Filling The Love Bucket is easy to do on Mother’s Day.  When you know her top rings of desire you simply shine them up and her love bucket starts to fill with love and happiness.

How will YOU fill HER LOVE BUCKET?

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Everything I love about you fills my love bucket!

We often speak of filling her love bucket.  The actual experience itself of loving another person a can fill The Love Bucket!

Having a feeling of gratitude for another person makes your chest swell and your heart fill with more love.

The amazing thing about The Love Bucket is that it expands to receive more love and never overflows. 

Filling The Love Bucket Works Both Ways!

When was the last time you took a lover’s stroll?  Perhaps to a favorite place, park, the beach, or romantic location?

A lover’s stroll is the perfect way to fill the love bucket when you hold hands or like the couple in the image below who are overlooking the ocean, holding each other to keep warm and feel connected.

Of the 7 Rings of Desire of The Love Bucket® the DO WITH Ring of Desire is about sharing time together.  It is not a matter of quality or quantity it is a matter of just doing what you want together. 

Including your lover in your life fills the love bucket.

Ask your lover, “Do you want to do it with me?” 

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The Love Bucket®, The Love Linguist® and several more recommended Facebook Pages – check them out and “LIKE”!

The Love Bucket®

http://facebook.com/thelovebucket

The Love Linguist®

http://facebook.com/lovelinguist

Lovematism

http://facebook.com/lovematism

Love Diplomat

http://facebook.com/lovediplomat

Mastermen

http://facebook.com/mastermen.org

Love Dynamics

http://facebook.com/lovedynamics

Sexual Dynamics (18+) – clean but topic raises eyebrows

http://facebook.com/sexdynamics

Drive Her Desire (18+) – clean but topic raises eyebrows

http://facebook.com/driveherdesire

Filling HER love bucket focuses on a woman’s desires.  A demonstration of affection in the form of hugs and kisses is often welcomed by your lover.  Of course, that only works when you are in physical proximity.

The Contact Ring of Desire of The Love Bucket® can provide a modern approach to the desire for hugs and kisses. Your mobile phone can provide contact as you reach and and touch someone you love with a text message or video chat.  it doesn’t matter where you are in the world, your mobile device or internet connection via skype, google chat, IM can bring your closer together.

When was the last time you filled The Love Bucket® with hugs and kisses?  Experience the simple pleasure with no other plan except to enjoy the art of kissing and sharing a hug?

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He is proud and publicly making the declaration of love (this was planned) and filling his bride’s Love Bucket!  

He changes his relationship status on Facebook right after his wedding vows in church!  Dana and Tracy, bride and groom

Dana also pulled out the bride’s phone and to handed it to her to update her status Facebook Relationship Status via mobile. Big News!

The Minister at Mountain Christian Church in Joppa, MD said “If it is official on Facebook, it is official in my book” (and he married the couple).

Facebook has entered our personal life, careers, and relationship status. What you see does not always fill The Love Bucket®!

How do you become “Facebook Official” with your relationship status? You either initiate or receive a pending relationship request. If your relationship partner accepts you become “Facebook Official” and make your relationship known to the rest of Facebook. Relationship Status gets high ratings in the Facebook news stream.

There’s a company that focuses on grabbing public posts about Facebook.  These are: Relationship Facebook statuses for your profile page. Funny Facebook status updates about love, romance and other Facebook statuses to make your page stand out. Our Facebook statuses collection is always fresh as we are updating our Facebook statuses database every few minutes, so you can get fresh funny Facebook statuses every time.

Public expression is one of the considerations of filling The Love Bucket. The phenomena of Facebook relationship statuses and matter to a lot of people because it shows a level of commitment. If your significant other does not want to have their relationship status posted on Facebook it may appear ambiguous and may cause because of the woeful sense of lack of commitment in a public forum.

“Deciding whether to become ”Facebook official” has replaced the traditional ” ‘relationship talk’ ” per Noam Cohen in an article by in the New York Times.

Michelle Mannino says, “Having your relationship status on Facebook can show a level of commitment in a relationship, and provide a secure feeling for couples. For some people, it’s just a script-the normal thing to do when a relationship gets taken to the next level. For others, the idea of self-disclosing information to the rest of Facebook is exciting, yet not so traditional. Given this knowledge of relationship statuses and the impression they have on people, it is important to understand that factors like, commitment, scripts, and self-disclosure have a large play on the decision to become “Facebook Official”. ”

So what happens when two people are in the relationship dating business together and only one of them shows a relationship status?

Great women love great men who don’t make their relationship status official? Hmm… where are the priorities of a great man loving a great woman who’s in the dating business who will not publicly share his status on Facebook?

There is nothing private about Facebook.  Even if you think it is your words, photos, and relationship status are public and available for comment.  Mismatched relationship status brings an alert to friends who, may, wonder what is REALLY going on???

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What Does Your Relationship Say About You?

The Love Bucket® concept has more than once been confused with Gary Chapman’s “Love Languages” because love in a relationship must be sustained and “filled.” Filling The Love Bucket® is the theme here on the Love Bucket Blog.

As The Love Linguist® the link between language and linguistics further creates confusion. So let’s look at similarities and clear up the confusion.

Here are the five main ideas with the Gary’s languages: words, quality time, gifts, acts of service, physical touch.

Gary’s main ideas do relate to the 7 Rings of Desire® of The Love Bucket® in several ways because the emotion of love is well established and there are unifying and dominant themes of love.

The romantic concepts of The Love Bucket® include the 7 Rings of Desire® and they also apply to relating to other people outside of intimate relationships, in particular the Recognition Ring of Desire.

Included with 7 Rings of Desire® is Sex because The Love Linguist® feels the boudoir is part of intimacy, as well as the Lifestyle Ring of Desire. Neither sex or lifestyle are referred to specifically in Chapman’s love languages perhaps because he is a minister and his lifestyle path is set and he only refers to sex saying not to confuse it with physical touch. The Love Linguist® contends that  physical touch if done with the right timing and intention can lead to beautiful love making. The Sex Ring of Desire is very important.  Chapman reserves sex for married couples.

Separate from the 7 Rings of Desire® of The Love Bucket® are the 5 Love Dynamics. That is a completely different program that goes from dating to cultivating in an intimate relationship.

As of The Love Linguist®, I agree with Chapman’s theory that as individuals we all seek emotional affirmation in a variety of ways. These are desires and with the 7 Rings of Desire® there are preferences and often three to four top desires not just one. It is about what we desire and value that when received, fills The Love Bucket®.

Again, I agree with Gary, that one of the elements of a healthy relationship is to have each lover understand and fill the emotional needs of the other. He says it is by speaking a love language, I say it is by filling The Love Bucket® with your lovers top desire. How Gary and The Love Linguist® define these needs are somewhat different.

People tend to assume, project and act the way they want to receive love. They value in a particular fashion and automatically act that same way and therefore treat their husband, wife, boyfriend, girlfriend, lover, or partner as they would like to be treated. The Platinum Rule of Love is the opposite. See the Platinum Rule of Love here: http://platinumruleoflove.com/

Lifestyle is one of the most important aspects and when it comes to The Love Bucket® is it the core to the 7 Rings of Desire®.  Like Chapman, the lifestyle that includes a spiritual path (spiritual mysticism) in your shared lifestyle is defined by The Love Linguist® in lovematism. 

As an example, if a man’s desire for love is recognition in the form of respect or encouraging words, then he might assume that his lover values the same which would make him keep saying how much he appreciates her.  He thinks “I’m filling her love bucket” but she’s feeling unappreciated because she values another Ring of Desire, let’s say, the Lifestyle Ring of Desire.  She’s smart and knows it’s easy for a guy to tell her how pretty and smart she is (words are overrated to her!). Sadly, her Lifestyle Ring of Desire is left unfulfilled, tarnished and her love bucket is not full. So guys take The Man Class and get the details on filling her love bucket!

The Love Bucket® concept works when you understand your lover’s desires and emotional needs and take the right action to keep The Love Bucket® full.

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Is it really possible that the behavior stemming from our own thoughts may manifest in the people around us especially when it comes to our love relationships?

Heisenberg’s principle states that objects, including human ones, are changed somehow by the very act of being observed.  By projecting your intellisense into a situation you change it.

Henry Grayson said, “David Bohm helped me understand that the reality we perceive is a tiny fraction of the universe as it really exists. At an invisible level, everything and everyone is interconnected in a most profound way, not only as human beings but as energy, mind, and matter."

It appears that Bohm, the innovative physicist and author of Quantum Theory had an impact beyond science.

By turning attention away from our lovers and onto ourselves we begin to make love a path of enlightenment. "If the purpose of relationships is understood to be cultivating our own true nature and supporting our partners in finding theirs then the label we place on the form love takes becomes secondary," says Grayson.

The real remedy is to be conscious and practice self-awareness beyond base physical needs. When you consider further than yourself and your immediate family and friends (an extension of you) you are then entering the realm of the Omni-mindset.

Grayson says. Infatuation, the need to control, confusing love with worry, ensnaring someone as "special"—these are signs that ego, rather than heart, is driving a relationship. The big giveaway to ego-based love, however, is the spoiling presence of fear. Terrified by the threat of loss, we often fulfill our own prophecies. In ego-based love the greatest fear is losing the other person or losing your own self-identity.

Grayson recorded "The New Physics of Love" audios and he offers advice on how to apply this cosmic law to our everyday lives. By learning to better navigate our mental terrain, we’re better able to choose how we think about our world and to alter the frame through which we perceive our lives, ourselves, and our challenging love relationships. This is The Thinking Person’s Guide to Love and Intimacy.

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Received in a forwarded email might fill The Love Bucket® with a laugh or two for you.

ENJOY!

__________

First guy says, ‘My wife’s an angel!’

Second guy remarks, ‘You’re lucky, mine’s still alive.’

__________

Marriage is the triumph of imagination over intelligence.

__________

A young son asked,

‘Is it true Dad, that in some parts of Africa
A man doesn’t know his wife until he marries her?’

Dad replied, ‘That happens in every country, son.’

__________

A little boy asked his father,

‘Daddy, how much does it cost to get married?’

Father replied, ‘I don’t know son, I’m still paying.’

___________

You have two choices in life:

You can stay single and be miserable,

Or get married and wish you were dead.

__________

At a cocktail party, one woman said to another, ‘Aren’t you wearing your wedding ring on the wrong finger?’

‘Yes, I am. I married the wrong man.’

__________

A lady inserted an ad in the classifieds:

‘Husband Wanted’.

Next day she received a hundred letters.

They all said the same thing:

‘You can have mine.’

__________

When a woman steals your husband,

There is no better revenge than to let her keep him.

__________

A woman is incomplete until she is married. Then she is finished.

__________

Then there was a woman who said,

‘I never knew what real happiness was until I got married, And by then, it was too late.’

__________

If you want your spouse to listen and

Pay strict attention to every word you say — talk in your sleep.

__________

Just think, if it weren’t for marriage, men would go through life thinking they had no faults at all.

__________

‘A Woman’s Prayer:

Dear Lord, I pray for: Wisdom, To understand a man, to Love and to forgive him, and for patience, For his moods. Because Lord, if I pray for Strength I’ll just beat him to death’

__________

AND NOW FOR A TWO EXTRA BITS!!!

Husband and wife are waiting at the bus stop with their nine children. A blind man joins them after a few minutes. When the bus arrives, they find it overloaded and only the wife and the nine kids are able to fit onto the bus.

So the husband and the blind man decide to walk. After a while, the husband gets irritated by the ticking of the stick of the blind man as he taps it on the sidewalk, and says to him, ‘Why don’t you put a piece of rubber at the end of your stick? That ticking sound is driving me crazy.’

The blind man replies, ‘If you had put a rubber at the end of YOUR stick, we’d be riding the bus, so shut up.’

__________

Another joke received in an email:

A married man was having an affair with his secretary.
One day they went to her place and made love all afternoon.
Exhausted, they fell asleep and woke up at 8 PM.
The man hurriedly dressed and told his lover to take his shoes outside and rub them in the grass and dirt.
He put on his shoes and drove home.
‘Where have you been?’ his wife demanded.
‘I can’t lie to you,’ he replied,
‘I’m having an affair with my secretary. We had sex all afternoon.’
She looked down at his shoes and said:
‘You lying bastard! You’ve been playing golf!’

NOTE:

These are not the viewpoints of The Love Bucket® blog and these jokes are provided solely for your entertainment.