Finding the Perfect Girlfriend and Fill Her Love Bucket

Sunday, March 11th, 2012 Posted in Dating, Mating, Relating, Her Love Bucket | No Comments »

Finding the Perfect Girlfriend and Fill Her Love Bucket

If you don’t have a girlfriend, you can’t fill her love bucket.  But, you can find a perfect girlfriend if you know the 15 clues to watch out for.

How to Spot and Cultivate an Extraordinary Girlfriend

You can watch the webinar replay click the image above.
It’s available now – only – until Monday at 12pm EST. 

In this webinar, we discussed:

? The 15 tell-tale characteristics of amazing girlfriend material

? How to enflame her imagination with new possibilities and lead her deeper

? How to instantly gain trust and leadership

? How to guide a beautiful girl into girlfriend mode with you

Again, if you are looking to end cycles of dating and attract a

truly amazing partner, then this webinar is your starting line.

Watch the webinar replay.  And if Adam has space left –
apply for a free consultation afterwards.

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Attention all Bay Area Ballers…

Adam will be in San Francisco Monday evening for a special one evening only

INTENSIVE Speed Coaching Session over dinner and afterwards.

Bring your online profiles.

Bring a clear breakdown on:

1. What is working for you

2. What are your biggest exterior obstacles

3. What are your biggest internal obstacles

4. What is your vision of the intimacy and dating life you DREAM of (just how you want to fill her love bucket)

5. What are the steps you think you need to get there…

And we will drill down on each of these and advance you with

hard-nosed, practical actions you can take to get you into the life

you really want.

There is no delaying for happiness.

Don’t wait 5 or 10 or 20 years to be happy.

If you are interested, send me your name and phone number to

AdamGilad [at] gmail.com and he’ll give you the details.

See you in San Francisco

On behalf of,

Adam Gilad

Love Bucket: The Only Pick-Up Line You’ll Ever Need

Saturday, February 18th, 2012 Posted in Attention, Dating, Mating, Relating, The Man Class Series | No Comments »

In The Man Class Accelerator, there is an awesome interview with Stephen Nash, known as Playboy in the book, The Game.

Now, The Man Class is not simply about dating and picking up women.  In fact, The Man Class is about keeping a good woman happy and filling her love bucket.

Valentine’s is over and the pressure is off, so to speak, but dating continues.  You have to meet her first to fill her love bucket.

To begin dating, a guy needs to have a great conversation starter or pick up line. Your opener is important.  It is the way that you give and get her attention.

Stephen has one that he says works about 90% of the  time.  He said that he grew so weary of the mass amounts of pick up lines and gimmicks that he developed a very simple, elegant and smooth way of approaching women in any/all circumstances.  The following is in Stephen’s own words:

That’s it.

TRY THIS FOR YOURSELF.

Why does it work so well? 

A few reasons:

1) You aren’t overtly hitting on her.  All you say is that you “noticed” her which always piques her interest.  Inevitably, she will reply to your statement with “Well, what did you notice?” (so, be ready for that).

2) You pace the reality of this being slightly awkward and different when you say “risk complete embarrassment”.  She will relax when you say this as it confirms to her that you are aware that this is not the norm.

3) You tell her your name, which is polite WHILE patting yourself on the back a bit by honoring the fact that this is a “risk”.

Does this phrase automatically insure that you get a date with her?  Of course not.  But it does guarantee that you get a conversation with her around 90% of the time.  Women respond to direct, romantic gestures very well…if you do this technique, you will see what I mean.

Being direct conveys a lot of REALLY GOOD things to women.  And, I have found that this technique is the only romantic pick up line that isn’t terribly cheesy and that truly, actually works.

Try it!

And here’s a list of places to meet women that does not include a bar or club:

1. Seminars/Events

2. Dog Parks

3. Concerts

4. Home Depot

5. Plane or Train Travel

6. Online Chat and Networking

7. Sporting Events

8. 8 at 8 Dinner Party for 8 Strangers

Checkout http://www.eightateight.com/  This site also lists modern pickup lines if you think you need more ammunition than Stephen Nash’s solid one above.

1. “Hey, I love your shoes (or handbag, or coat, etc.)!” Who doesn’t love being complimented?! This is an easy, non-awkward way to start conversation and get brownie points at the same time.

2. “Hi, I would love to get you a drink.” Perfect for when you spot someone in a bar setting. It’s simple and direct. Try not to sound cheesy…it’s pretty easy with this one. And PLEASE, take “no” for an answer. Persistence is not the key here, it just weirds people out and makes everyone uncomfortable.

3. “What kind of dog is that?” Everyone loves talking about their little pal. It shows you’re interested and instantly gives you something to talk about. As e-Harmony says, if you’re feeling brave/witty, add “Does he/she have a phone number?”

4. “Are you single?” I agree, this sounds scary and forward. But after working for a matchmaker, and actually USING this line in real life, I can assure you it’s not as awkward as you might think. If you ask with your most charming smile and maybe even with a little laugh (like you know this is very direct, but you’re going for it!) then if the answer is “no,” most people will be impressed with your straightforward approach.

5. “Nice to meet you, I’m ____ and you’re beautiful!” With a lot of people, flattery will get you everywhere. This approach is again, very direct, but could also brighten someone’s day and your chances of grabbing a date.

7. “How much does a polar bear weight? Enough to break the ice!” This classic, marginally cheesy pickup line is actually pretty sweet and funny. Who doesn’t enjoy a joke? This can show you don’t take yourself TOO seriously, which in the dating world is definitely a plus.

8. “Excuse me, but you have something on your face,” (when she goes to wipe it off stop her and say) “No, no leave it. It’s beauty.” Ok, this actually made me laugh out loud. Yes, it’s super cheesy, but if a cutie came up to me and said this, I don’t think I could resist. Actually, I might start using this. Watch out, boys!

Basically, most of these fun and direct pickup lines are a great way to start the conversation and involve that person you’ve been eyeing.

Love Bucket: Ex-Homeless Guy Gets The Girl (his trick inside)

Monday, January 23rd, 2012 Posted in Dating, Mating, Relating, Masterman, Mastermen, The Love Bucket® | No Comments »

 

Ex-Homeless Guy Gets The Girl

Several years ago, as the story goes,

co-founder of now successful MLM,

David Woods, was in a natural health

food store grabbing a quick bite to eat

when….

….the sparkle glimmering off the

face of a girl caught his attention

and consumed him almost instantly.

She was sitting with another man -

obviously her boyfriend – enjoying

lunch and good conversation.

Dave felt his chest tighten up.

Emotion rushed through his veins.

A compelling urge inside him made it

impossible to walk out the door of the

store without saying something to her.

So he mustered up the guts to walk

over….and at the very last minute, he

swerved – and walked away.

"Wussie" he muttered to himself.

He started to walk back over and

again – at the last minute, he swerved.

Sweat puddled up in his hands and

started to bead on his forehead.

His chest was pounding.

The wrinkled dress shirt he was wearing

was sticking to his back.

"Screw it!" he exclaimed.

He walked straight over and said……

"I know you two are together, and I

don’t mean to be rude….but I think

you are the most beautiful girl in the

world…."

"We’re not together…" she said.

"He’s just a friend."

A short period of time later, they

were married.

Everyday people walk away from

situations that could be a defining

moment in their lives.

Don’t walk away, seize your moment.

Don’t be a wussie.

Stop over thinking it.

The results are right there when you have the confidence to act.

Be a Masterman and fill her love bucket!

Check out the interview and Carlos Xuma’s program to
make this happen for you!

Love Bucket List: Has Facebook Caused Us To Change Our Dating Patterns?

Tuesday, January 17th, 2012 Posted in Dating, Mating, Relating, Romance, Social Dating | 1 Comment »

Has Facebook Caused You To Change Your Dating Patterns?

Do you have an entry on your love bucket list of a wish for your date to ‘friend you Facebook’ and to change Facebook relationship status to “in a relationship”?  Is your social dating life and relationship life on your love bucket list?

Here’s a Facebook Relationship Status Post and Comments about Facebook and Dating (images and names removed)

Post: Is FACEBOOK a friend or foe in the early stages of a relationship (and why), how can FACEBOOK be used for a higher good? When to "friend" someone you met organically or on a dating site, when to change your relationship status, using Facebook as a background check, stalking a past relationship or even spying on a current date.

Comment 1 facebook can be a very slippery slope when part of romantic relationships in many ways…

33 minutes ago · Like · 2

Comment 2 one of the biggest deficits I see is it circumvents actual conversations and can result in a lot of projection and assumptions

32 minutes ago · Like · 3

Comment 3 I see nothing wrong with looking at a past or present’s Facebook page. That’s just curiosity. I see a big problem with creating a fake profile and acting in an obsessive manner. A slippery slope indeed.

28 minutes ago · Like · 4

Comment 4 I really hate the relationship status feature….I have hidden mine for now ….waiting for the divorce to happen and plan to fix it in the middle of the night when no one is up LOL! I will never use that feature again. so much on Face Book isn’t real I would hate to use it for any real measure against any future relationship I may have. I try to keep things fun on here, after all, my kid is a "friend" and that helps me tow the line!

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Comment 5 name – good observations. It can be wonderful as a way to connect initially and ongoing but no way is it, for me, as good as or ato replacement for direct connection voice to voice or especially in person.

27 minutes ago · Like · 1

Comment 6 Auto correct thinks "ato" is a word lol.

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Comment 7 Just a side note….one thing my ex did do when Yoville (Facebook app) was popular. He did go to my fake "pad" and leave a box of chocolates…..It was nice to know he was thinking about me (then again, he could have been stalking!)

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Comment 8 I’ve toyed with the idea of telling anyone I’m dating "I will not friend you on facebook, nor will I text back and forth on any "relationship" subject". I might friend them once the relationship is well established, but not in the beginning… too much potential drama.

25 minutes ago · Like · 7

Comment 9 I think it is an excellent platform to launch relationships and from then on it’s not about FACEBOOK at all. It’s fun and that’s all it is….but it does turn us into snoops sometimes.

23 minutes ago · Like · 3

Comment 10 I have a line on my online profile that says "No lateral moves to Facebook or iChat" !!!!!!

19 minutes ago · Like · 2

Comment 11 Plus, my facebook profile is my home… lots and lots of personal information there (including exposure to my children). I’m very selective about who I friend. I also think it can be too much info, too soon when just starting to learn about someone. Best to let some of the life details unfold more gradually…

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Comment 12 Love it name!!!

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Comment 13 Foe when comments with others appear inappropriate…or when there is never a recognition given to a partner, yet the person is definitely on FACEBOOK. It can certainly be used for the higher good when there is still an occasional endearing acknowledgment of your partner….if not just to let people know that your partner is actually important to you.

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Comment 14 That’s a wee bit hostile name..just don’t say anything about it. You either will or you won’t.

17 minutes ago · Like

Comment 15 If you use your privacy options and blocking option correctly non one will be able to spy on anyone.

16 minutes ago · Like

Comment 16 I think too many people want to "e-maintain" vs. engage. I’m with name, if you want to get to know me, man up and do so in the real world..

15 minutes ago · Like · 2

Comment 17 Any "drama" that happens is caused by issues that need to be dealt with anyway – facebook just reveals them faster and more blatantly. Better to shine the light on it all I say. You have to really be ready for an intimate relationship though.

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Comment 18 However, some people don’t deal as well with that bright light but need more baby steps and softer lighting for facing those demons, name. Doesn’t mean they aren’t ready, they just aren’t ready for THAT much exposure so quickly.

12 minutes ago · Like · 1

Comment 19 I would say they’re not quite ready then for an *intimate* relationship but may be well on their way… in a relationship and easing toward intimacy…

6 minutes ago · Like · 1

Comment 20 Nothing wrong with that either…

4 minutes ago · Like · 1

Comment 11 I never ever friend anyone I am dating– -or potentially dating– on FACEBOOK

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Comment 22 It is what it us. FACEBOOK is here to stay. What I find interesting is married couples who don’t friend with the spouse. I always thought that was not cool. Having privacy is one thing, but privacy from your primary partner when the rest of the world is allowed to see doesn’t make sense. The spy factor is a bit invasive but then it does allow you to see your potential partner and vice versa being their true selves! If they can’t be trusted, or IF YOU can’t be trusted, it’s gonna reveal itself one way or the other. Why not here?

Love Bucket List: Is Facebook on your love bucket list when dating? Has Facebook Caused You To Change Your Dating Patterns? See previous article on what’s on your Love Bucket List here

The Love Bucket: Relationship Dating Exposed

Wednesday, December 21st, 2011 Posted in Seduction, SEX, Sex Sells | No Comments »

The Love Bucket: Relationship Dating Exposed

Some women wonder why they get hit on all the time.  Yes, they are beautiful.  Yes, they are sexy.  Yes, they have an air of confidence and some mystique.

Today A Gal Wrote – “Real Talk: If you hit on me and I am forced to tell you I am not interested, please do not ask why because it puts me in an awkward position to try to position my words so I don’t hurt your feelings. If I answer it diplomatically don’t keep asking more "whys" because THEN I am not accountable for what I say further. Why do people do this? If a guy tells me he is not interested trust me, I am experienced enough to know BETTER than to ask why? Cause I know possibly my feelings are about to be hurt. LOL”

Here is her profile below and photos – very exposing.  Asking for the male with a b-spot brain that is visually stimulated to not notice breasts, skin, and almost nakedness is, well simply ridiculous.

Thoughts of sugar plums and filling her love bucket goes through his head!

With a photo like this a guy just wants to fill her love bucket!