Everything I love about you fills my love bucket!

Everything I love about you fills my love bucket!

We often speak of filling her love bucket.  The actual experience itself of loving another person a can fill The Love Bucket!

Having a feeling of gratitude for another person makes your chest swell and your heart fill with more love.

The amazing thing about The Love Bucket is that it expands to receive more love and never overflows. 

Filling The Love Bucket Works Both Ways!

Lover’s Stroll Fills The Love Bucket®

Lover’s Stroll Fills The Love Bucket

When was the last time you took a lover’s stroll?  Perhaps to a favorite place, park, the beach, or romantic location?

A lover’s stroll is the perfect way to fill the love bucket when you hold hands or like the couple in the image below who are overlooking the ocean, holding each other to keep warm and feel connected.

Of the 7 Rings of Desire of The Love Bucket® the DO WITH Ring of Desire is about sharing time together.  It is not a matter of quality or quantity it is a matter of just doing what you want together. 

Including your lover in your life fills the love bucket.

Ask your lover, “Do you want to do it with me?” 

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Kisses and Hugs Fill The Love Bucket®

The Love Bucket® is a concept that is important for sustaining a healthy relationship with your lover in a romantic relationship.  If you are married, just thinking of your marriage as a relationship is the first place to start.

Filling HER love bucket focuses on a woman’s desires.  A demonstration of affection in the form of hugs and kisses is often welcomed by your lover.  Of course, that only works when you are in physical proximity.

The Contact Ring of Desire of The Love Bucket® can provide a modern approach to the desire for hugs and kisses. Your mobile phone can provide contact as you reach and and touch someone you love with a text message or video chat.  it doesn’t matter where you are in the world, your mobile device or internet connection via skype, google chat, IM can bring your closer together.

When was the last time you filled The Love Bucket® with hugs and kisses?  Experience the simple pleasure with no other plan except to enjoy the art of kissing and sharing a hug?

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The Love Bucket® and Love Languages

The Love Bucket® and Love Language

The Love Bucket® concept has more than once been confused with Gary Chapman’s “Love Languages” because love in a relationship must be sustained and “filled.” Filling The Love Bucket® is the theme here on the Love Bucket Blog.

As The Love Linguist® the link between language and linguistics further creates confusion. So let’s look at similarities and clear up the confusion.

Here are the five main ideas with the Gary’s languages: words, quality time, gifts, acts of service, physical touch.

Gary’s main ideas do relate to the 7 Rings of Desire® of The Love Bucket® in several ways because the emotion of love is well established and there are unifying and dominant themes of love.

The romantic concepts of The Love Bucket® include the 7 Rings of Desire® and they also apply to relating to other people outside of intimate relationships, in particular the Recognition Ring of Desire.

Included with 7 Rings of Desire® is Sex because The Love Linguist® feels the boudoir is part of intimacy, as well as the Lifestyle Ring of Desire. Neither sex or lifestyle are referred to specifically in Chapman’s love languages perhaps because he is a minister and his lifestyle path is set and he only refers to sex saying not to confuse it with physical touch. The Love Linguist® contends that  physical touch if done with the right timing and intention can lead to beautiful love making. The Sex Ring of Desire is very important.  Chapman reserves sex for married couples.

Separate from the 7 Rings of Desire® of The Love Bucket® are the 5 Love Dynamics. That is a completely different program that goes from dating to cultivating in an intimate relationship.

As of The Love Linguist®, I agree with Chapman’s theory that as individuals we all seek emotional affirmation in a variety of ways. These are desires and with the 7 Rings of Desire® there are preferences and often three to four top desires not just one. It is about what we desire and value that when received, fills The Love Bucket®.

Again, I agree with Gary, that one of the elements of a healthy relationship is to have each lover understand and fill the emotional needs of the other. He says it is by speaking a love language, I say it is by filling The Love Bucket® with your lovers top desire. How Gary and The Love Linguist® define these needs are somewhat different.

People tend to assume, project and act the way they want to receive love. They value in a particular fashion and automatically act that same way and therefore treat their husband, wife, boyfriend, girlfriend, lover, or partner as they would like to be treated. The Platinum Rule of Love is the opposite. See the Platinum Rule of Love here: http://platinumruleoflove.com/

Lifestyle is one of the most important aspects and when it comes to The Love Bucket® is it the core to the 7 Rings of Desire®.  Like Chapman, the lifestyle that includes a spiritual path (spiritual mysticism) in your shared lifestyle is defined by The Love Linguist® in lovematism. 

As an example, if a man’s desire for love is recognition in the form of respect or encouraging words, then he might assume that his lover values the same which would make him keep saying how much he appreciates her.  He thinks “I’m filling her love bucket” but she’s feeling unappreciated because she values another Ring of Desire, let’s say, the Lifestyle Ring of Desire.  She’s smart and knows it’s easy for a guy to tell her how pretty and smart she is (words are overrated to her!). Sadly, her Lifestyle Ring of Desire is left unfulfilled, tarnished and her love bucket is not full. So guys take The Man Class and get the details on filling her love bucket!

The Love Bucket® concept works when you understand your lover’s desires and emotional needs and take the right action to keep The Love Bucket® full.

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The Love Bucket®, Love Biochemicals and the Omni-Mindset

The Love Bucket®, Love Biochemicals and the Omni-Mindset

Is it really possible that the behavior stemming from our own thoughts may manifest in the people around us especially when it comes to our love relationships?

Heisenberg’s principle states that objects, including human ones, are changed somehow by the very act of being observed.  By projecting your intellisense into a situation you change it.

Henry Grayson said, “David Bohm helped me understand that the reality we perceive is a tiny fraction of the universe as it really exists. At an invisible level, everything and everyone is interconnected in a most profound way, not only as human beings but as energy, mind, and matter."

It appears that Bohm, the innovative physicist and author of Quantum Theory had an impact beyond science.

By turning attention away from our lovers and onto ourselves we begin to make love a path of enlightenment. "If the purpose of relationships is understood to be cultivating our own true nature and supporting our partners in finding theirs then the label we place on the form love takes becomes secondary," says Grayson.

The real remedy is to be conscious and practice self-awareness beyond base physical needs. When you consider further than yourself and your immediate family and friends (an extension of you) you are then entering the realm of the Omni-mindset.

Grayson says. Infatuation, the need to control, confusing love with worry, ensnaring someone as "special"—these are signs that ego, rather than heart, is driving a relationship. The big giveaway to ego-based love, however, is the spoiling presence of fear. Terrified by the threat of loss, we often fulfill our own prophecies. In ego-based love the greatest fear is losing the other person or losing your own self-identity.

Grayson recorded "The New Physics of Love" audios and he offers advice on how to apply this cosmic law to our everyday lives. By learning to better navigate our mental terrain, we’re better able to choose how we think about our world and to alter the frame through which we perceive our lives, ourselves, and our challenging love relationships. This is The Thinking Person’s Guide to Love and Intimacy.

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