Now — go and do the opposite.  Convey value that shows what you’ll do for her.  Then she’ll be all over you.

You have to be in the Game a long time before you really see how simple and wise that advice is.

Attraction is in conveying value.  Not the pick-up.

Again, attraction is in conveying value.  Not the pick-up line or technique. 

So the smart woman gives it up to the guy who helps her life and fills her love bucket.  That’s how I see it.

Guys  are a dime a dozen.  Guys have this ILLUSION that if they just act like an Alpha Male they’ll win (tho’ acting with ALPHA Masculinity IS important).  So guys get all caught up in the just be alpha thing that they forget it is about convey value that you know what she wants and that you KNOW how to shine up HER rings of DESIRE and fill her love bucket.   It’s about her, not you.

The best guy does NOT win.  Guys are a dime a dozen.

The guy with best VALUE DISPLAY wins. And the guy wins who does the best job of CONVEYING value that aligns with her desires.

So stop obsessing over being an alpha man (thought that does help) and be the guy that CONVEYS VALUE that’s consistent with her rings of desire.  Shine up her rings and she’s hooked on you.

Then get busy CONVEYING your value via every means possible.   Or at least the values that you enjoy the most or find interesting or challenging to attract the RIGHT woman.  It is not an act, it is your life so you’ve got to able to naturally keep it up.

It’s funny that guys can be in this Game so long and not understand that it’s all about creating value for the woman and then CONVEYING that value effectively through multiple means (The 7 Ways to Fill Her Love Bucket).

Are you a guy that is a value creator? 
(You spark her imagination and she desires and wants it)

Are you a guy that is a value conveyor?
(You listen and observe her and match what she has expressly desired)

If you aren’t doing this, then it’s high time you start to learn how others guys create and convey value.

This goes for any guy that loves women and wants a girlfriend or who wants to make the woman in his life HAPPY.   Here are a few resources:  Vin’s 8 Types of Women (candy store video), Sherrie’s Man Class Accelerator on the 7 Rings of Desire or Women (how to fill her love bucket) and Carlos Xumas Alpha Masculinity Program Stop Wasting Time Learning New Pickup Tricks… Learn To Supercharge Your Masculine Confidence.

And now you know the secret of getting women to be attracted to you and want to stay with you.

 

To Your Love Success,

Sherrie Rose
The Love Linguist®
Dedicated to Enhancing Your Love and S*X Life!

 

 

 

Special Thanks to Michael Fortin for his contribution to VALUE.

Sherrie Rose Recommends: 8 Types of Women,  Man Class Accelerator, Alpha Masculinity Program

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Pandora’s Box in Dating Leads to Success in Filling Her Love Bucket

Thursday, March 4th, 2010 Posted in Dating, Mating, Relating, Masterman, Mastermen, Seduction, Sherrie Rose Recommends | No Comments »

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Sexually Expressive Woman A liberated woman with sexual experience allows herself to be turned on and she can handle sexual innuendo, sexual language, and a powerful physical touch that suggests sex. She has sexual memories that can be easily triggered. She acts on her physical triggers and makes out. Sexually Reserved Woman An inexperienced or reserved woman can respond to sexual language by recoiling. If inexperienced, sexual language does not have a place to trigger images and thoughts that she is comfortable with. Sex may be repressed until she feels completely safe with a man. If confident but reserved, she’ll think you’re a player and not serious. Social Butterfly - Dates a lot, playing around for now, making out with the guys she’s dating. No hang ups about sex. Looking for the ideal husband, but having fun and having sex now. Playette - Can lead men on and be a tease. Lots of guy friends who’d all like to sleep with her and she’s having sex with none of them. Will only sleep with a guy that’s got long-term relationship potential. She always has guy friends as back up. Fun and fun only UNLESS TAMED, then very loyal to one guy. Seductress – Get her to chase you. Actively pursues what she wants in her career and in the bedroom. Go-getter. Fun to date. Can teach you a lot. Sets her sights on something goes for it. Often older with experience. [Cougar?] Hopeful Romantic – Holds everything back waiting for the perfect man. Wants you to demonstrate to that you have potential to be perfect (she probably wants to improve and fix you, too). She joins a work in progress to work on you. Cinderella - Falls in love quickly and has sex quickly, wants to be shown romance. Hopes she finally has found Mr. Right. If you don’t satisfy her Mr. Right needs, she’s gone. She’s a challenge and you must reinforce her image of a femininity to end her cycle and save her pain. Private Dancer - Very particular. Unique since she gets physical when you can contribute to her – career, knowledge, etc. Will open up completely, very loyal. She doesn’t talk about it in a public way. Secret rendezvous; maybe she has something to lose possibly in her career. Modern Woman – She wants ONE guy. Will date to find him and be sexually active. Knows the value of a functional relationship and will invest heavily in a guy if she feels you can contribute to each other’s lives. More sexually open than Connoisseur. You can become intimate faster, develop a relationship sooner. Connoisseur - Very selective. Screens out “players.” Thinks Long term. Powerful and self-sufficient and can support a man in many ways. If she senses short term, she will not get intimate with you, she wants long-term. Ideal for a career-driven man looking for a woman where you can improve each other’s lives together. Worth the wait.

Note from Sherrie Rose, The Love Linguist®: As you can see from all the eight types of women that Vin DiCarlo identifies they all want ONE guy, Mr. Right, a Perfect Man, and Ideal Husband, or a Long-Term Relationship. This is probably not a huge surprise. The question is what do you want? (apart from sex) The two most popular questions that are asked in an initial encounter are: 1) Where do you live? 2) What do you do (for a living)? The real dating questions revolve around the two big “elimination” questions: 1) PHASE of LIFE: Are you in the “lets play and have fun” or “let’s settle down” phase. These are not mutually exclusive but one is the prime motivator. Which is it? 2) KIDS: Where do you stand with kids? Do you have kids, do you want kids, does she have kids, or does she want kids. The answer is simply about being clear and honest with yourself. Clarity in what you want in dating whether it is dating for fun or dating to get into a serious relationship. Be clear YOURSELF on the two elimination questions. Know what you want out of your phase. If you just want to play and have fun and you start dating a woman who wants to settle down and have kids you are not acting in integrity with either of your best interests. If you’ve figured out her “type” as Vin describes, can you meet her in both PHASE and KIDS. That’s were your integrity lies. A MASTERMAN would determine the answer to the elimination questions upfront so he can act in integrity when he is dating. Remember the dating experience is for the highest good for all involved. If you don’t have clarity you’ll be wasting your time and her time. Now about TIME: Time is an investment. As you get older, time is more in the forefront of the mind of men and women. When you date over thirty you realize that you are investing your time (and possibly your money) into the date or several dates that may lead to a relationship. For women, what is the TIME INVESTMENT? Men need to understand and value the two very essential capital investments that a woman brings to the dating game. 1) A woman is investing HER LOOKS. 2) A woman is investing HER FERTILITY. Both LOOKS and FERTILITY have an expiration “shelf life.” That is why it is so important to be clear upfront with what you want while dating as dating can lead to a relationship. If you date and she wants a commitment and kids you are spending her fertility. Over 35 it is much more serious. Enough said. Even with LOOKS. If she wants a serious relationship, with or without kids, and the guy is spending her looks because he has no intention giving her a commitment even though you may be serious and exclusive, you are spending her looks. When a guy is “done” she is now older, has another wrinkle, and the guy is off to a younger woman. You are draining her love bucket, not filling it. Her LOOKS helped attract you to her. Spending her looks when she is young is not that big a deal. If you spend her looks over 35 you’ve got to keep the timeline in check past three months of dating. If you have are not conscious or aware of the expiration date of these two capital investments that women bring, you become part of the angry conversation that women have about men. So how should you BE (as a man) when dating? Be a MASTERMAN. Here’s the MASTERMAN definition: A man who exudes mastery and integrity because he has self-discipline, confidence, clarity of purpose on a daily basis, and strategic direction of his life. Women are extremely attracted to a masterman (think Rockstar), young boys clamor to be lead by a masterman, and peers seek the counsel of a masterman often in the context of a mastermind group. A MASTERMAN has mastered the art of initiative and positively contributes and participates in the lives of others. A MASTERMAN is a success in all aspects of his life. Again, a MASTERMAN would determine the answer to the elimination questions upfront so he can act in integrity when he is dating. A MASTERMAN does not need validation or approval of women. A MASTERMAN has other strong men in his life in a group or BROTHERHOOD of MASTERMAN that keep each other in check, activate friendly competition, and challenge each other to rise to their greatness and potential.

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Talkin’ Health: The Primal Urge of Sex (Fill The Love Bucket!)

Thursday, February 18th, 2010 Posted in Love Bucket, Romance, SEX, Seduction, Sherrie Rose Recommends, The Love Linguist | No Comments »

 

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Post-Valentine’s Day, Sherrie will be talking with Joe Kasper about Men and Women, Women and Men, How to Stay Connected to Your Partner- Pillow talk, Romance- and much, much more.

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“Pillow Talk Secrets Reveal Powerful, Seductive Dirty Talk” (one sure-fire way to fill her love bucket !)

Thursday, February 11th, 2010 Posted in Gifts, SEX, Seduction, Sherrie Rose Recommends | No Comments »

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Wednesday, February 10th, 2010 Posted in SEX, Sherrie Rose Recommends | No Comments »

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