Love Bucket: The Only Pick-Up Line You’ll Ever Need
Saturday, February 18th, 2012 Posted in Attention, Dating, Mating, Relating, The Man Class Series | No Comments »In The Man Class Accelerator, there is an awesome interview with Stephen Nash, known as Playboy in the book, The Game.
Now, The Man Class is not simply about dating and picking up women. In fact, The Man Class is about keeping a good woman happy and filling her love bucket.
Valentine’s is over and the pressure is off, so to speak, but dating continues. You have to meet her first to fill her love bucket.
To begin dating, a guy needs to have a great conversation starter or pick up line. Your opener is important. It is the way that you give and get her attention.
Stephen has one that he says works about 90% of the time. He said that he grew so weary of the mass amounts of pick up lines and gimmicks that he developed a very simple, elegant and smooth way of approaching women in any/all circumstances. The following is in Stephen’s own words:
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“I noticed you from across the cafe and I had to risk complete embarrassment to meet you. |
That’s it.
TRY THIS FOR YOURSELF.
Why does it work so well?
A few reasons:
1) You aren’t overtly hitting on her. All you say is that you “noticed” her which always piques her interest. Inevitably, she will reply to your statement with “Well, what did you notice?” (so, be ready for that).
2) You pace the reality of this being slightly awkward and different when you say “risk complete embarrassment”. She will relax when you say this as it confirms to her that you are aware that this is not the norm.
3) You tell her your name, which is polite WHILE patting yourself on the back a bit by honoring the fact that this is a “risk”.
Does this phrase automatically insure that you get a date with her? Of course not. But it does guarantee that you get a conversation with her around 90% of the time. Women respond to direct, romantic gestures very well…if you do this technique, you will see what I mean.
Being direct conveys a lot of REALLY GOOD things to women. And, I have found that this technique is the only romantic pick up line that isn’t terribly cheesy and that truly, actually works.
Try it!
And here’s a list of places to meet women that does not include a bar or club:
1. Seminars/Events
2. Dog Parks
3. Concerts
4. Home Depot
5. Plane or Train Travel
6. Online Chat and Networking
7. Sporting Events
8. 8 at 8 Dinner Party for 8 Strangers
Checkout http://www.eightateight.com/ This site also lists modern pickup lines if you think you need more ammunition than Stephen Nash’s solid one above.
1. “Hey, I love your shoes (or handbag, or coat, etc.)!” Who doesn’t love being complimented?! This is an easy, non-awkward way to start conversation and get brownie points at the same time.
2. “Hi, I would love to get you a drink.” Perfect for when you spot someone in a bar setting. It’s simple and direct. Try not to sound cheesy…it’s pretty easy with this one. And PLEASE, take “no” for an answer. Persistence is not the key here, it just weirds people out and makes everyone uncomfortable.
3. “What kind of dog is that?” Everyone loves talking about their little pal. It shows you’re interested and instantly gives you something to talk about. As e-Harmony says, if you’re feeling brave/witty, add “Does he/she have a phone number?”
4. “Are you single?” I agree, this sounds scary and forward. But after working for a matchmaker, and actually USING this line in real life, I can assure you it’s not as awkward as you might think. If you ask with your most charming smile and maybe even with a little laugh (like you know this is very direct, but you’re going for it!) then if the answer is “no,” most people will be impressed with your straightforward approach.
5. “Nice to meet you, I’m ____ and you’re beautiful!” With a lot of people, flattery will get you everywhere. This approach is again, very direct, but could also brighten someone’s day and your chances of grabbing a date.
7. “How much does a polar bear weight? Enough to break the ice!” This classic, marginally cheesy pickup line is actually pretty sweet and funny. Who doesn’t enjoy a joke? This can show you don’t take yourself TOO seriously, which in the dating world is definitely a plus.
8. “Excuse me, but you have something on your face,” (when she goes to wipe it off stop her and say) “No, no leave it. It’s beauty.” Ok, this actually made me laugh out loud. Yes, it’s super cheesy, but if a cutie came up to me and said this, I don’t think I could resist. Actually, I might start using this. Watch out, boys!
Basically, most of these fun and direct pickup lines are a great way to start the conversation and involve that person you’ve been eyeing.
How Do I Love Thee? Let Me Text and Tweet the Ways
Friday, February 17th, 2012 Posted in 7 Rings of Desire, Her Love Bucket, Romance, Seduction, SEX, The Love Bucket®, The Man Class Series | No Comments »Valentine’s may be over but dating and love are always hot topics.
If you’ve dated online, then you probably experienced being asked out via text message. 
If you use Twitter, you may have sent a 140-character declaration of love. Compared with a sonnet on perfumed parchment, it doesn’t seem very romantic.
Mobile-tapping tweets, texts, facebook, and the latest pinterest, keep hands busy but not with a pen.
When was the last time you picked up a pen wrote out a letter by hand? And when was the last time you sent someone a love letter?
And who needs Shakespearean declarations of love anyway? If Juliet had Googled Romeo, she would have found out he was a Montague and avoided all the big fuss.
Looking for your Romeo? The boom in Internet dating means there are more fish in the sea than ever before. Plenty of Fish is a popular, free dating site. For those too busy for the singles scene, online dating is a welcome shortcut, especially when profiles and photos let you be choosy about your choices.
Before you even go on your first date, you can Google and Facebook your potential love to your heart’s content to make sure she’s not hiding any skeletons. Technology just cuts out the small talk, letting you know if your partner is the right one for you.
So once a potential Juliet is found, what’s the way to a modern woman’s heart? Try her cell phone. And if you are in a relationship, you can spice up your love life with hot texts (GUYS, click here for more on Text Love Now)
If they’re correctly organized, text messages are like stacks of love letters tied with ribbon — only now they’re searchable.
Paul Walker, 25, used texts to create the perfect anniversary gift for his girlfriend, Elizabeth. He created a calendar that tracked the chronology of their relationship, using only their text messages.
As he was making the calendar, Walker, who lives in Brooklyn, converted his chats with her into a text document — 1,200 pages long. Though the mass of messages was intimidating, the finished calendar showed the arc of their relationship. "It ended up creating a rather emotional thing," says Walker. And an overjoyed girlfriend => Definitely filling her love bucket showing her his dedication with the time, effort, and love infused into such a project
Texting technology helps not just the enamored though. If a romance goes sour, your smartphone or iPhone can take all the effort out of writing a Dear John letter. We all know someone who’s been dumped via text message.
Especially in the case of breakups, it’s tough to draw the line between efficient and impersonal communication. The key seems to lie in balancing your online and off-line relationship. It is not surprising that texting, tweets, and social media may lead to break-ups, because often text messages are misinterpreted. If you do want to get your ex back, then you can try text your ex back and reunite that uses a lot of the right psychology.
In the age of texting, old-fashioned romance may seem as antiquated as Old English. Excerpts From Time.
Smart marketers are using the texting angle to tap your deepest emotions. Perhaps technology can smooth the course of true love, whether it helps find it, nurture it or, fix it, and, if need be, end it.
With dating, because texting and online relationships make a days-old relationship seem more intimate or because they numerous texts increases anticipation.
Text and tweet to your hearts content and hopefully you’ll get the reply you want!
With a relationship, the frequency of texts (frequency being one of the considerations of the love bucket) coupled with the RIGHT message can fill the love bucket and shine up the Contact Ring of Desire that will lead to other rings of desire of THE LOVE BUCKET.
Yes, in the end it gets back to The Love Bucket. If the text or tweet does not fill the love bucket, try a different Ring of Desire. There are 7 Rings of Desire and your special lady has three or four top desires. Find out what they are in The Man Class Accelerator.
Sherrie Rose
The Love Linguist
Dedicated to Enhancing Your Love and S*X Life!
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Follow @SherrieRose on Twitter and you’ll get a Direct Message with bonus link for a free Love Bucket Book™
The Love Bucket is a registered trademark. Love Bucket Books™ can be found at http://lovebucketbook.com
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Score a Touchdown and WIN BIG When You Fill Her Love Bucket
Sunday, February 5th, 2012 Posted in The Man Class Series | No Comments »
Score a Touchdown For 24 Hours
February is a busy and short month. Valentine’s almost here and the month wouldn’t be complete without mentioning the SUPER BOWL.
Touchdowns. Winning. Football is a contact sport.
Get that touchdown in the bedroom game day and every day
Physical touch is part of the Contact Ring of Desire of the Love Bucket. The right touch will open a woman up to you.
Touch is one of the hottest rings of desire. Observation is key because we often show our desires in a way that reflects how we like to receive love. The platinum rule of love is give love the way the other person wants to receive love.
When you know how to “fill her love bucket” then you can reduce the amount of time you spend on activities that leave you wondering why your efforts aren’t appreciated. Every woman has her unique combination of desires to express and receive love.
Things are bound to go more smoothly, more of the time and your can ignite more sparks of passion for hotter intimacy. Fill her love bucket and her desire they way she wants so you WIN with her.
Score Touchdown here: http://ReachOutandiTouchSomeone.com
for a special 24 hour offer – You WIN!
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David Fills Annie’s Love Bucket with Wedding Love Vows
Wednesday, November 9th, 2011 Posted in 7 Rings of Desire, Dating, Mating, Relating, Lovematism, SEX, The Man Class Series | No Comments »
David DeAngelo Fills Annie Lalla’s Love Bucket with Wedding Love Vows
Beautiful wedding vows. Click image for video (David DeAngelo is Eben Pagan)
Synchronize with your mind, body, heart and spirit, LOVEMATISM, and vows to create an amazing sex live together.
"The difference between love & true love, is the difference between a very large number and infinity." 
With This Ring “I Set You Free”
See Previous Post “Power Her Passion”
Filling Your Love Bucket With A Fortune
Wednesday, June 29th, 2011 Posted in 7 Rings of Desire, Dating, Mating, Relating, Gifts, Her Love Bucket, Lifestyle, Love Dynamics, Lovematism, Romance, Sherrie Rose Recommends, The Love Bucket®, The Love Linguist®, The Man Class Series | No Comments »Can You Fill Her Love Bucket?
FORTUNE — Operating a successful business is supposed to be a ticket to the good life — but sometimes it comes at a cost. The following Fortune Magazine article is annotated by Sherrie Rose, The Love Linguist, with tips to help guys fill the love bucket and understand how to stay in the (benevolent) power position and remain the Chairman of the Relationship, not just the Chairman of the Board.
Story: Stephen Adele was too busy building his $20 million Golden, Colo., nutritional supplements company, iSatori, to spend much time with his wife and three children.
"I would try to compensate by buying her and my family things," he recalls. The cars and jewelry didn’t work, of course, and the couple just got divorced. => If the Provisions Ring of Desire is not one of her priority Rings of Desire of the Love Bucket, no fancy gifts or presents will make woman happy. <= Stephen Adele is now, finally, spending more time with his three daughters. Here’s a little advice that might help you avoid matrimonial discord.
- 1. Keep a flexible schedule
You may not be able to work less, but you probably have time to take a few items off your spouse’s to-do list. Brad Dresbach, co-founder of the Columbus branding and marketing firm 42Fish, tackles such daily errands for his family as picking up birthday cakes — relieving stress for his wife, Danielle, who has a much more inflexible corporate job. => This is the DO FOR Ring of Desire of the Love Bucket. Again, if this is not one of her priority rings of desire, hire a personal assistant for these tasks. Check out the 5 Love Dynamics: Acclimating Dynamic which all about the business of living, chores, household, etc.
2. Ration e-mail time
When you’re home, be present. Jeff Booth, CEO of BuildDirect, a 63-employee building materials retailer, has a wife, Kelly, who posts what a great dad he is on Facebook, though he spends 60 hours a week working. He attributes that to shutting off his phone as soon as he gets home so he can enjoy activities with her and their children– instead of checking e-mail poolside. => This is one of those common sense things that both men and women ignore. Giving attention especially when you are in physical proximity is a key to love success. If you are out of town, sweet-nothing voice mails, sexy texts (goes for guys and gals) may give her some attention and fun.
3. Hold family summits
D.J. Rezak, founder of KB Building Services, a commercial cleaning company in Omaha, credits weekly meetings with keeping the family organized and freeing up time for him to spend with his wife, Lisa. The family pauses during Sunday dinners to talk about the week, discuss upcoming plans, and hold an occasional talent show. "It makes it feel like our family is a priority," says Lisa. => Repeat from above - Check out the 5 Love Dynamics: Acclimating Dynamic which all about the business of living, chores, household, etc..
4. Share your interests
It’s easy to get so caught up in your own thing that you ignore your partner’s pursuits. Razor Suleman, CEO of I Love Rewards, a Boston rewards and recognition business with $50 million in sales, tries to avoid that mistake. He joined his wife, Kari, a web developer, at a summit she needed to go to for work. "It was amazing that Razor took an interest in an event that I was excited to attend," she says. "It sparked a dialogue we would not have had otherwise." => This is a great tip starting with the Recognition Ring of Desire and the Do With and Lifestyle Rings of Desire of the Love Bucket. This is a triple win for a man and she’s HAPPY!
5. Schedule regular vacations
Brad Feld, founder of VC firm Foundry Group, started scheduling regular vacations after his wife, Amy Batchelor, almost dumped him for working during an entire weekend trip. They now have one-week vacations each quarter — known as their "Qx vacation." The ground rules? He unplugs completely, giving her his smartphone. "She gives it back the following week," he says. Colleagues work around it, and Feld stays married. => The Do With and Lifestyle Rings of Desire of the Love Bucket are active here. Check out the 5 Love Dynamics on how to the Cultivating Dynamic works to build more lovematism in your relationship.
–Verne Harnish is a Fortune Magazine contributor and the CEO of Gazelles Inc., an executive education firm. Source: http://money.cnn.com/2011/06/27/smallbusiness/business_marriage_balance.fortune/index.htm
There are many ways to fill the love bucket. If you don’t know the details, you can’t drive her desire. Guys, get the man class – The Man Class Accelerator!
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Sherrie Rose
The Love Linguist
Dedicated to Enhancing Your Love and S*X Life!
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Follow @SherrieRose on Twitter and you’ll get a Direct Message with bonus link for a free Love Bucket Book™
The Love Bucket is a registered trademark. Love Bucket Books™ can be found at http://lovebucketbook.com
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