Dating Dance Patterns & Persuasion (can fill her love bucket!)

It is said that in the sales process if you mimic (in an understated way) your prospective client that it builds rapport and you get closer to the sale.  The same is true in when you are persuading and seducing a mate.

In the animal kingdom, firefly species use a special pattern of flashing to signal to potential mates.  This happens during mating season.  There’s another species of firefly that appears to be a remarkably successful seducer.  By copying the unique blinking pattern they attract other fireflies. However, this second species goal is not to mate, but to attack and eat them for dinner. 

How do you know if you are falling into love’s embrace or if you are an unsuspecting victim of persuasion?

In the dating dance when you mimic the other person by using exactly the same words phrases, you are generally more liked, but actually receive more green light signals from your prospective mate.  This strategy increases rapport and there is higher likelihood you will “get lucky,” get a phone number, or get a second date.

Following and repeating patterns of speech and movement is an effective persuasive tool.  It may increase a sense of closeness and understanding with another person. After giving someone your phone number, if they repeat it back to you in a way that’s different to how you remember it sounds it breaks rapport. Unexpectedly your phone number doesn’t sound right and you probably take a second (disapproving) look at that person.

When meeting people for the first time, you can develop good relationships in a quicker time by repeating back selectively the same words that they use. It does not matter if it is in dating, sales, business, or family functions.  Communication that follows patterns of words and phrases that are repeated creates closeness.
As a result, your date may be persuaded to go home with you or will be anxiously waiting for your next phone call or text message.

Read more about Persuasion by authors Steve Martin, Noah Goldstein and Robert Cialdini: 
Yes! 50 Scientifically Proven Ways to be Persuasive 
( New York Times bestseller)

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WOMEN AS EXPLAINED BY ENGINEERS (missing the component to fill the love bucket)

For all the guys who enjoy a good laugh, and to all the ladies who have a good sense of humor.

WOMEN AS EXPLAINED BY ENGINEERS

Part I

Part II

Part III

Part IV

Part V

And Finally!

Have you ever wondered how a woman’s brain works?
Well….it’s finally explained here in one, easy-to-understand illustration:

B
Every one of those little blue balls is a thought about something
that needs to be done, a decision or a problem that needs to be solved.
A man has only 2 b_ _ _ _ and they take up all his thoughts.

Note: The source of this has come in various forms in email messages on websites; original author unknown.

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For Couples Only (Fill The Valentine’s Love Bucket)

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Get her a gift for Valentine’s Day (anything from sending flowers to clothing from Nordstrom’s), and you get THE COUPLE’S GUIDE TO REVOLUTIONARY SEX as an added bonus.

This is from Alex Allman and I recommend Revolutionary Sex in The Man Class Series.

This is a very cool program Alex has put together, and a great way to get a double-win. Here’s the back story:

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The Love Bucket Concept #lovebucket

The Love Bucket Concept

The Love Bucket is a concept.  Yes, there are images of love buckets with multi-colored rings (rings of desire) to help with a visual clues to understand the love bucket concept. 

The Love Bucket is a concept about love and desire, both of which are intangible feelings and emotions.   That’s why the love bucket is a concept and not a physical bucket.

Let’s start with what a concept is.  Several of the following descriptions and meaning are excerpts from Wikipedia and dictionary.  A concept is a general representation. Concepts are "mere abstractions from what is known through intuitive perception, and they have arisen from our arbitrarily thinking away or dropping of some qualities and our retention of others.”

The logical acts of the understanding by which concepts are generated as to their form are:

1. comparison, i.e., the likening of mental images to one another in relation to the unity of consciousness;
2. reflection, i.e., the going back over different mental images, how they can be comprehended in one consciousness; and finally
3. abstraction or the segregation of everything else by which the mental images differ …

In order to make our mental images into concepts, one must thus be able to compare, reflect, and abstract, for these three logical operations of the understanding are essential and general conditions of generating any concept whatever.

The Love Bucket concept can also be considered a metaphor. A metaphor is a description that uses an image, story or tangible thing to represent a less tangible thing or some intangible quality or idea or concept; e.g., "Her eyes were glistening jewels." 

A metaphor is more forceful (active) than an analogy, because metaphor asserts two things are the same, whereas analogy implies a difference. Analogy is a cognitive process of transferring information or meaning from a particular subject (the analogue or source) to another particular subject (the target Metaphor and analogy both work by bringing together two concepts from different conceptual domains.

The idea of metaphor can be traced back to Aristotle who, in his “Poetics” defines “metaphor” as follows: “Metaphor is the application of a strange term either transferred from the genus and applied to the species or from the species and applied to the genus, or from one species to another or else by analogy.”

That’s an awful lot of mumbo jumbo just to describe love and desire!

The LOVE BUCKET can include romantic ideas which you can get for free at FREE ROMANTIC TIPS www.FreeRomanticTips.com

Romance tips and love inspiration are only part of the LOVE BUCKET.  Some men interpret innuendo with the term LOVE BUCKET. 

The 7 Rings of Desire include the day to day as well as romantic getaways to fill the LOVE BUCKET.  You don’t need a destination to fill the love bucket.  Sometimes a simple getaway like a walk in the park shines up the DO WITH Ring of Desire of the Love Bucket. 

Filling the Love Bucket does not have to be expensive like a trip around the world.  Men, you can get inspired when you register for THE MAN CLASS whether you are dating, getting ready to propose and planning a night on the town or a romantic evening dining at home with candlelight.

The Love Bucket is a concept that will spark your unique inspiration when you understand the special rings of desire of your lady’s love bucket.

There are phases and seasons of love and several considerations in the Love Bucket concept. These are described in detail in The Man Class Accelerator.

You don’t have to be rich and famous to treat your lady like a queen. 

Simply creating the ambience with candles and filling up a bubble bath for your lady can an unparalleled experience if you have more attention waiting when she towels off. Creating couple time can turn your boudoir into an enchanted evening. It is recommended that you make your bedroom into a hideaway retreat with accessories to enhance your lovemaking.

A book of love poems, your special love potion lotion or cocktails and your own style of pillow talk accompanied by a full body massage would most definitely shine up the RED ring of desire of the love bucket.

When you allocate couple time you can laugh together fill each other’s love buckets of lasting memories of your time together when you are back at work or away.

But the love bucket is not just about romance and making love.

The love bucket is for a lifetime of love in a relationship with the ebb and flow of daily living. It is both the small and big things that fill the love bucket.

The good news is that you only need to know 3 or 4 of the top Rings of Desire. Fill her love bucket 80% of the time (Pareto Principle) and you’ll be her MASTERMAN!

Your love can become extraordinary when you fill her love bucket! Share love by filling the love bucket.  The love bucket does not overflow, the love bucket expands to receive more love!

You WIN, She’s HAPPY and THE LOVE BUCKET is FULL!

#lovebucket